Stressed mom seeks advice: How can I help my son focus on B.Tech studies?

Ans: In low ranked institutes you may get.

Ans: Dear Saanvi,
I would suggest not to read too much into mixed signals- one thing, you might be reading them wrong. Second, it’s possible that they are confused and hence the mixed signals. Third, without verbal confirmation, it’s best not to get your hopes high. If you need further help understanding what the signals mean, please provide a little more details.
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Ans: Dear Shan,
That’s a really good question. Before going to her place, try to build a mindset of understanding her, without any preconceived notion or pressure to get married. In terms of discussion, to understand emotional compatibility you can observe her behaviour- how she deals with stress, or how she might deal with conflict. Discuss daily life expectations, like what you like to do on weekends, do you enjoy occasional drinking or partying, do you enjoy spending time with friends, family gatherings, disciplined lifestyle, etc. Discuss about each other’s work life balance, expectations from in-laws and any non-negotiables. You should also discuss kids- if they want them, if you want them, and also when. Get clarity on expected living arrangements to avoid any future conflicts. These should be more than enough for a first-time meeting.
Hope these help

Ans: Hi Chetan
Few Top Culinary Institutes in India
Culinary Academy of India (Hyderabad)
Entrance: Written test + Group Discussion + Personal Interview (conducted by the academy).

Welcomgroup Graduate School of Hotel Administration (WGSHA), Manipal
Entrance: Through Manipal Entrance Test (MET).

Institute of Hotel Management (IHM) – Various Campuses (especially IHM Mumbai, Delhi, Bangalore)
Entrance: NCHM JEE (National Council for Hotel Management Joint Entrance Exam)

Symbiosis School of Culinary Arts, Pune
Entrance: Through Symbiosis Entrance Test (SET) + PI-WAT (Personal Interview & Written Ability Test).

Ans: Hi Bhavya
Go for IIIT Nagpur (ECE) if:
You are inclined towards private sector jobs.
You want flexibility to switch to software/tech domains.
You want better placement and salary potential immediately after B.Tech.

Choose MANIT Bhopal (Civil) if:
You are strongly interested in Civil Engineering.
Your goal is a government job (e.g., IES, SSC-JE, state AE).
You value the NIT tag and older campus/alumni network.

Ans: Hi
to be honest you won't get admissions at this percentile in NITs, IIITs, GFTIs if your are from open, ews or obc category even if you have 75% in boards.

You have look for private universities or state colleges.

Ans: Talk to the seniors of your organization and let us see what do they say.

Ans: Vishal, please note the preferred sequential order, - KIIT-NMIMS-JIIT-MIT. All the best for your admissions!

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Ans: Start by keeping things simple and friendly. Focus on small interactions related to your project. For example, ask her opinion about something specific in the work you're doing. Try something like, “Hey, what do you think we should do for this part?” or “I liked the point you made yesterday—can we build on that?” These kinds of questions show that you respect her ideas, and they give her space to respond comfortably.

Once you've had a few of these short, easy interactions, you can slowly open up the conversation to more casual topics—like college life, favorite subjects, or even the stress of deadlines. This way, you’re not jumping straight into anything personal, but you're gradually building a sense of comfort.

Don’t try to impress her. Just be sincere, kind, and a good listener. Most people, even those who seem quiet or reserved, appreciate being approached respectfully and gently. And remember, confidence doesn’t mean being loud or charming—it means being real and respectful even when you’re nervous.

If you stay patient and consistent, she might start to feel more comfortable around you. And even if it doesn’t turn into something romantic, you’ll grow socially and emotionally—which will help you a lot in the long run.