Hi Anu, I am working in a central psu and my wife works for state govt and both are 48 yrs. We are married for 20 yrs and have 2 sons (20 &16). She is never expressive nor vocal, because of this our marital relationship have not seen even a single day of happiness. Her parents never ever made her realised that problem can be from her side too nor asked me even a single time whats is bothering me. She is over ambitious in her job and neglects everything in the personal life. This negligence started from the day 1 of the married life. She never try to understand the problem and reasons behind and just ignore and move ahead. This makes life miserable and likewise 20 yrs passed.. Its like when sons are moving out of home, I feel very much alone and sometimes feels to runaway from life...She dont show any emotions, giving the reasons that its her nature...She says loves me, but whats that love which is not felt by me for a single day...I wanted a wife not a nurse.. What to do....I lost my hope of life.

Ans: Your current investments reflect clarity and structure.

It’s good to see your Rs. 1.2 crore mutual fund portfolio is well spread.

The Rs. 50,000 monthly SIP also shows strong financial discipline.

The Rs. 1.3 crore home loan with an increasing EMI in 2 years needs attention.

Your Rs. 50 lakh surplus gives you both flexibility and opportunity.

Let’s look at your options from a 360-degree financial planning lens.

We will explore four important areas:

– Debt management
– Investment suitability
– Portfolio structure
– Contingency planning

Let’s begin.

Loan Management – Reduce or Retain?
Your current EMI of Rs. 80,000 will go up to Rs. 1.2 lakh in two years.

Home loan rates may not go down significantly in short term.

You still have time to reduce the loan burden if needed.

Prepaying some loan amount now can reduce future EMI pressure.

You may also negotiate with the bank to restructure or reduce interest.

But don’t use full Rs. 50 lakh for loan prepayment.

Keeping liquidity is more important than full loan clearance.

Best strategy: Use 20–25 lakh for part prepayment.

This brings interest outgo under control.

It also brings mental peace before EMI rises.

Balance Rs. 25–30 lakh should be retained for investing purpose.

Investment Route – Where to Use Rs. 25–30 Lakh?
You already have Rs. 1.2 crore in mutual funds.

SIP of Rs. 50,000 per month is already active.

Your portfolio shows good mix: large, mid, small cap and gold.

No need to add more mutual fund categories now.

Instead, strengthen exposure in same structure.

Fresh lump sum must be staggered in tranches.

Use STP (Systematic Transfer Plan) for this.

Park Rs. 25–30 lakh in a good ultra-short duration fund.

Then transfer Rs. 1.5–2 lakh monthly into your current equity funds.

This way, you reduce market risk while entering.

Don’t go for direct funds even if expense ratio is less.

Regular funds through Certified Financial Planner give better guidance.

You gain personalised help, behavioural correction and fund review.

Direct plan investors often miss these, and returns suffer.

You should continue all your current SIPs.

Don’t introduce new schemes without specific purpose.

Also avoid exotic themes like international, thematic, sectoral funds.

They carry concentration risk and timing risk.

Asset Allocation Review – Balance Equity with Safety
98% of your mutual fund portfolio is in equity.

This is aggressive, and suitable only for long-term goals.

But now with large home loan and rising EMI, safety is key.

Allocate a part of your Rs. 50 lakh to safe products.

This ensures peace of mind and emergency coverage.

Choose short-term debt funds with high-quality papers.

Fixed deposits are fine for very short-term needs.

Avoid NCDs and corporate bonds without credit rating comfort.

Don't chase high returns from unlisted or private bonds.

Your core portfolio should balance return with stability.

Aim for 80:20 ratio between equity and safety instruments now.

Avoid Real Estate as Investment Route
You already have an under-construction property.

Real estate is illiquid and needs high maintenance.

Buying land or more property locks capital without regular returns.

Rental yield is also low. Liquidity during crisis is zero.

You also face risks like legal delays, registration cost, capital gain tax.

Avoid investing your surplus Rs. 50 lakh into any land.

Let your investments remain flexible, safe and growth-oriented.

Tax Perspective – Be Aware of Capital Gains Tax
Equity mutual fund gains up to Rs. 1.25 lakh are tax-free yearly.

Beyond that, long-term gains are taxed at 12.5%.

Short-term gains are taxed at 20%.

Don’t redeem in bulk to avoid higher taxation.

Plan withdrawals during non-working years or post-retirement.

For debt funds, taxation is per your income slab.

Choose investments where taxation suits your slab.

Consult your tax expert once a year to rebalance smartly.

Contingency Planning – Emergency and Safety Check
Check if your emergency fund covers 12 months expenses.

You are already committing Rs. 80k EMI monthly.

In 2 years, it will go up by 50%.

In case of job loss or income dip, EMI stress may arise.

Always keep Rs. 8–10 lakh as emergency reserve.

Use sweep-in FDs or ultra-short debt funds for this.

Make sure health insurance and term insurance are adequate.

Any sudden illness or job risk shouldn’t break your portfolio.

Children’s Future – Start Goal-Based Planning
If you have children, plan now for education.

Use a separate SIP for child goal if not done already.

Select balanced or hybrid equity funds for child goals.

This provides growth with lower volatility.

Avoid child ULIPs or traditional insurance plans.

They are low-return and poor liquidity options.

If you hold any of them, consider surrender and reinvest into mutual funds.

Avoid Index Funds – Here’s Why
Index funds only mimic markets, not beat them.

You don’t get downside protection in falling markets.

Actively managed funds aim to outperform benchmarks.

In India, skilled fund managers can still beat index returns.

You miss expert judgement in index approach.

Also, same returns mean less room for alpha generation.

Stick to active funds under regular plans with a Certified Financial Planner.

Portfolio Monitoring – Keep Regular Reviews
Track your SIPs and lump sum investments quarterly.

See which funds are lagging beyond 2–3 years.

Don’t rush to exit due to 6-month poor return.

Use Certified Financial Planner to reallocate, not switch randomly.

Make goals-based buckets: home EMI, retirement, child education.

Link each fund to a goal. Track progress. Rebalance once a year.

Stay invested during market dips. That’s when wealth is built.

Finally – What You Should Do Now
Use Rs. 20–25 lakh to partly prepay the home loan.

Use Rs. 25–30 lakh for investment through STP into your current mutual funds.

Don’t add new fund types unless your goals demand.

Stay with regular mutual funds. Avoid direct mode and index funds.

Create safety net through short-term debt funds and FDs.

Maintain emergency fund. Avoid real estate or land purchases.

Monitor all funds quarterly. Rebalance annually with a planner’s support.

Keep discipline, avoid over-diversification, and stay goal focused.

You’re already doing well. Now, strengthen the base further.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment