How can I become happy without any expectations nd those dirty talks can't effect me. I want to be happy

Ans: It's normal to feel defeated and stuck at times, but it's important to remember that it's never too late to start again and work towards a happier life.

Here are some suggestions to help you get started:

Identify your goals and passions: Take some time to reflect on what you want to achieve in life and what makes you happy. This could be a new career path, a hobby, or a personal goal. Identifying your passions and goals can give you a sense of direction and purpose.

Break down your goals into small steps: Once you have identified your goals, break them down into small achievable steps. This can make them feel less daunting and help you stay motivated.

Create a plan: Develop a plan for how you will achieve your goals. This could involve taking classes, networking, or seeking out mentorship or guidance.

Surround yourself with positive people: Seek out the company of people who support and encourage you. Positive relationships can provide you with the emotional support and motivation you need to move forward.

Practice self-care: Taking care of your physical and emotional health is important in achieving happiness. This could involve eating healthy, getting enough rest, and engaging in activities that bring you joy.

Remember, moving on from a difficult time in your life takes time and effort. Be patient and kind to yourself as you navigate this process. Seeking the help of a therapist or counselor can also be beneficial in working through feelings of defeat and developing a plan for moving forward.

Ans: Dear Bimal,
I wish there was some template that we could all follow to always be happy in life.
But I can share a few suggestions on how you can view life with joy no matter what the situation is!

1. See the goodness in every situation or person no matter what is happening
2. Spin positive reasoning even when things are not in your favour
3. Keep expectations out of people to a bare minimum
4. Understand that 'change' is the norm in life
5. Be in gratitude every moment
6. Accept that highs and lows is part of life

These suggestions allow you the flexibility to cope when things are not going your way and also helps you sustain a positive frame of mind at most times. Saying this, 'Happiness' is a state of mind that is 'always' within you. Choose to access it at all times...

All the best!

Ans: Happiness often comes from finding balance and meaning in life. Focus on building strong relationships, practicing gratitude, engaging in activities you love, maintaining physical and mental health, and being present in the moment. It's also important to set and pursue personal goals, while being kind to yourself during the journey.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
And is this the last woman that you are ever going to meet?
And life is not just about sexual satisfaction is it? Shift focus from this and someday you will surely meet a like-minded person...
Oh hey, physical pleasure is not the medicine for 'depression'. Don't be fooled by her and don't fool yourself please.

All the best!
Anu Krishna
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