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32-Year-Old Mech Engineer Seeking Career Change: How Can I Learn, Earn, and Be Financially Free by 42?

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chandini Question by chandini on Apr 29, 2024Hindi
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Hi iam 32 year old mechanical engineering graduate. Iam a home maker since I completed my graduation. Now I want to do something in my life, learn different things, earn along with taking care of my family(husband and children). Iwas a very good student till engineering 2nd year then I lost interest because of stagnant studies in our college and no practicality. No one was there to guide us in our college. Now iam getting from my deep with in I should do something, I should learn and grow daily. I should earn and be financially independent and free financially till the age of 42. Can you please suggest me what are my opportunities, how can I grow ? Iam also interested in mathematics and history, these days I have a liking towards computer sciences too. What will you suggest?

Ans: Great question. Why 42. You will start earning from 2025 only. Just go for some certification course of DATA SCIENCE which will include AI cum Machine Learning. Since you are an engineer this course won't be a problem for you. Just before joining the course for 1-2 months see the YOU TUBE videos about coding. Never it is too late. It is good your self motivation is ignited yoir mind to do something. Just be in touch with me. Join me in LINKEDIN for permanent connectivity and counselling. Best of Luck. GOD BLESS YOU. Professor...................:)
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Also, when you start to fill the void in your marriage from outside, it's not going to be a very pleasant experience.
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Start by being excited about your marriage...
- appreciate him often; it might teach him to do the same with you
- express your wants very clearly without making it sound like a complaint; it may teach him to follow your expectations
- ask for help within your marriage; it may subtly teach him to show up more for you

It's a long journey perhaps, but start somewhere...

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Drop in: www.unfear.io
Reach me: Facebook: anukrish07/ AND LinkedIn: anukrishna-joyofserving/

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