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Asked by Anonymous - Oct 03, 2025Hindi
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Hi Anu, I'm 25. I have a younger sister who's 22. My dad passed away 10 years ago, my mom hasn't remarried. She's been taking care of us ever since. She is 47 .we're financially unstable and As a son, I really don't want to see my mom sad and depressed from the last few years so I'm thinking of asking her to remarry, hoping it would make her happy, but she's not really interested in getting married again. Apparently, society has some judgment about remarrying and also I think she is not interested but I don't want my mom to be sad how should I convince her to remmary?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
At the end of the day, it your mom's decision. Yes, she may appear sad, but whether to continue her life this way or to remarry is strictly her choice. Leave her to it; make a suggestion but there's no point trying her to forget her beliefs around remarriage.

All the best!
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Asked by Anonymous - Feb 08, 2023Hindi
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I am 43 years old . My wife passed away 3 years ago. I have a 13 years old child.My relatives are asking me to get re-married. I am in confused state. Should I remarry or not?
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I am so sorry for your loss; the passing on of a spouse almost feels like you live that grief everyday.
Your relatives are simply reacting to what they see as loneliness that you are living and that you can bring a Mother for a child.
Now, the choice of remarrying is a decision that solely must be made by you and your daughter. Relatives think for you but they do not know the consequences of such an important step.
Who is this person that you will be marrying?
Are you okay to take on another lady as your wife?
Will she be fine raising your daughter as her own?
What happens when the two of you decide to have a child of your own?
Is your daughter willing to see another person as a 'mother' figure?

If you choose not to remarry?
Being a girl, will you commit to caring for your daughter in more ways than a father?
How will you associate with her emotions as she goes through puberty and needs you to step in to do what her mother would have done for her at this time?
Do you see yourself going through life by yourself once your daughter leaves home to live her life?

These are just a few questions for you to get you started. You can add many more to both scenarios and play them out in your mind. The answer will emerge from within you.
But let me warn you, never ever remarry to temporarily erase your emptiness OR simply to yield to the demands of relatives to bring a new Mother for your daughter. This is a Disaster Zone and everyone will turn out unhappy.
Second shot at living or creating a life must be taken once you are aware that it will never be compared to your earlier life and that both the women are unique and will be respected by you and all as someone who brings forth new energy and wisdom.

Hope this helps. All the best to you!

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Asked by Anonymous - Oct 28, 2025Hindi
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Hi Madam, I am seeking your advice regarding my brother’s situation, as our family is going through a very difficult time. My brother was in a relationship with a girl who is 14 years younger than him. Their relationship began when the girl was very young — possibly in her early teens, around the time she was studying in 8th standard. What seemed like an early-age attraction eventually continued for more than 10 years. The girl’s family was aware of their relationship, but our family came to know about it only later. After nearly a decade of being together, my brother told us that he wanted to marry her. This came as a shock to us, and initially, our family (my parents, my sister, and I) did not agree to the marriage due to several reasons — including the significant age gap and the emotional immaturity that often comes with such early relationships. For two years, we tried to convince him to reconsider his decision, but he was determined to go ahead. Eventually, we accepted his choice, and the marriage took place. Unfortunately, after the wedding, they never lived together — not even for a single day. Soon after the marriage, the girl left to prepare for exams for about eight months. Over time, she completed her master’s degree and seemed to have developed a new perspective on life. Later, she informed him that she no longer wished to continue the marriage, saying she had lost her feelings for him and wanted a divorce. My brother still loves her deeply and wishes to continue the relationship. He is even ready to accept all her conditions, including her desire to work. However, the girl remains firm on her decision to end the marriage. Both families have now consulted lawyers, and while the girl’s family is pressing for a divorce, my brother continues to hope that she will change her mind and return. He is now 39 years old, and our family is very concerned about his emotional and mental well-being. He has become withdrawn, unable to move on, and still lives in the hope of reconciliation. Our aged parents are deeply distressed, seeing him suffer and unwilling to accept reality. We sincerely seek your guidance on how we can help him let go of the past, accept the situation, and rebuild his life with peace and positivity. Thank you for your time and advice.
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
You cannot convince someone who does not want to be convinced. Surround him with a lot of love and let him live with you all if that is possible; that way he will not be alone and coping from this separation can begin.
Sadly, you must let him go through the bitter truth which he wishes to avoid. He already realizes that what he wants is going to be impossible and by remaining stubborn about it, he is trying to avoid the pain. It will at some point dawn on him and he will breakdown this fake hope which will also 'break' his dreams about a life together with her.
If you want this difficult phase to be handled by a professional, please do so...right now the way it seems, he does not want to hear anything against his wife or the marriage from any of you...so, seek help if necessary.

