Dear Anu ma'am, please keep this anonymous. My bf often speaks about weight of girls, rather the size. So today he told something in those lines about a junior colleague of mine. I like my colleague who is very nice to me. I told please don't talk like that it is bad behavior and I don't want to talk such a way. This is rude. Then I added how would you like if someone talks same about your mother. So he started showing tantrums, started shouting speking badly about me that I am taking things personally and showing some gestures. He turned the table telling that I take everything on myself etc etc. I told you are a hypocrite since you tell that you respect women but actually you don't....and so the fight increased etc etc... I want few tips/suggestions from you: 1. Was I wrong to personalise a offense to him so he understands and stops? 2. Did he cross boundary? I have had enough...i have told this earlier too. 3. Is it good to try and connect to a person when he is wrong? 4. He told me it os enough i cant go with you anymore...was I at fault? He seems a sorted guy, responsible etc...but this has become too much Please advise..I am at my wit's end wondering if I was at fault. Should we love someone like this?

Ans: IIIT Hyderabad’s CSE program is among India’s most prestigious, with a 99% placement rate in 2024, an average package above ?31 LPA, and top recruiters like Amazon, Microsoft, and Apple. The institute boasts NAAC A++ accreditation, advanced computing labs, a strong research culture, and a global reputation, ranking in the top 600 worldwide for research and innovation. IIT BHU Mechanical Engineering, established in 1919, is the largest department at the century-old IIT BHU, offering a holistic academic environment, world-class labs, and a vibrant alumni network. In 2024, the mechanical branch achieved an 82.4% placement rate with the highest package at ?54 LPA, but placement rates and average packages are consistently higher for CSE at IIIT Hyderabad. Both institutions excel in faculty quality, infrastructure, industry partnerships, and career support.

Recommendation: Choose IIIT Hyderabad CSE for its unmatched placement consistency, global recognition, advanced research environment, and industry connections; prefer IIT BHU Mechanical only if your son has a strong passion for core mechanical engineering, as IIIT Hyderabad CSE offers broader and more lucrative career prospects. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Ans: Hello dear.
Chances with JEE (Adv) score are slim with IITs. With KCET, you can admission to tier 2 colleges. Unable to list the names of colleges right now. Sorry.
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Ans: Chitrasen Sir, (You have not mentioned your daughter's GATE Score). However, please note, IIT Madras M.Tech Metallurgical and Materials Engineering delivers an advanced curriculum accredited by its top NIRF engineering ranking, taught by research-active faculty through centres like CAMMD, leveraging state-of-the-art computational and experimental laboratories. The two-year program admits 36 students via GATE MT, maintaining consistent placement outcomes of around 75% over the last three years. Graduates benefit from multinational recruiters and strong alumni networks fostering interdisciplinary research and industry collaborations across energy, aerospace, and biomedical sectors. Conversely, PSU jobs in metallurgy via GATE open roles in ONGC, BHEL, NTPC and SAIL, with general-category cutoffs near 40 marks, offering HRA, DA, medical benefits, pension schemes, and robust job security under government regulations. PSUs provide structured promotions, training programs, stable work-life balance, and social prestige for engineers. Considering these core aspects—curriculum rigor, faculty expertise, infrastructure, placement performance, and career support—the decision hinges on academic research exposure versus long-term security and government-backed benefits.

Recommendation: Accept the IIT Madras M.Tech admission to deepen expertise through cutting-edge research, interdisciplinary labs, and global collaborations if academic advancement and specialized industry roles are priorities; choose a PSU position for immediate stability, structured career growth, and comprehensive benefits if long-term job security and government-backed perks outweigh further study. All the BEST for the Admission/Prosperous Future!

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Ans: Hello dear.
Prefer CSE @ CCET if possible.
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Ans: Hello Appasaheb, Your son has a chance to get into Tier 2 colleges, possibly with core branches. If he is interested in CSE or other tech branches, then consider private colleges via the management quota. Unable to list the names of colleges right now. Sorry.
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Ans: Hello Meera, Your parents and relatives might be suggesting DAIICT because of the ICT+CS branch. If you are genuinely interested in mathematics and coding, then consider choosing IIIT-Gwalior for a better and brighter future. You can also wait for the options offered by IIITs or NITs. I think, wait and watch or go with IIIT-G.
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Ans: Hello Sridev
Chances are slim with CSE. Looking into private/university colleges with CSE seats available around that rank.
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Ans: Rajiv, Evaluating these options, BITS Pilani’s Integrated M.Sc. in Biological Sciences offers a four-year dual degree with A++ accreditation, robust molecular biology labs, strong biotech industry tie-ups and 88.56% higher-degree placement consistency; MIT Manipal CSE provides a 77% placement rate, average package ?11.76 LPA, 230+ recruiters, NBA accreditation and modern computing labs; BMS Bangalore CSE holds A++ NAAC accreditation, 64% placement and an industry-aligned curriculum; MSRIT CSE boasts 96% placement rate, average ?8 LPA, 239 recruiters and advanced AI coding labs; RVCE ECE records 84% placement consistency with specialized electronics labs, NBA accreditation and longstanding industry partnerships.

Recommendation: Pursue MIT Manipal CSE for its NBA-accredited curriculum, 77% placement consistency, ?11.76 LPA average package and modern computing labs, ensuring immediate engineering prospects; wait for BITS Pilani dual M.Sc. only if committed to research; keep MSRIT CSE, BMS Bangalore CSE and RVCE ECE as reliable backups. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Ans: Hello Balaraju,
Your daughter has a chance to get admission to some of the best colleges in Bangalore. I am unable to list the names of the colleges right now. Generally, tech courses are in demand for female candidates due to the nature of work flexibility. Therefore, she can consider choosing CS, CSE, AI, ML, DS, IOT, IT, etc.
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