Trapped in a Marriage: Seeking Advice on Divorce

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Legally, you might want to seek an expert on how to proceed if you choose the separation/divorce.
But, may I suggest that you speak with a family member on her side and ask them to speak with her. Maybe it's something that she isn't able to confide in you. Maybe she was forced into this marriage, maybe she is worried about consummating the marriage. Anything could be the reason.
Make one honest attempt by at least finding out the cause. Who knows, it might be possible to resolve it.
If this fails, then you may seek the help of a lawyer who will advice you further on the next steps. But, do first try to put things together.

Best wishes to you!

Ans: Dear Rajesh,
First and foremost, it's important to prioritize your own well-being and happiness, as well as that of any potential children involved. While divorce may seem like the only solution, it's also worth considering seeking professional help, such as marriage counseling or therapy, to try to address the issues in your relationship and explore potential avenues for improvement.

If communication is a significant challenge due to education and cultural differences, a therapist or counselor can help facilitate more effective communication and understanding between you and your wife. They can also provide guidance on how to navigate conflicts and differences in a constructive manner.

Additionally, it may be helpful to involve a neutral third party, such as a religious or community leader, to mediate discussions between you, your wife, and your respective families. They may be able to provide support and guidance in finding a resolution that is mutually acceptable and respects the well-being of all parties involved.

Ultimately, the decision to pursue divorce or to work on improving the relationship is a deeply personal one, and there is no one-size-fits-all solution. It's important to take the time to carefully consider your options and seek support from trusted friends, family members, or professionals as needed.