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Relationships Expert - Answered on Nov 15, 2022
It certainly sounds like a messy affair.
It's not your fault that you've fallen in love; people can't always help the way they feel about someone else.
But it's not fair to your husband that you don't love him and before things get worse, like maybe you becoming pregnant, I would suggest you end the marriage soon.
As for your relationship with the brother, that should not coincide with things in any way.
If, after you're divorced, you both decide to ease into being a couple over the course of time and see where it goes, that in itself will be a challenge for your respective families.
So take one step at a time, slowly and discreetly. Because leaving him for his brother will cause trauma anyway. Waiting it out will help the situation immensely.
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