Hi gurus, I am 24, have been in a relationship with a woman for the past one and a half years, out of which 7 months have been long distance, as she has gone to Canada for higher studies. In the meantime, I fell in love with another woman in my office, and she loves me back too, knowing my situation. I confessed about this to my girlfriend and asked to break the relationship as the card of loyalty has been broken already. She insisted that we try and come out of this mess, and that she was not ready to leave me. I had already told the other woman to not get over involved with me as I formally am in a relationship with another woman. Both of them are refusing to leave or move on. I am in a dilemma and feel guilty sometimes for messing two lives up. What should I do further?

Ans: It sounds like you’re in a challenging phase, feeling stretched between your job and the demands of your M.Tech program. The pressure of assignments, labs, quizzes, and exams is making you question whether this was the right decision, and the financial penalty of quitting adds another layer of stress. But before making a decision, let’s take a step back and reflect.
What was your initial motivation for enrolling in this program? Was it career growth, a passion for learning, or future stability? Do those reasons still matter to you, or has your perspective changed? Sometimes, when we’re overwhelmed, we forget why we started. Reconnecting with that purpose can help clarify whether the struggle is worth it. Another important question is: What exactly is overwhelming you? Is it a lack of time, the workload, or the fear of burnout? If better systems were in place—like structured time blocks, prioritization, or external support - would it still feel unmanageable? It’s also important to define what success looks like for you. If you push through, where do you see yourself in two years? If you quit, what’s the alternative, and are you comfortable with the financial and career implications? Finally, have you explored all possible support systems - mentors, colleagues, or even university resources - to lighten the load?
Decisions like this aren’t just about choosing between two options; they’re about understanding what truly matters to you and what sacrifices you’re willing to make. Rather than focusing on whether you should continue or quit, ask yourself: What would make this journey easier? What changes, however small, could help you regain control? You don’t have to find all the answers today, but you do need to start asking the right questions.

Wishing you success,
Aamish Dhingra
ICF-PCC Certified Life Coach
Co-Founder, Cocoweave Coaching International, Delhi

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02. If land was purchased after 01.04.2001, then consider the actual cost. Its indexation can be adopted as per I.T.Act.
03. If land was purchased before 01.04.2001, then you may take a Certificate form the Architect, regarding its cost. In this case Indexation may be considered from 01.04.2001.
04. You may plan your Taxes by Investing the amount of LTCG in purchase or Construction of a Residential house, with in specified time limit. You also have the option to invest in Capital Gain Bonds & save tax.
05. Making a deposit in Capital Gain Account Scheme is a temporary action. There after you will have to plan your investments, as suggested in para no.04 above.
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Most welcome for any further clarifications. Thanks.

Ans: Please never think in this line. Three months is a very small time. I counselled people who continued their career after three years of gap. So be rest assured. You are totally eligible for any future job and I am sure within a very short time I will receive a positive message from your side. I am always there to help you. Best of luck. Professor.........................................:)

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