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Gynaecologist, Obstetrician, IVF Expert - Answered on Apr 05, 2023

Dr Archana Dhawan Bajaj is an infertility specialist with over two decades of experience in IVF and reproductive medicine.
She founded The Nurture IVF Clinic in New Delhi in 2003.
Dr Bajaj has completed her MBBS from Maulana Azad Medical College and has a diploma in gynaecology and obstetrics and DNB (obstetrics and gynaecology) from the Sir Ganga Ram Hospital.
She has an MMSc degree in assisted reproductive technology from the University of Nottingham, UK.... more

Question by Amaan on Mar 17, 2023Hindi

Hello sir , I got married just before COVID in 2020. Because of COVID I didn't planned baby. In 2021 I started to plan a baby and after few months ( 8 months) in 2022 August my wife get's pregnant. We were very happy but after 8 weeks miscarriage happened and we both were totally disturbed for few months. Now we again started to plan a baby, My mind is always in stress that for first time it took 8 months and now it's already 3 months. Shall I go to doc for semen Analysis or shall I wait. I am 38 and my wife is 33. We both are fit and don't have any disease or any other medical issues. Please help me.

Ans: "It is fairly common to have a miscarriage in the first pregnancy, so that shouldn't be a cause for concern. It's not necessary to assume that if you've had one miscarriage, you will have problems in the second pregnancy as well. However, considering your wife's age, it is always a good idea to seek the supervision and advice of a good gynecologist who can monitor the current pregnancy and ensure that it progresses smoothly. Additionally, it is appropriate to start folic acid supplementation and aspirin prior to conception to reduce the incidence of miscarriage. If you haven't had a chance to evaluate possible reasons for the miscarriage, it might be a good idea to see your gynecologist who can determine if there are any underlying issues and correct them before you plan your next pregnancy."

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Ans: "I think the compelling reason to have a second child should be to complete your family and provide a sibling for your existing child. At age 38, it is important to be under supervision and undergo appropriate genetic investigations to determine the possibility of abnormalities in the baby. Once these investigations are complete and everything is normal, you can proceed with the pregnancy.

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Hi i m 41 yers old and my wife is 40 .we have one child. We planned next kid one year back but after 7 month my wife got some complications and after doctors advise we abort that ..now i want another chance but my wife not ready ..she is always wory about age. Can we plan or not or it will any difficulty in delivery. Please guide us. Thanks.

Ans: Hello. It is true that with increased maternal age chances of birth defects in the child are higher, however, we now have very good methods of checking for these defects early on and taking preventive action one way or another. If both of you are desirous of another child, I would say it is quite safe to try in the next 2-3 years also. All the best!

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Me and my wife, we are planning family for last 8 months. But wife is not getting pregnant. Shall we seek doctors advice? I am 32 and my wife is 30. We got married in Dec 2020. Please suggest.

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Hi mam, I had discussed all this with my wife. She told me that she knows there problem. Brother in law wife already discussed all this with my wife briefly. I mean she knows it's before but not shared with me at all not a hint. And also taking help from me .my wife suggest her that she will approach to me . So I am in shock all this thing is running behind on with me. Even my wife did not even disagree with them. I mean she is agree with the intimacy of me with her for a baby. Now I am more confused. Whom to trust. What I will do.

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Dear Doctor I am male 34, i am planning to get married soon. But i think I will have problems in becoming a dad bcoz I have physical relationship in the recently. I observe that I gets nervous and i am unable to satify my partner, I get erection but soon after 2-3 mint I find that there is no erection at all. can you advice me to what to do, should I inform the girl before we get married or my problem can be solved after marriage.

Ans: Why do you get nervous? Are you using protection?

**There are many reasons for not being able to get erection.** Some of the most common include:

* **Medical conditions:** Diabetes, heart disease, and certain medications can all contribute to erectile dysfunction.
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**Best is get it fixed first before getting married as you don't want to ruin someone's life.** Erectile dysfunction can be a serious problem, and it's important to get it treated as soon as possible. There are a number of different treatments available, and the best one for you will depend on the underlying cause of your erectile dysfunction.

**Don't Marry. Fix the problem first.** Marriage is a big step, and it's important to be sure that you're ready for it. If you're having problems with erectile dysfunction, it's best to get it fixed before you get married. This will help you to avoid any potential problems in your marriage and ensure that you and your partner have a happy and fulfilling relationship.

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