Stuck on Memories of Ex-Husband After 8 Years - How Can I Move On?

I want to forget my ex i want to move on from my past relationship ðŸ˜,i can't take him out of my mind

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Question by Dasakhi - Mar 31, 2023Hindi

Ans: Let it go... Start seeing more people. Love yourself. You don't need anyone else . You are enough.

Mohit, I still have feelings for my ex-boyfriend. We separated 3 years ago and he is married to another girl. How can I let go and move on?

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Asked by Anonymous - Dec 07, 2023Hindi

Ans: There are 2 ways to live - Hold onto your past or move on.

You have to make a decision to move on.

Now you have to realise that you are responsible for majority of your emotions on a daily basis. It doesn't stem from your boyfriend. So you have to learn to build your own eco system of positive emotions.

Then, you start dating different guys, until you find someone you like. And you' will. Be more open and meet more guys.

hello mam i had a breakup a year ago and i still havent moved on from him. i am trying to push myself and have given myself enough time. But the core memory i share with him still hurts me. Then like this i get many days to get myself back. he is always on my mind 24*7 and due to this i cannot concentrate on my studies. i am stuck in this position and i dont wanna go back because ik he will never come. I have peak time of my career and i dont wanna regret this. My heart keeps wrenching and it pains a hell lotttttttt with the thought that its over and that one day he will be married too and i will have to see him with someone. idk what should i do?

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Question by Hazel - May 22, 2024Hindi

Ans: Dear Hazel,
Losing someone when in love causes grief. So, go through the pain and don't be in a hurry to heal as when you allow yourself to feel the pain, you are actually stepping into the healing process and healing one day at a time.
It's a suggestion if you can actually keep the gifts given by him etc away during this time. It can torment you more.
And while you are healing and when you feel like the world crashing on you, you need to distract yourself by:
- Physical activity/exercise helps displacing the stuck feelings giving a good release
- Join communities with larger than life causes as this helps looking beyond oneself

Life can dynamically change; what we can do is navigate through these and step into your own life.
Ask yourself: What is it that I can do now that I am single again? How can I make best use of this time?
Easier said than done; but believe that things do get better BUT take that first step towards your healing journey.

All the best!
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I have a dilemma where I cannot forget my ex from 15 years ago. We are both married and have supportive spouses. But somehow very hard to get her out of my head. We are in two different continents and try to avoid discussions via WhatsApp etc so it doesn’t keep dragging. No matter how much are current lives are great it always feels like I miss that first true love. I think I just need recommendations from people who might have face such a dilemma. We broke up for careers and now feel it was a great mistake. But family commitments need to keep things going. I want to be friends as that’s what we were through 2 years of online chats etc

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Asked by Anonymous - Jun 09, 2024Hindi

Ans: Dear Anonymous,

It is normal for some people to have a soft corner for their ex-partner, but that's what it is. Just a corner; and it is barely ever romantic. It's nostalgia. But you cannot let them have your whole heart, because that isn't fair to your spouse. If you have lingering romantic feelings for your ex, it is best not to pursue a conversation with her. You have a happy married life, and so does she. Why ruin it for something that you left in the past? It might have been a mistake, but it is already done.

Plan to spend more quality time with your wife. Put in more effort to bring back the spark in your marriage. You live in the present and try to build a better future. Dwelling in the past has never gotten anyone anywhere.

Best Wishes.

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