Ma'am, I'm in a relationship for three years now.
Everything was normal in the beginning. But the past year has been extremely tumultuous for us as I've been expressing unnecessary anger towards my significant other.
I never used to yell at him or push him to the point where he'd get annoyed of me and stops talking to me.
While I'm the kind of person who likes to talk things out after a few hours of the argument but he's the opposite. He takes his own sweet time which is not wrong.
I realise I treat him differently from my friends as I know subconsciously he won't break up with me.
The last fight we had over something trivial made me feel like I pulled the last straw and I'm very guilty about it.
Even I've started to realise now that somewhere along the way I took him for granted and kept hurting him as he gave me a lot of chances to improve.
He is a very sweet person but I feel like I've turned him into an egoistic monster who doesn't want to see or talk to me anymore.
I don't know how to save this relationship. I don't know if I should kill my hopes of continuing this relationship.
We haven't spoken to each other for more than 2 weeks now and I am using this time to change myself and learn to control my anger and to speak with everyone with respect and understand them better.
I want to tell him that I'm genuinely improving this time but he doesn't seem interested in listening to me as I've misused the prior chances so obviously he feels like he's being deceived this time to.
So I made my mind to speak to him after a month until I feel like I've changed at least a little so I'm worthy of his love. Also I don't let my short temper and rudeness affect our relationship.
But I'm afraid he might hate me even more for not trying to talk to him.
I'm confused wondering if he'll move on and not realise in trying to change. What should I do?
AM

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What Are ULIPs?
ULIPs are hybrid products offering life insurance and investment. A portion of the premium goes towards life insurance, while the rest is invested in various funds, such as equity or debt.

Key Benefits of ULIPs
Dual Purpose: Provides life insurance coverage along with potential investment growth.

Tax Savings: Premiums are eligible for tax deductions under Section 80C. Maturity proceeds may also be tax-free under Section 10(10D), subject to conditions.

Compulsory Discipline: The five-year lock-in period ensures disciplined long-term investing.

Major Drawbacks of ULIPs
High Costs: Includes multiple charges such as premium allocation, fund management, and mortality costs. These charges reduce overall returns.

Complexity: Understanding ULIP charges and performance can be confusing due to a lack of transparency.

Limited Fund Choices: Investment options are restricted to funds offered by the insurer.

Lower Returns: High costs and fund limitations may result in below-average returns compared to mutual funds.

What Are Mutual Funds?
Mutual funds are pure investment products that pool money from investors and invest in equity, debt, or a mix of both, depending on the fund type.

Key Benefits of Mutual Funds
Variety of Options: Mutual funds offer options like equity, debt, hybrid, and sector-specific funds to suit different financial goals and risk profiles.

Transparency: Investors can track fund performance, portfolio holdings, and expense ratios.

Low Costs: Mutual funds generally have lower charges compared to ULIPs, making them more cost-effective.

Flexibility: You can switch funds, adjust SIP contributions, or redeem investments anytime (subject to exit load).

Higher Returns: Over the long term, mutual funds tend to deliver better returns due to active management and lower costs.

Major Drawbacks of Mutual Funds
No Insurance Coverage: Unlike ULIPs, mutual funds are purely for investment and do not provide life insurance.

Tax on Gains: Gains from mutual funds are taxed based on the holding period and type of fund.

Comparative Analysis of ULIPs and Mutual Funds
Objective
ULIPs aim to provide both life insurance and investment returns.
Mutual funds focus solely on investments, leading to better fund management.
Transparency
ULIPs are less transparent due to their complex fee structures and limited fund details.
Mutual funds are highly transparent, offering regular updates on performance, portfolio composition, and costs.
Costs
ULIPs have high charges, including mortality, administration, and fund management costs. These significantly reduce returns.
Mutual funds are more cost-efficient, with lower expense ratios and no hidden charges.
Returns
ULIP returns are moderate due to high costs and limited fund options.
Mutual funds offer potentially higher returns due to professional fund management and diversified investment choices.
Flexibility
ULIPs have limited flexibility, as you are restricted to funds offered by the insurer.
Mutual funds provide greater flexibility, allowing you to switch funds, adjust investments, and even redeem partially.
Lock-in Period
ULIPs have a mandatory lock-in period of five years.
Mutual funds are more flexible, with no lock-in period except for tax-saving ELSS funds, which have a three-year lock-in.
Tax Benefits
ULIP premiums qualify for tax deductions under Section 80C. The maturity proceeds are tax-free under Section 10(10D), provided conditions are met.
Mutual funds offer tax benefits only for ELSS funds under Section 80C. Gains are taxable, as per the holding period.
Why Mutual Funds Are a Better Option
Focused Investment Approach
Mutual funds concentrate solely on investments, ensuring professional management and efficient fund allocation.

Higher Returns Potential
The absence of high charges allows mutual funds to deliver better returns over the long term.

Flexibility and Control
Mutual funds allow you to choose or switch between funds based on market conditions or financial goals.

Cost-Effective
Mutual funds are more cost-efficient due to lower expense ratios compared to ULIPs.

Why ULIPs May Not Be Suitable
High Charges
ULIPs have various charges that reduce your net returns. This makes them less attractive compared to mutual funds.

Limited Fund Options
You are restricted to investing only in the funds offered by the insurance company. This limits diversification.

Complexity
The structure of ULIPs, with their multiple charges and insurance components, makes them difficult to understand and monitor.

Final Insights
Mutual funds are the better investment choice for long-term wealth creation due to their focused investment strategy, flexibility, and cost-efficiency. ULIPs, on the other hand, are best avoided unless you specifically need life insurance along with investments.

For life insurance, consider a term plan, and for investments, focus on well-managed mutual funds. This combination will help you achieve your financial goals more effectively.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment

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