Hi Love Guru. My husband is very close to his cousin sister. Whenever they meet they hug, embrace and crack jokes. They also chat and talk at length whenever available. At times I feel very in secured and did confront my husband. But he takes it very lightly. Her husband stays in UAE and only visits India once in a year (for one month). They have one son and one daughter. Do you think this is normal?

Is it normal for my boyfriend to be chatting with his cousins more often I'm curious because I've been asking him what's going on because at first they saved each others contact with their real names but now they changed to lovely cousin with some love emojes. He used to tell me that I should send him my pictures whenever I'm far from him but now he stopped yet he put his cousin on status daily with different captions including love emojes When I ask him, he always replies that there is nothing between them

Me and my wife are happily married for 10 years and having a twins 4 years before. This incident happened 8 years ago, when my wife and her cousin visited the home town for a temple function they reconnected with this guy who is their old friend ( a distinct relative also), this person had an interest on my wife before marriage and my wife rejected. Now this person is married and having one kid. when they reconnected my wife's cousin used to do conference calls along with this person and my wife. My wife asked me is it ok to talk. i said yes it is fine but just maintain a healthy boundary. So she wont attend all the calls from them. Attended some conference calls for 5 to 15 min and dropped the call saying my husband don't like me in phone too much. this happened weekly once or twice for 2 month(maximum 10 calls). they also had a watsapp group, in that they had friendly chat between them, mostly between wife's cousin and that person. My wife's reply was very less. but when i was going through the messages they are not flirty messages, there i saw my wife saying very positive about our relationship and her cousin also agreed to that saying they are the best couples. but that person has addressed my wife's cousin and my wife occasionally as honey and dear. but both of them ignored and not asked them to stop calling like that. when i checked this with my wife she said that person calls everyone as honey/dear even her sisters and other cousin. Even he calls my wife's mother sometimes honey (she is very aged 60 years).it is habitual for him so she found no meaning in that and she is not bothered to correct that. this is not even a issue for her that's why she did not discuss this with me. that's why she ignored. i asked her to stop talking to him. My wife told she already stopped talking with him as he tried to make personal calls as she did not like it. that time the wats group also not active so she exited from the group and blocked his number. Recently we came to know that one of the relative girl got into affair with this person and this person got divorced due to that. 1. Does the words like honey can be used in friendly way. i have many friends in other gender i never used honey even though i used 'dear' occasionally. As he used this word with my wife, Does this make my wife less pure than other women. Is this cheating ? 2. I cant come in to terms with the fact my wife talked to a person who is a womanizer. does this affect my wife's reputation in the society. they never met in person other than this temple function reconnect.

Hii . My bf and me are very close and matured . But before getting emotionally much more opened with him and all i asked him a question that what does he feel about her sis in law . Like u know in south people get married to their cousins and close to them . I asked him a similar ques like what do u feel about her coz u guys are childhood besties and dont wanna come in between two individuals. He replied with that it's a very complicated ques . They have some chemistry, but they never spoke close but when they are together near by, some romantic vibe will there. What shall i do in this situation. Please help me

My husband is very attached to his sister who is 32 and divorced. She visits our house daily and my husband discusses everything with her including our personal matters. She gives advice on what I should cook, how I should dress. I'm 26 married from one year. Every time the siblings talk, I feel like a third person in my own marriage. How to make husband understand this is wrong?