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Hi Maam, I Mr. K Dave age 48 , due to Diabetic patient our sexual relation are spoil , i feel can give freedom to our spouse for that. but affred that ruin our family. she is very lusty

Ans: Mr. Dave,
I understand that your diabetes has affected your sexual relationship, leading to frustration. Open communication with your spouse is crucial. Discuss your feelings and concerns honestly with her. There are medical treatments and therapies available that might help improve your sexual function, so consult with a healthcare professional.

If considering an open relationship, proceed with caution. Both partners must fully agree and understand the potential impact on your marriage and family. Seeking guidance from a therapist can help facilitate these discussions.

Focus on maintaining emotional intimacy and other forms of physical affection to keep your connection strong. Addressing these issues openly and with professional support can help you find a resolution that respects both your needs and those of your spouse.

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Asked by Anonymous - Nov 14, 2024
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Hello Anu I ma married man with age of 54 & my wife is 52 years. We are married since 30 years and we are not having good sexual relationship. She is more keen but i have some issues with my health. From the beginning I have disorders and do even ejaculate very soon. Because of this our relations are not that good. Now we are on the verge of separation but due to childrens who are quire grown up and settled in their life they are strictly against this decision of ours. My wife wants divorce from me and wants to settle down with someone else and at present there is no such person in her life. I also want divorce but of the last thought. How can I regain my sexual life again please let me know.
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
It's really sad all the years of togetherness becomes nothing in front of physical relationships.
My suggestion would be to work on whatever is coming in between the two of you; which means what is stopping you from having a good sex life must be addressed.
It could be simple medical treatment or mind techniques to work on these challenges. Divorce in my opinion in your case, seems to be an impulsive move taken in frustration. Think it through and calmly address the main issue and work at it. Request your wife also to be a part of this. Do reconsider your decision to separate by trying to work out the differences. Even after that if things persist, then you know what you want to do. But at least give it a try...

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Hello sir, my son has cleared 12th class from lucknow uttar pradesh with 80% isc board. He wants to pursue btech csc, his COMEDK results are 80% percentile 23399 rank, but he failed to get csc, now he is appearing for PERA CET. What are his chances there? Can he get btech in 2nd round in COMEDK?
Ans: Shekhar Sir, Your son's chance of admission to B.Tech in Computer Science and Engineering (CSE) through COMEDK with an 80 percentile and rank around 23,399 is challenging for top-tier colleges, as CSE cutoffs in premier institutions like RVCE, BMSCE, and MSRIT generally close between rank 600 and 1,500 in early rounds. The cutoff ranks tend to relax slightly in subsequent rounds, but admission in the 2nd round for CSE at major reputed colleges typically requires a rank better than around 4,000 to 6,000. Mid-tier colleges close CSE admissions near ranks of 4,000 to 6,000 in early rounds, and beyond that, seats become scarce for CSE in popular institutions through COMEDK counseling. Later rounds might hold some opportunities, but the chances decrease considerably at that rank.

Regarding PERA CET, which is focused on private colleges primarily in Maharashtra, the expected CSE cutoff ranks for reputable colleges generally fall within the range of up to 5,000 for top-tier and up to 15,000 for mid-tier colleges. Colleges under PERA CET like Ajeenkya DY Patil University, MIT-WPU, and others maintain good academic standards, infrastructure, and placement opportunities in CSE.
Choosing the right college requires considering important institutional aspects such as experienced faculty, modern infrastructure and labs, accreditation and affiliation, industry tie-ups, and active placement support for CSE students. While COMEDK remains more competitive and focused on sought-after institutions in Karnataka, PERA CET offers a valuable pathway in private institutions of Maharashtra with relatively flexible cutoffs.

Recommendation: Prioritize COMEDK round 2 seat allotment participation but be prepared for limited CSE options given the 23,399 rank. Parallelly focus on PERA CET counseling where your son’s rank offers better chances for admission in decent CSE programs. Balance choice with institutional quality, placement record, and course curriculum to secure a good education and career start. All the BEST for a Prosperous Future!

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