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Hi Maam, I Mr. K Dave age 48 , due to Diabetic patient our sexual relation are spoil , i feel can give freedom to our spouse for that. but affred that ruin our family. she is very lusty

Ans: Mr. Dave,
I understand that your diabetes has affected your sexual relationship, leading to frustration. Open communication with your spouse is crucial. Discuss your feelings and concerns honestly with her. There are medical treatments and therapies available that might help improve your sexual function, so consult with a healthcare professional.

If considering an open relationship, proceed with caution. Both partners must fully agree and understand the potential impact on your marriage and family. Seeking guidance from a therapist can help facilitate these discussions.

Focus on maintaining emotional intimacy and other forms of physical affection to keep your connection strong. Addressing these issues openly and with professional support can help you find a resolution that respects both your needs and those of your spouse.

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Hello Anu I ma married man with age of 54 & my wife is 52 years. We are married since 30 years and we are not having good sexual relationship. She is more keen but i have some issues with my health. From the beginning I have disorders and do even ejaculate very soon. Because of this our relations are not that good. Now we are on the verge of separation but due to childrens who are quire grown up and settled in their life they are strictly against this decision of ours. My wife wants divorce from me and wants to settle down with someone else and at present there is no such person in her life. I also want divorce but of the last thought. How can I regain my sexual life again please let me know.
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
It's really sad all the years of togetherness becomes nothing in front of physical relationships.
My suggestion would be to work on whatever is coming in between the two of you; which means what is stopping you from having a good sex life must be addressed.
It could be simple medical treatment or mind techniques to work on these challenges. Divorce in my opinion in your case, seems to be an impulsive move taken in frustration. Think it through and calmly address the main issue and work at it. Request your wife also to be a part of this. Do reconsider your decision to separate by trying to work out the differences. Even after that if things persist, then you know what you want to do. But at least give it a try...

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