
Hi, I'm 28 year old IT professional working in Hyderabad, and my family lives in pune, I'm the only earner in the family, and currently my family stays in a rented apartment in pune which costs 14K per month, I too pay a rent of around 16K myself in hyderabad, and considering other things my expenses for a month is typically between 1.3 - 1.4L per month, my salary is currently 2.6L per month as I switched my company about 2 months ago, I have been investing in SIPs for about 3 years now, I do 30-35K SIPs per month, now my family wants me to buy a house as they want me to get married, and we don't own any house yet, so I explored a few options for under contruction properties, and the price range for a 2bhk flat is about 75-85L in the area we're searching, I can manage about 10% as down payment and plan to take a home loan for the rest 90% of the cost, for 20 years, so my home loan emi would be roughly between 55-60K per month, and this got me thinking again if this is a good idea, as I'm not sure if I'll be moving to pune any time soon or get a job in pune, and my family would also like to live with me in Hyderabad for next couple of years, and anyways we'll be getting our flat only after 3 years, so maybe instead of investing in a flat, I would like to keep that money with me and buy a flat when I'm sure I'm going to use it, or the other idea I got was to buy a smaller flat like a 1BHK just for the sake of owning a flat, which would cost me about 40 - 50L, but then I would not enjoy living in a smaller place if I ever move to pune few years down the line, but I would not have any financial burden and could rent a bigger flat if needed.
I need help, I'm really confused on what I should do, on paper it does look like I can afford a bigger flat that we've decided to buy, but I'm just worried of not having enough savings or capital and going for a bigger loan, and to me buying a smaller flat is not making too much sense either, should I just take a leap of faith and buy that house?
Ans: Your financial awareness at age 28 is appreciable. You are analysing affordability, future mobility and savings impact before taking a long-term commitment. This shows strong financial maturity.
» Current Financial Position Assessment
– Your monthly income is healthy and supports long-term wealth creation
– Expenses are also relatively high, leaving moderate surplus
– You are already investing Rs 30–35K through SIP which is good discipline
– You are the only earning member, so financial flexibility is very important
– No owned house currently, but mobility requirement is high
» Affordability vs Comfort
– On paper, you can afford EMI of Rs 55–60K
– However affordability alone should not drive the decision
– You already pay rent in two cities
– Adding EMI will reduce financial flexibility significantly
– Emergency savings and future goals may get impacted
» Risk of Buying Under Construction Property
– Possession is only after around 3 years
– During this period, your life situation may change
– Job location uncertainty exists
– You may continue paying rent even after committing to EMI
– This creates double financial pressure
» Mobility Factor is Very Important
– You are unsure about moving to Pune
– Your family may shift to Hyderabad temporarily
– Buying now may lock you into a location prematurely
– Real estate decisions should ideally match long-term usage clarity
– Flexibility at your age is valuable
» Buying a Smaller Flat – Practical Concerns
– Buying a 1BHK only for ownership may not serve long-term needs
– You may need to upgrade later
– This creates additional transaction cost and stress
– It may not solve your lifestyle requirement
– Emotionally also it may not feel satisfying
» Financial Impact of Large Home Loan
– EMI of Rs 55–60K for 20 years is a long commitment
– This reduces your investing capacity
– Early wealth creation may slow down
– Marriage, child, family relocation expenses may arise
– Being sole earner increases risk if income fluctuates
» Alternative Approach – Strengthening Financial Base
– Continue SIPs and increase gradually with salary growth
– Build larger down payment corpus over next few years
– Maintain strong emergency fund (at least 6–9 months expenses)
– Keep liquidity for marriage and family needs
– Revisit house purchase when location clarity improves
» Psychological Pressure vs Financial Prudence
– Family preference for owning house is understandable
– But buying at wrong time may create stress
– Renting gives flexibility at this stage
– Owning should be based on need, not urgency
– Delayed purchase with stronger finances reduces risk
» Finally
– Avoid taking large home loan when location is uncertain
– Buying under construction property now increases risk
– Smaller flat option may not meet future needs
– Continue investing and build stronger down payment corpus
– Revisit house decision when job and family location becomes clear
– Preserving flexibility now will support long-term wealth creation
Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.linkedin.com/in/ramalingamcfp/