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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Jul 04, 2022
Dear S,
It’s unfortunate that relationships outside of marriage seem to be used as a way of escaping something that is deeper.
Your sister’s children I presume must be older where they understand what is happening to the mental health of their mother. It might be wise for your sister to relook at her life in a new light.
Children have grown up and now she can think for herself; even if she is financially not independent, things can be sorted out.
She needs to take the decision to what that change else as a brother no matter what you try, it will not work as your sister is used to living life as a victim and this possibly offers her a roof over her head and that of her children.
Also, it isn’t easy to live life as a single woman and hence she might have never allowed herself the thought of being independent.
Give her a lot of love and support her, but tell her that giving up on her life only will mean that her husband would have achieved a clear path to do more of what he already has.
Set up an environment for her to flourish, maybe she can study something or start working.
It will empower her to take strong decisions for herself and her children.
Enable her to do the right thing for herself.
Best wishes!
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