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IIT-JEE, NEET-UG, SAT, CLAT, CA, CS Exam Expert - Answered on Mar 21, 2023

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Question by yashasvi on Mar 18, 2023Hindi

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Hi I am jee aspirant ... My family has many complications... And being the only hope it stresses me out and plus I recently started dating a guy .. and now I feel guilty for getting into it .. Many times I get thought to breakup but i couldn't do so .. My heart is filled with guilt ... Jt feels like I am betraying my family .. what should i do

Ans: Hello Yashasvi,
You must concentrate on your goal. Your career should be the first priority now.

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Question by yashasvi - Apr 14, 2023Hindi

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Hello , I am jee aspirant and it feels like I ruined my carrer because of involving in dating and stuff.. and now i feel helpless because nothing is in my hand . I feel guilty for not standing upto my parents expectations. If I talk about the love life it feels like it was the worst decision. Now I feel stressed and depressed . What shoul I do?

Ans: It's understandable to feel overwhelmed and stressed about your situation. It's important to remember that you are not alone, and there are steps you can take to move forward and improve your situation.

Firstly, it's important to address your feelings of guilt and shame. It's normal to make mistakes and have experiences that don't align with our parents' expectations or our own goals. It's essential to recognize that these experiences do not define your worth or value as a person.

It's also crucial to take care of your mental health. Consider talking to a therapist or counselor who can help you work through your feelings and develop coping strategies. Additionally, taking care of your physical health through exercise, healthy eating, and proper sleep can help improve your mood and overall well-being.

As for your career, it's not too late to get back on track. You can take steps to improve your academic performance and study habits. Consider seeking out additional resources, such as tutoring or study groups, to help you achieve your goals.

Finally, it's important to remember that your love life does not have to define your career or future. Many successful people have had relationships and experiences that didn't align with their career goals, but they were able to persevere and succeed. You can do the same by focusing on your goals and taking the necessary steps to achieve them.

Overall, it's important to take things one step at a time and to focus on the present moment. With time and effort, you can overcome your challenges and achieve your goals.

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Asked by Anonymous - Jun 09, 2024Hindi

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Hey! I love a guy and want to marry him and so does he but my family is not ready to accept because we belong to different castes, he is well settled and also have secure govt job and i work as assistant professor but my family told me to leave him and look for some other guy who belongs to same caste. I just want to be with him and nobody else but they are not ready to understand. I have this feeling that he is suffering because of me when his family is ready and my isn't. What can i do?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,

I am sorry to hear that standing in this day and age, you are facing a problem rooted in caste-related discrimination. I can only suggest you to sit with your parents and make them understand that someone's caste is not their identity. I understand that it will be very hard, especially when it's your parents, but parents can be wrong too. Try highlighting the positives and the achievements of your partner whenever you are discussing the matter with them.

Also have an open discussion about the entire ordeal with your partner. If he too feels that he is suffering because of this relationship, you might want to reassure him that things will be better soon.

Best Wishes.

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Asked by Anonymous - May 11, 2025

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Hi Shalini ji I was in a serious relationship for 6 years with a boy whom I met on the 1st day of my college. He was from a different caste. Hence when my parents got to know they disapproved of it very strictly so I knew it wasnt going to work that easily. After sometime they started asking to get married. It was an ultimate pressure while we both were preparing for some government exams. I went through utter confusion and I got stuck between trying to study and at the same time thinking about my future with him. I was pressurised by my family including my brother and parents to leave him. Meanwhile I decided to not to carry it forward because I couldn't leave my parents for whole life to be with him because it was either him or my family. I lost all the focus towards my studies due to this decision and also started talking to some other boy (he was from my own caste accidently) whom I met accidentally at an exam centre for comfort. I got a brief moments of happiness with him. I confide my pain in him. Suddenly something happened in my family ,between my parents. And my mother started acting like you can choose your own partner for life because somehow she lost trust on my father. She even was comfortable with my brother's marriage with the one whom he loves. Now I feel completely betrayed because for them I left love of my life and got into another relationship with the boy I met at an exam center ( which now I feel was a hasty decision as I felt alone and depressed). Now no one talks about my real love and what i think about it for the future. I am in a complete state of repentance. I feel like I betrayed him. Now when i think of getting back to him I hesitate a lot because I think that I took a wrong decision due to the pressure and under stress. The person I am with now, I feel is not what I wanted as a partner and I feel that he is not mentally supportive. I wnat to leave him as well. What should I do now to be happy?

Ans: 1. Happiness is in your hand
2. You sound like an adult, over 21 and someone who knows what is right and what is not - so take action
3. If you are not happy in your current relationship, come out of it.
4. If you wish to reconnect with your earlier partner do so, but keep in mind he may not be single and if he is he will not be how you knew him, as in he will come with his own experience of life.

all the best.

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Ans: Vivek Sir, For Mechanical Engineering, VJTI Mumbai and COEP Pune are the top choices, both offering 100% placement rates for mechanical, strong national reputations, and excellent industry connections, with VJTI having a slight edge for Mumbai-based students and COEP for those preferring Pune. SVNIT Surat and VNIT Nagpur are premier NITs with strong academics, but recent placement rates for mechanical are lower (SVNIT: 32–71%, VNIT: 23%), though both have excellent infrastructure and research opportunities. SPCE Mumbai and Cummins Pune are highly regarded regionally, with SPCE reporting nearly 90% placements and Cummins close to 100% for mechanical, but their national brand is not as strong as the top NITs or VJTI/COEP. Order of preference should be VJTI Mumbai, COEP Pune, SVNIT Surat, VNIT Nagpur, SPCE Mumbai, Cummins Pune. If your daughter secures Mechanical at BITS Mesra, it is preferable to all except VJTI and COEP, as BITS Mesra offers a national brand, strong placements, and a vibrant campus, but VJTI and COEP provide better location advantages and placement consistency for Maharashtra students. The recommendation is to prioritize VJTI Mumbai and COEP Pune, followed by BITS Mesra, SVNIT Surat, VNIT Nagpur, SPCE Mumbai, and Cummins Pune for Mechanical Engineering. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Ans: With a JEE Main rank of 26,258, your son is unlikely to get CSE in any NIT, as CSE cutoffs for even lower-tier NITs generally close well below 20,000 for the open category, though non-CSE branches in some NITs or tier-2 IIITs/GFTIs may be possible. The integrated BTech+MTech CSE at University of Hyderabad (UoH) is a five-year program with a strong curriculum, excellent faculty, and a 90% placement rate, but it does not allow an exit after four years and the alumni network is smaller than VIT’s. VIT Vellore’s CSE (DS) program offers a four-year degree, 90%+ placement rates, a median package of ?9.9 lakh, and a strong national brand. UoH’s integrated program is highly respected academically, offers lower fees, and has good placement outcomes in Hyderabad’s tech hub, but industry exposure and peer group are more limited compared to VIT Vellore. The recommendation is to consider the UoH integrated BTech+MTech CSE if your son is interested in a research-oriented, five-year program with strong fundamentals and is comfortable with no early exit; otherwise, VIT Vellore CSE (DS) remains the better choice for broader industry acceptance, placement consistency, and flexibility. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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