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Relationships Expert - Answered on Apr 07, 2022
Dear Love Guru,
I was in a relationship for a few years. Our parting was mutual and amicable and we are friends now.
My wedding has been fixed through an arranged match. It will take place in May.
I don’t know my fiance that well. He knows about my past relationship but does not know it was physical. I have been battling with myself if I should tell him or if I tell him this might break or that I will give my marriage a bad start.
What do you advise?
AK
You say he already knows about your past relationship. Has he been accepting of it? If so, then there’s no need to go into the nitty gritty details, is there?
People in relationships are obviously physical with each other; only a fool would assume otherwise.
And what about his past? Has he told you about it?
Yes, I do think you should be honest with your partner if it’s weighing on you or bothering you. If not, and suffice to say he knows of your past relationship and hasn’t asked for further details, then leave it alone.
But I will say this: if you do tell him, you’ll know the kind of man you’re marrying.
If he’s fine with it and accepts that everyone has a history and it is to be accepted as part of them, that’s fine.
If not, then, well, I would call off the marriage if I were in your place, forget him doing so! Who wants to be married to an old-fashioned chauvinist?
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