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General Physician - Answered on Jul 05, 2023

Dr Hemalata Arora is a senior consultant who practises internal medicine at Mumbai’s Nanavati Max Super Speciality Hospital.
In a career spanning over 24 years, she has focused on managing infectious diseases, critical illnesses and lifestyle disorders.
Dr Arora completed her MBBS and MD from the King Edward Memorial Hospital and Seth Gordhandas Sunderdas Medical College in Mumbai.
She is ECFMG certified, accredited by the American Board of Internal Medicine, Diplomate of the National Board and a DNB faculty.
She was honoured with the Paul Bunn award for her promising performance in the field of infectious diseases at SUNY Upstate Medical University, New York.... more

Question by Hemant on Apr 06, 2023Hindi

Health

Hi i m 41 yers old and my wife is 40 .we have one child. We planned next kid one year back but after 7 month my wife got some complications and after doctors advise we abort that ..now i want another chance but my wife not ready ..she is always wory about age. Can we plan or not or it will any difficulty in delivery. Please guide us. Thanks.

Ans: Hello. It is true that with increased maternal age chances of birth defects in the child are higher, however, we now have very good methods of checking for these defects early on and taking preventive action one way or another. If both of you are desirous of another child, I would say it is quite safe to try in the next 2-3 years also. All the best!

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Hi madam, i am 41 yrs. & my wife is 38 yrs. both are planning for a baby but we were always in stress that don't know at this stage of age can my wife conceive a baby. Her periods are regular.

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Asked by Anonymous - Aug 09, 2023Hindi

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Me and my wife, we are planning family for last 8 months. But wife is not getting pregnant. Shall we seek doctors advice? I am 32 and my wife is 30. We got married in Dec 2020. Please suggest.

Ans: 8 months is not a very long time and most likely you will conceive naturally. However, it is a good idea to see a fertility specialist or a OBGYN once and get evaluated to ensure you are not missing anything which will need attention later. There is no need to jump to fertility procedures but being aware that everything is normal would be very reassuring and encourage you try naturally in a more stress free way. All the best!

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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Dec 28, 2023

Asked by Anonymous - Dec 25, 2023Hindi

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I am 47 years old and my wife is 36 years old. We have a son ageing 14 years. But we want a girl child now. Can we have now? Pls suggest.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
1. There is no age limit by which one must have babies but I will still suggest that you get a physical and physiological evaluation done for both you and your wife that will assess if it is wise and medically 'okay' to have a baby
2. Now comes the part of the gender of the child. How will you know that it's going to be a girl?
So, if this adventure is only to fulfil your desires of having a girl child, then you might be disappointed...Know what you want and let that want not be some sort of dream that has no meaning...
Go for the pregnancy only if you are both medically fit and also you are prepared to accept the child irrespective of the gender.

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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Jun 17, 2024

Asked by Anonymous - Jun 16, 2024Hindi

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I'm married having 2 male kids my age is 28 my wife age is 22 .i would like to have 3 more kids (2 male kids and 1 female kid ).when can I plan for next baby ??pls advise me for 3 more babies .

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Why on Earth would you want more kids? I wonder how you plan on beaing inflation and provide for their growing needs, education and other financial commitments, of course unless you are a very wealthy person and you can afford it.
What's with 2 male and 1 female kid? Just saying; gender determination tests are illegal and is a punishable offense in India.

Okay, what does your wife have to say about it? She's 22 and already a mother to 2 boys...does she want any more children? This is something that the two of you must discuss...
You need to look at your financials and then also speak with your wife on if she would want to spend at least one decade giving birth and 2 more decades raising all of them. You know, it's nice to be surrounded by a lot of children Sir, and that's why nieces and nephews came along...

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Sir i am in relation with a girl long distance relationship i never propose her in last one year . Should i propose her or not?

Ans: Dear Devil,
What kind of proposal are you talking about? To get married or to be your exclusive partner? For the first, you need to think long and hard if you are ready for marriage. For the second, I think it will be sweet if you do- you two are already dating but if you propose in a more official way, it might make her feel special. So, please go ahead.

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Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I understand that it is very difficult to let go of a relationship you built from scratch. But I strongly believe that you deserve better. He left you, either out of family pressure or personal choice- but you deserve someone who will be with you no matter what comes. You gave him everything and he couldn't even give you his commitment. Do you really want to be with someone like that? Is that what you deserve? Understand your worth and move on with your head held high. I can assure you that you will find someone far far better than your ex. And why should you be the sole breadwinner and support the family alone? You deserve someone who will share every burden with you.

Please focus on moving on instead of getting him back. Again, I repeat, you deserve much more in life.

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Asked by Anonymous - Jan 06, 2025Hindi

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Hi, I’m a 28-year-old woman who has been single for almost three years now. I’ve recently started dating again. I met some great people, but I can’t seem to stop overthinking every little thing. Like, did I text too much? Was I too quiet during the date? Why did he take 5 hours to reply? Honestly, it’s exhausting, and it’s making me feel like I’m self-sabotaging potential connections. I know I’m a good person and have a lot to offer, but my mind just won’t stop analysing. How can I stop overthinking every interaction and just enjoy the dating process without this constant mental chatter?

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You can keep thinking and still won't get a satisfactory answer to your whats and whys.
The key to stop overthinking is to actually STOP it. The 3 year gap and a possible fact of seeing your age group women already having settled down may have put you on an alert mode that tells you: Make sure that you don't goof it up!

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Asked by Anonymous - Jan 06, 2025Hindi

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How can unmarried couples travel together in India without having to face moral policing?

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Jefferies recently shifted their stance on Zomato to a ‘neutral’ rating, reducing the target projection. Considering Zomato’s recent performance and overall market sentiment towards tech-based businesses, do you think this reflects deep-rooted concerns, or is it just a short-term adjustment?

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Asked by Anonymous - Jan 07, 2025Hindi

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I’ve always been optimistic about Zomato because of its leadership in the food delivery space, but this sudden change in Jefferies’ assessment and the subsequent price dip make me wonder if the valuation is still reasonable. Are such market assessments usually long-lasting, or is this something temporary I shouldn’t worry about?

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