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Asked by Anonymous - Dec 04, 2024Hindi
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Hi, I’m a 29-year-old male, who’s been single for a while. My problem is I struggle with meeting new people and building meaningful connections. I’m unsure whether I’m too picky or just not putting myself out there enough. How can I improve my chances of finding a compatible partner?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
It's okay if it is taking you a little more time than others to build a connection. Remember, everyone moves at their own pace.

If you are facing issues meeting new people, I would suggest using a dating app. You can mention your intentions in the bio- for instance, using the app for serious dating, or casually looking for someone to date, or marriage, etc. This way, you can attract people who have the same end goal as you. Mention the interesting things about you that make you unique. Put up a nice display image with a recent picture, possibly showcasing something that defines you. I am sure you will find the right match in no time. Plus, in online dating, you do not have to meet people face-to-face immediately. You can first chat and take your time to connect on a deeper level and then commit to meeting in person.

Also, there's nothing wrong in being a little picky.

Hope this helps.

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My son got CSE in JECRC Jaipur & Dr. Akhilesh Das, Delhi. Which one is better. He is Rajasthan Domicile
Ans: Amit Sir, based on the following insights/information and your son's location preference, please choose the more suitable option for him: JECRC University in Jaipur offers a robust CSE program accredited by AICTE UGC and NAAC (CGPA 2.65). Its 32-acre campus features advanced computing and AI/Data Science labs, a digital library, innovation centers (ICoE) in partnership with ISDC, and modern classrooms. Experienced faculty engage in industry-aligned research projects, while the centralized Training & Placement Cell provides mock interviews, résumé workshops and career counseling. Over the last three years, JECRC’s CSE placement rate has consistently exceeded 95%, with more than 2,230 offers from 140+ recruiters including Amazon, Microsoft and HPE, and 46% of offers in emerging-tech roles. Extensive industry tie-ups, frequent internship pipelines, strong student clubs and an active research culture ensure holistic development.

Dr. Akhilesh Das Institute of Professional Studies (formerly ADGITM) in Delhi, affiliated to GGSIPU and approved by AICTE with NAAC ‘A’ grade, spans 8 acres of urban campus with dedicated programming, networking and software engineering labs. Faculty blend academic credentials with industry experience and the Corporate Resource Centre (CRC) arranges pre-placement training, personality development and corporate interactions. CSE placements range between 70–80% annually, with average CTC around ?5.1 LPA and top recruiters such as Infosys, TCS, HCL and Accenture. While industry partnerships are solid and student support services are organized, research opportunities and alumni-driven mentorship are still evolving.

Considering your son’s Rajasthan domicile, JECRC’s prime location, superior placement outcomes, stronger research infrastructure, and higher accreditation status collectively offer greater ROI and smoother regional integration.

Recommendation: Choose JECRC University Jaipur’s CSE program for its proven placement excellence, comprehensive industry-academic ecosystem, cutting-edge research initiatives and holistic student support aligned with the five pillars of institutional quality, while leveraging Rajasthan domicile advantages. For focused, niche mentoring and urban Delhi exposure, ADGITM remains a viable alternative but ranks secondary given the differential in outcomes and resources. All the BEST for a Prosperous Future!

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Recommendation: Prioritize IILM University’s BJMC program to leverage its AI-integrated curriculum, cutting-edge media facilities, expansive alumni network, guaranteed placement support and strategic industry tie-ups, ensuring a comprehensive foundation for a successful career in journalism and mass communication. All the BEST for a Prosperous Future!

