After the death of my father in Oct.,2019 followed with Covid period experience, I went into depression and had sleep disorder for few months and after the advice of qualified doctor started the allopathy medicines. While I am now feeling perfectly alright now, however, the getting a sound sleep is still a question mark everyday and I usually take Tablet Lonazap (0.25 mg) MD which enables me to get sleep. I am a senior citizen who is around 63 years old and obese too and living a sedentary life style. I am unable to understand the reason for difficulty in getting sleep inspite of going on for long walk(including swimming sometimes) and reading newspaper at night time before sleeping. Kindly advice whether taking sleeping pills have any other affect on me and how to get sleep in a normal way.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I can't help you get her back, but I can help you understand boundaries. If she is saying she is not interested, the only clear conclusion from that statement is that "she is not interested." A no is a no. It does not mean "Convince me some more and I will change my mind." I am sure you are a great person and you will find someone amazing who is actually interested in you, but this woman is not the one. And what you are doing is not right. I would strongly urge you to move on and even if it hurts for a while, you should not be bothering her for that. Please respect her decision.

Best Wishes.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I understand that you are in a tricky spot but it is important to understand that when it comes to their child, they have the right to make decisions and ignore everyone else's, even yours. You should keep your relationship and their co-parenting situation separate. Having said that, if you think your BF's ex is overstepping, communicate that to your partner, while letting him know that it bothers you and might even create friction in your relationship. An open and honest discussion is the only way around it. If expressing your discomfort is causing tension or considered ‘controlling,’ then you need to rethink the relationship.

I am sure your partner is truly trying to balance things, but since he is dating you, he should be aware of the areas where that balance is lacking. Communication is the only way.

Hope this helps.

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