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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Oct 29, 2021
I was engaged to a girl but somehow it didn't work out and we called off the relationship as we had compatibility issues.
It was an arranged setup and we met through one of these online matrimony portals.
But while being engaged to her, I also happened to bump into one of my ex-girlfriends who I always knew was the best relationship I ever had.
We broke up because it was a long distance. Six months ago, I shifted nearby and we started meeting.
Our meetings have increased and now we have been meeting and talking regularly.
We even went out together and got physical and one day I expressed that I want her back in my life.
Now the issue is she is dating someone else and she feels divided now.
They were planning to get married in a couple of years and I can sense that confusion in her but I also don't want to give up on her as I have never felt this way for anyone ever.
Tell me what I should do?
When someone is confused, give them space to sort it out their way as that will be most authentic for them.
Either that decision may include you in her life or it may not, whatever that is…do respect it…her life, her way…by being physical once, does not mean that it must lead to something that favours your feelings!
If she is committed to the guy that she is dating, as simple as that…give her time; let her make the choice!
Be at peace!
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