All the best!
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Dear sir/ma'am I want to know about top colleges in kolkata for ba/bsc psychology which is rci approved and their entrance exams with lower fees gov/public as i can't afford private college And
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son is preparing for JEE. He wants to pursue Mathematics in the future.Just wanted to know, which are the acclaimed universities which are good for research in the field of Maths , which he can aim for?, and can resaerch also be a career option in our country?. Thank you.
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Hello Sir, i have a PPF account which is matured and have almost 20 lac of money. Kindly let me know how i should invest this money and in what instruments so that it should have a better liquidity with maximum returns.
Ans: Your patience and discipline in completing a full PPF cycle is wonderful. Many investors never stay committed for 15 years. You have done that with care. This shows strong financial behaviour. It also gives you a safe Rs 20 lakh corpus now. You want better liquidity and higher returns. This is a very fair goal. I appreciate your clarity.

Below is a detailed and simple plan. I will cover liquidity, risk, taxes, time horizon, and overall fit in your life. I will also explain the steps in an easy style. Each point stays short for easy reading.

Let us now move through each part in a gentle and structured manner.

» Purpose and clarity
Your money needs direction. Every rupee should have a job.
– First, you need to see if this Rs 20 lakh has a set goal.
– If the goal is near, then safety is key.
– If the goal is far, you can aim for better growth.
– Liquidity is fine, but it must not reduce long-term return.
– You need a mix of safety and growth.
– This mix must suit your age, income, and risk view.

» Why not keep all money in pure safe assets
Safe assets give peace. But they grow slow.
– Bank FD gives fixed return. But it reduces liquidity.
– Interest from FD is taxed as per your slab.
– This lowers your real return.
– You want better liquidity and more growth.
– So FD alone will not support that.
– You need a higher-growth space in your plan.

» Role of debt instruments for stability
Debt instruments can support liquidity.
– Debt mutual funds give better liquidity than FD.
– No lock-in period in most debt funds.
– You can redeem any day.
– Returns are steadier than equity, but still modest.
– They help you park emergency money.
– They help you manage short-term goals.
– Taxation is simple. You pay tax based on your tax slab.
– So debt funds give ease, but not high growth.
– Still they are a must in your mix.

» Role of hybrid instruments
Hybrid instruments can help balance your growth and stability.
– They put part of money in equity.
– They put part in debt.
– This keeps volatility lower than pure equity.
– They can help long-term investors who want stable growth.
– Liquidity is good because you can redeem any time.
– They fit well for medium-term goals.
– They act as a stepping stone between safety and growth.

» Why not depend on index funds
Some people feel index funds give simple growth.
But index funds have limits.
– They copy a market index.
– They cannot change strategy for bad market cycles.
– They cannot reduce risk when markets fall.
– They cannot increase exposure when markets rise.
– They cannot manage sector imbalance.
– They cannot avoid risky stocks inside the index.
– They cannot control concentration risk.
– They also cannot select high-quality active calls.
– In markets with strong cycles, index funds may lag well-run active funds.
– Active funds, when managed well, use research, risk control, and rebalancing.
– Active funds can shift sectors as per conditions.
– This gives scope for better long-term outcomes.

You asked for maximum returns with liquidity.
Index funds cannot fine-tune risk.
So active funds suit you better.

» Why regular funds via an MFD who is also a CFP
Many people try direct plans.
But direct funds have limits.
– Direct funds remove guidance.
– You get no behavioural support.
– You get no portfolio review support.
– You get no risk control support.
– You manage everything alone.
– This leads to emotional decisions.
– Many investors change schemes often.
– Many exit at wrong times.
– Many enter during market peaks.
– Wrong timing reduces return.
– Regular funds taken through an MFD with a CFP background give structure.
– You get discipline.
– You get suitability checks.
– You get goal alignment.
– You get timely review.
– This builds strong long-term results.
– The small extra cost often brings far higher net benefit.

» Liquidity assessment
You want liquidity.
– Liquidity comes from open-ended mutual funds.
– You can redeem any day.
– Money reaches your bank in one to two days.
– You also get steady growth.
– So mutual funds match your need.
– Debt funds and hybrid funds give strong liquidity.
– Equity funds also give good liquidity.
– You must create a liquidity ladder inside funds.
– This gives quick access without disturbing long-term plans.

» Time horizon thinking
Your horizon shapes your plan.
– If you need some part of money in 1 to 3 years, keep it in debt funds.
– If you need some in 3 to 7 years, hybrid funds can fit well.
– If you have a horizon of 7 years or more, equity funds can deliver better growth.
– Time horizon protects you from market noise.
– Longer horizons reduce risk in equity.
– So map your Rs 20 lakh across these buckets.

» Risk assessment
Your risk level is key.
– You want maximum return, but risk must stay controlled.
– Pure equity will give higher growth, but more volatility.
– A balanced mix reduces fear during falls.
– You must avoid sudden big moves.
– You must avoid chasing high returns.
– A steady plan builds wealth quietly.

» Suggested allocation structure
Below is a broad structure.
It keeps liquidity high.
It keeps risk balanced.
It supports growth.

– Keep about 30% in short-term debt funds.
– Keep about 20% in hybrid funds.
– Keep about 50% in well-managed active equity funds.

This is not a scheme list.
This is just a high-level structure.

