Hi,
I had been in a relationship for a few years. We broke up a year ago.
Recently, I met someone else I like through a dating app. We have met a few times and really like each other.
Now, my old girlfriend has suddenly come back in my life saying she wants to marry me.
I asked her about the break-up and she said problems are always there in life and we can work it out together.
I really like both of them. Both are nice girls. What do I do now?
Krish

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