Hi gurus, I am 24, have been in a relationship with a woman for the past one and a half years, out of which 7 months have been long distance, as she has gone to Canada for higher studies. In the meantime, I fell in love with another woman in my office, and she loves me back too, knowing my situation. I confessed about this to my girlfriend and asked to break the relationship as the card of loyalty has been broken already. She insisted that we try and come out of this mess, and that she was not ready to leave me. I had already told the other woman to not get over involved with me as I formally am in a relationship with another woman. Both of them are refusing to leave or move on. I am in a dilemma and feel guilty sometimes for messing two lives up. What should I do further?

Hello I am married 42 male. I m in love with a lady who is also married for the last 2 yr . We met through matrimony prior both of our marriage in 2015. She has many relationships till date with colleagues and also with her husband boss. Inspite of knowing this , I am unable to come out of the relationship. Also she used to tell me she doesn't love me.i hv already spent around 1.5 lakhs for buying gifts

Dear Madam.... iam a 42 year old single man. I am in relationship with a divorced lady of 35 years old for past 1 year. Recently I found she have relationship with another man also. When i asked her she got angry and told me nobody have, she loves only me. When asked repeatedly she told i didnt give her time so she gone with that man . But now no relationship with him. And says in her life only iam her man. I love her so much. But i can't trust her. What shall i do. Iam mentally upset.

I was in a relationship with a girl for 4 years. I tried many times to leave her, but ultimately I couldn't. Around April-May, I started distancing myself from her emotionally. I told her that if I ever marry her, I would also have to marry someone of my parents' choice - essentially saying I'd have two marriages. I started ignoring her intentionally. At that time, she got a job where she met a new guy - her team lead. He proposed marriage to her directly, introduced her to his parents via video call, and even had her meet his sister. I didn't know about this initially. But on the very day I found out, she was meeting his mother. That day, I directly went there, confronted her, got very angry, even broke her phone, and warned the guy as well - told him that if he truly wanted to marry her, he should talk to her family properly and bring a formal proposal. After that, I went to my hometown for 6 days. During that time, I asked the guy: "Why do you want to marry someone who is already in a sexual relationship with me?" Despite knowing everything, he was still interested in her. I realized he was probably just trying to use her and would eventually leave. Eventually, she understood this and blocked him. However, while I was away, they started talking again secretly. After I came back, they stopped meeting, and she acted as if she was fully committed to me. But 15 days later, she met him again and had sex with him twice on the same day. That same night, she had sex with me as well - which made me suspicious. I tried to confirm it with the guy, and eventually, he confessed. Later, she also admitted it and said it was a mistake, and that she thought he would marry her - but he ended up leaving her. I tried to reach him for 2 days after that, but he had disappeared, was unreachable through anyone. Later, I ended up marrying her. Now it's been about a month since the marriage. We have also filed an FIR against that guy. But even now, I cannot mentally move past what happened. I'm constantly disturbed. I started smoking again - I had quit 2 years ago. But now it's gone from 1-2 cigarettes to 5-6 daily. I feel lost. My mind says I should marry someone else, someone of my family's choice - because everything I thought was special between me and her, she ended up doing with someone else. And even now, after 2 months of marriage, she doesn't seem to show any regret or guilt. She still behaves like she did back then - nothing has changed. I thought she would improve after marriage, but it's the same daily fights, arguments, and instability. I don't know what to do. I feel stuck, mentally exhausted, betrayed, and confused.