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Asked by Anonymous - Jul 27, 2025Hindi
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PCM State General Merit No 108XX - MHT-CET-PCM 2025 PCM, University General Merit No - Mumbai University - 33XX, PCM Konkan State General Merit No - 17XX, PCM All India Merit No - 23XX - JEE(Main)-2025, The above are my ranks in CAP Counselling (MHTCET) Can you suggest best institute I can get in CAP Counselling in CSE, CS or IT branches.
Ans: With a State General Merit rank around 10,800, Mumbai University rank ~3,300 and All-India JEE (Main) rank ~2,300, you fall in a competitive but attainable bracket for CSE, Computer Technology and IT in Maharashtra’s CAP rounds. Prestigious government options such as COEP Pune and VJTI Mumbai close in the 1–9,500 rank band, so they are beyond reach this round. However, strong alternatives include Pune Institute of Computer Technology, Dhankawadi (CSE closing ~5,800 rank) and Saint Francis Institute of Technology, Borivali (IT close at ~12,500 rank) . DJ Sanghvi College, Mumbai (CSE close ~12,300 rank) and Pimpri Chinchwad College of Engineering, Pune (IT close ~3,600 rank) also fit your profile . Among newer options, Vishwakarma Institute of Technology, Pune (CSE close ~2,800 rank) and Cummins College of Engineering for Women, Pune (CSE close ~2,160 rank) remain attainable, while D.Y. Patil College of Engineering, Akurdi (IT close ~7,164 rank) and Rajiv Gandhi Institute of Technology, Mumbai (CSE close ~12,939 rank) offer balanced ROI with placement rates above 85% over the past three years .

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Recommendation: Target Pune Institute of Computer Technology for robust CSE training, then consider Pimpri Chinchwad College of Engineering for its IT strength and Mumbai’s DJ Sanghvi College for its central location and placement record. Backup with Saint Francis Institute for IT and Rajiv Gandhi Institute for CSE to secure seats in high-quality programs.
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Asked by Anonymous - Jul 26, 2025Hindi
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Hello sir my son Srinidhi Girish Sardeshmukh mukh has scored 98.92 percentile in mht CET 2025 exam. Additionally, he has scored 97.25% tile in JEE main 2025 exam conducted by NTA. ALSO HE SCORED an aggregate of 82.17% in HSC board exam 2025. He has applied for EWS Category. His PCM provisional state merit number is 3601. His PCM University General Merit No Savitribai Phule Pune University - 1148. Shrinidhi's PCM EWS Merit No 249. His PCM All India Merit No . 2519 - JEE(Main)-2025 (97.2595264). Are there any chances of him getting CSE Branch in COEP, Pune ? Please revert . What are your likely recommendations of eligible colleges & other tech branches for these scores ? Please let me know asap. Your immediate responses will really put ourselves in a better conditions to opt for the most suitable options . I will be grateful to you for your suggestions . Thank you very much in advance.
Ans: With an MHT-CET percentile of 98.92 and EWS reservation, Srinidhi significantly exceeds the closing percentile Computer Science and Engineering at COEP Pune, which in CAP Round 3 was 95.57 for EWS candidates. His state?level merit and JEE Main percentile further strengthen his profile for Home State and All-India seats under CAP. Given COEP’s outstanding infrastructure, highly experienced faculty, deep industry partnerships, robust placement support (95% CSE placements over the past three years), active student clubs, and cutting-edge research labs, he should rank COEP CSE at the top of his preference list.

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Sir my son got 95.69 percentile 65172 rank in jee mains general category. He got seat in vit vellore btec mechanical in slab 1. We are from Tamil Nadu and is there any chances for home state quota for NIT trichy or iiit kancheepuram for mechanical in csab round or is it good to continue with vit vellore
Ans: Lavanya Madam, Your son’s JEE Main rank of 65 172 (.69 percentile, General) falls well below the CSAB Round 1 Home State closing rank of approximately 19,159 for Mechanical Engineering at NIT Trichy, and also below the All-India closing rank of around 40,855 for Mechanical Engineering at IIITDM Kancheepuram, making admission under Home State or All-India quota highly improbable. VIT Vellore, with established Mechanical Engineering infrastructure, extensive alumni network, consistent placement rates above 90%, and strong industry partnerships, thus remains a secure and prestigious option given the rank constraints and the five pillars of institutional excellence: infrastructure, faculty quality, industry engagement, student support, and research opportunities.

Recommendation: Proceed with VIT Vellore’s B.Tech Mechanical to capitalize on its assured seat, top-tier labs, strong placement cell, and alumni network, while maximizing early involvement in industry projects and leveraging its career services to secure robust employment outcomes. You can still attempt to apply through CSAB for your son's preferred branches, excluding CSE and ECE, but the chances of success are very low, Madam. All the BEST for a Prosperous Future!

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