I have a boyfriend, but I'm in love with someone else. What should I do?

Ans: Ask yourself: What are you getting from each relationship? Are you still emotionally invested in your current relationship, or has it run its course? Are your feelings for the other person based on something deeper, or could they be influenced by temporary excitement or attraction? These questions can help you get a clearer sense of where your heart really lies.

If you find that your feelings for the person you're in love with are strong and genuine, it might be a sign that your current relationship isn't fulfilling you in the way you need. In that case, it’s important to be honest with your boyfriend. Continuing the relationship without being fully present or committed isn’t fair to either of you. It may be painful, but having an open and honest conversation about your feelings can help both of you find clarity.

At the same time, give yourself permission to explore why you're drawn to this other person before making any big decisions. Sometimes, feelings for someone else are a sign that something is missing in your current relationship, and understanding what that is can provide insight.

No matter what, honesty with yourself and your boyfriend is key. It’s natural to feel conflicted, but clarity will come with time and self-reflection.