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Unmarried Couples Banned in OYO Hotels - Will My Booking Be Cancelled?

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Asked by Anonymous - Jan 06, 2025Hindi

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Sir, OYO has recently banned unmarried couples from renting a hotel. Don't you think this measure is a bit harsh? My fiance and I are planning a trip to Uttar Pradesh this year. Does this mean our booking will be cancelled if they find out that we are not married? What should we do? Please help.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
As I cannot speak for Oyo, or give any insight on their rules and regulations, I won't be of much help here. Please contact the right people for this query.
Best Wishes.

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You like Vegetarian food and your friend likes Meat and Fish. What will you do? Go to a place that offers both OR visit two different hotels on different days so that both you and your friend are happy.
Simply find a mid-path where both families are happy. One marriage ceremony in India and one in Nepal...

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How can unmarried couples travel together in India without having to face moral policing?

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Our culture is very partial towards moral policing. We know what our neighbors should do but forget what we should do. Pratice what you preach is only for the wise men, you see...
So, if you go against societal norms and you are caught be prepared for a backlash.
Now, you can be unapologetic about this backlash that you might face (assuming the couple is of a legal age) and be unbothered by it. And if the moral policing bothers you, then avoid crossing that boundary and stay within the limits of what society prescribes.

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Why do hotels in India disallow unmarried couples? A few months ago, I was travelling with my girlfriend (who was my colleague then, we weren't dating then) on a work trip and suddenly, we received a knock on the door at night asking us to vacate the room in Delhi. It was 2 am and we were sleeping on different beds. There was a partition in the room, yet we were asked to pack and leave because some guest had complained. In the middle of the night no one was willing to offer us a room. It was an odd hour so at 4.30 am, I finally told the manager to let my GF hire a room as we had nowhere to go. I waited in the reception area. Isn't it unsafe to take the booking and then ask us to vacate later? Why is India so rude to unmarried couples? A boy and a girl could also be friends sharing a room to save money!

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Each hotel use discretion to allow or disallow an unmarried couple from staying in their premises. There could be various reasons which may include activities which are outside of the law. Now, to what has happened to you is very inconsiderate. My question to you is: while booking, did you look at the hotel policies? If it says: unmarried couples allowed, then whatever has happened can be challenged and you can possibly demand a refund for unfair treatment. If it disallows unmarried couples and they have accommodated you, even then they are in the wrong for going against their own policies and then inconveniencing you.
So, clarity on this will give you an idea as to what exactly happened.
I don't know if India is being rude to unmarried couples as each person will view it through their lens and come to a conclusion as to whether it's right or wrong. Always check the hotel policies before booking.

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I have got 89.2 percent in class 10 and 62.33 percent in class 12 science stream i gave enternace exam called mht cet I got 75.48 percentile. I want pursue career in the field of cs or IT. I can get average colleges of mumbai or Pune from cap round which has decent placement record for engineering. But my parents are not ready for it. They said that it is very expensive. So should I choose computer engineering from our rural area tier 3 college which has no or very less placement or should I do online BCA from amity university online with side income like youtube and blogging my gaming channel has 12.6k subscribers it pays less but I think improvement in content is possible if gave time. So what should I do this online BCA+ side hustle or engineering from tier 3 college

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