Hello sir. I am 26 years old woman and i am unemployed. I am preparing for bank exams but yet not qualified any. I sat for SBI Clerk and didnt made it. My parents are saying that Bank is not a good option for women because of work pressure , transfer and working hours. Ans they have given me only 2 years else they gonna get me married. some of my friends got in bank one got in IIM and i feel i am out of track. PLease help me with this. i really am looking forward to work as a manager in bank but im scared of all this. Please guide.
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Ans: It's understandable that you're feeling stressed and uncertain, given the pressure from your family and the challenges you're facing. Think about other career paths that might also align with your skills and interests. This could include roles in finance, administration, or other fields where your banking preparation might be valuable. Identify where you fell short in previous bank exams. Develop a detailed study schedule that includes daily goals, practice tests, and regular revisions. Focus on your weak areas while reinforcing your strengths. Have an honest conversation with your parents about your career aspirations and the steps you are taking to achieve them. Explain the commitment and passion you have for working in a bank. Discuss potential compromises, such as exploring banking roles that have more stable locations or considering other positions in financial institutions that may offer similar career growth without frequent transfers. Focus on your preparation, and try not to compare yourself to others. Everyone has their own pace and path to success. Practice stress-relief techniques like meditation, exercise, or hobbies that help you relax and stay positive. Reflect on what you want in life, and don’t rush into marriage solely due to external pressure. It’s essential to find a partner who supports your career ambitions. By focusing on your goals, improving your preparation strategy, and addressing your family's concerns with understanding and communication, you can navigate this challenging period and work towards achieving your dream of becoming a bank manager. Stay determined and proactive, and remember that your career is your journey.