» Why this structure works
This mix supports you from all sides.
– Debt funds give safety and quick access.
– Hybrid funds give smoother returns.
– Equity funds give long-term wealth.
– The mix fights inflation.
– The mix keeps liquidity strong.
– The mix reduces fear during market swings.

» Tax awareness
You must know tax effects.
– Equity fund gains over Rs 1.25 lakh per year are taxed at 12.5% for LTCG.
– Equity short-term gains are taxed at 20%.
– Debt fund gains are taxed as per your slab.
– This helps long-term planning.
– Use long holding periods for tax efficiency.
– Avoid frequent reshuffling.

» Emergency use clarity
Always keep some quick-access money ready.
– You can keep a part of debt fund money for emergency use.
– This avoids panic selling of equity.
– This gives comfort.
– This gives liquidity at any time.

» Improving return behaviour
Your behaviour plays a big role.
– Stay invested for long.
– Do not react to news.
– Do not change schemes often.
– Stick to your plan.
– Review once or twice a year.
– This improves long-term outcome.

» Why not hold all in PPF again
PPF is safe.
But it lacks liquidity.
– It has long lock-in.
– You cannot access money fast.
– The returns look steady.
– But they are not enough for long-term wealth.
– You already used PPF well.
– Now you need a more flexible mix.

» How reinvestment should be done
Move money step by step.
– Do not invest the full amount in equity in one shot.
– Use staggered entries for the equity portion.
– Put debt and hybrid parts in one go.
– Spread the equity part over few months.
– This reduces timing risk.

» Aligning investment with life goals
Money without goals risks wrong use.
– Identify the needs of next 3 to 10 years.
– Match investments to those periods.
– Keep long-term money in long-term assets.
– Keep near-term money in low-risk assets.
– This brings clarity to you and your family.

» Behavioural discipline
This part is as important as the products.
– You must stay calm in volatility.
– You must avoid excitement during market peaks.
– You must avoid fear during corrections.
– You must avoid listening to random advice.
– You must follow your plan.
– This gives stability to your family wealth.

» Rebalancing
You must rebalance your mix regularly.
– Markets shift.
– Your portfolio may become unbalanced.
– Equity portion may grow too much.
– Debt portion may shrink.
– Rebalancing keeps risk controlled.
– Do it once a year.
– This small step improves returns.

» Liquidity planning for 360-degree comfort
Liquidity is not just quick access.
It is about smart access.
– Keep debt funds for fast needs.
– Keep hybrid funds for mid-term needs.
– Keep equity for long-term creation.
– This creates a 360-degree system.
– It supports all stages of your life.
– You will not feel stuck.
– You will not feel unsafe.
– You will not lose long-term growth.

» Understanding market cycles in simple words
Markets move in cycles.
– There are good periods.
– There are slow periods.
– Equity needs patience.
– Debt needs discipline.
– Hybrid needs time.
– Your mix will ride all cycles in a smoother way.

» Role of income
Your monthly income gives peace.
– Because you have income, you can take moderate equity exposure.
– You can allow long-term money to grow.
– Your salary supports your liquidity too.
– So this Rs 20 lakh can work with balance.

» Reduced emotional pressure
A structured plan removes emotional stress.
– You know where money lies.
– You know why it lies there.
– You know when you can access it.
– You know how it will grow.
– You feel more confident.
– Your family feels more secure.

» Why you should avoid extreme risk
Some people chase high-return ideas.
– But high risk can destroy savings.
– Slow and steady planning builds wealth better.
– Each rupee must be placed with care.
– Safety and growth must stay equal partners.

» Cash flow support
Your portfolio can support future cash needs.
– If you need funds later, take from debt first.
– Do not disturb long-term equity early.
– This keeps compounding on track.
– This helps you enjoy liquidity with stability.

» Inflation awareness
Inflation reduces value of money.
– So pure safe assets cannot beat inflation.
– Equity can beat inflation.
– Hybrid can moderate inflation risk.
– Debt can support short-term needs.
– Together they fight inflation across time.

» Mistakes to avoid
Please avoid these common errors.
– Do not invest all money in one type.
– Do not keep all in PPF again.
– Do not chase index funds.
– Do not choose direct funds without guidance.
– Do not invest full amount in equity at once.
– Do not check returns daily.
– Do not react to rumours.
– Do not skip annual review.

» How to get the best long-term value
You get best results by small consistent steps.
– Focus on goals.
– Focus on discipline.
– Focus on patience.
– Focus on asset mix.
– Focus on review.
– Focus on behaviour.

» Your journey ahead
You have done great work till now.
Your next phase can be even stronger.
Your Rs 20 lakh is a strong base.
You now need a balanced and liquid plan.
This plan can support your family across many years.

» Finally
Your PPF journey shows your strength.
Now your next step needs a mix of safety and growth.
A steady allocation between debt, hybrid, and equity gives this.
Active funds through a regular mode with CFP-led guidance give better strategy and smoother results.
Index funds and direct funds look simple.
But they lack flexibility and professional support.
A balanced structure with regular reviews will serve you well.
Each part of your money will have purpose, peace, and progress.
This 360-degree plan gives liquidity, growth, and discipline.

Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in

https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment

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