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Asked by Anonymous - Feb 19, 2024Hindi
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Hi Kanchan,I am 42 year old male and have been separated from marital relationship and i don't have children,since 13 years and living alone where my father and mother had passed away few years ago.I was searching for brides profile from matrimony websites and found a widowed woman who is selfemployed. I called and talked her. she is equivalent of my age.She has one son aged of 24.I was willing to marry her but she does not want to marry anybody rather she expressed her interest and consent to live in a cohabitation(Living together relationship).(She said that her son is a grown up boy and preparing for competitive exams and she loves him a lot,She added that it is not possible to convince him for marrying another person.I accepted it and said ok. Later on we had date and moved on.Whenever she come for a date she asks me to spend and buy apparels,asking me to recharge mobile,asking me to buy provisions ,watches and to pay water taxes of her house.I did it without hesitation and she asks me for gold ring and ear-studs.She is not having contentment and i feel that she is greedy and she does not shows any form of courtesy towards me and further she did not spend even a single rupee for me .I am worried that she is exploiting me.I was wondered and shocked that during a little discussion with her she said that she could move away from me at any point of time if she finds any other person whom she likes her.I was dejected.I said that i am not your Money wallet to swindle me.I am not ready to spend money to a girl who informs me that she will be leaving from me.I scolded her. Even when have planned to marry at that time the woman asks me that whether i am a dominating person and asking about the details of my earlier marriage and testing about my genuinity. Now the relationship has broken between us and i am very much worried that whether i have taken a correct decision or not from stepping away from her because whenever i like to see her she ask me to make surprises for her.In turn no love and affection is being received from her. Kindly advice me that whether i have taken correct decision from quitting her relationship or i have hurried a lot by taken a wrong decision. Please advice and guide me and do the needful in this regard.

Ans: It sounds like you've been through a lot and have put a lot of thought into your relationship with this woman. From what you've described, it seems like her behavior, particularly asking for financial support without reciprocating affection or showing respect, was not healthy or sustainable for a fulfilling relationship.

You deserve to be in a relationship where you feel valued and respected. It's understandable that you would feel hurt and confused by her actions, especially her indication that she could leave if she finds someone else. Trust and mutual respect are important foundations for any relationship, and it's important to prioritize your own well-being and happiness.

It seems like you made a thoughtful decision to end the relationship, and it's okay to take time to reflect on that decision. Trust your instincts and prioritize your own needs and feelings. If you're unsure, you could consider seeking advice from a counselor or therapist who can provide support and guidance as you navigate this situation.

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Hi Anu,I am 42 year old male and have been separated from marital relationship and i don't have children,since 13 years and living alone where my father and mother had passed away few years ago.I was searching for brides profile from matrimony websites and found a widowed woman who is selfemployed. I called and talked her. she is equivalent of my age.She has one son aged of 24.I was willing to marry her but she does not want to marry anybody rather she expressed her interest and consent to live in a cohabitation(Living together relationship).(She said that her son is a grown up boy and preparing for competitive exams and she loves him a lot,She added that it is not possible to convince him for marrying another person.I accepted it and said ok. Later on we had date and moved on.Whenever she come for a date she asks me to spend and buy apparels,asking me to recharge mobile,asking me to buy provisions ,watches and to pay water taxes of her house.I did it without hesitation and she asks me for gold ring and ear-studs.She is not having contentment and i feel that she is greedy and she does not shows any form of courtesy towards me and further she did not spend even a single rupee for me .I am worried that she is exploiting me.I was wondered and shocked that during a little discussion with her she said that she could move away from me at any point of time if she finds any other person whom she likes her.I was dejected.I said that i am not your Money wallet to swindle me.I am not ready to spend money to a girl who informs me that she will be leaving from me.I scolded her. Even when have planned to marry at that time the woman asks me that whether i am a dominating person and asking about the details of my earlier marriage and testing about my genuinity. Now the relationship has broken between us and i am very much worried that whether i have taken a correct decision or not from stepping away from her because whenever i like to see her she ask me to make surprises for her.In turn no love and affection is being received from her. Kindly advice me that whether i have taken correct decision from quitting her relationship or i have hurried a lot by taken a wrong decision. Please advice and guide me and do the needful in this regard.
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
You have done yourself a huge favor by leaving her and the connection with her. When you started to have doubts about her being greedy was the time that you knew that she was just taking advantage of your kindness.
She was clearly never serious about this association from the beginning and spending your money and demanding more is a clear RED FLAG that she was never interested in anything long-term and that it was a convenient as long as you met her needs through money.
What more proof do you want? Are you now still worried about the fact whether you taken the right decision or not?
Kindly invest time and energy in people who nourish you and let you grow in all areas of your life. Be wise...

All the best!
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Hi Shalini,I am 42 year old male and have been separated from marital relationship and i don't have children,since 13 years and living alone where my father and mother had passed away few years ago.I was searching for brides profile from matrimony websites and found a widowed woman who is selfemployed. I called and talked her. she is equivalent of my age.She has one son aged of 24.I was willing to marry her but she does not want to marry anybody rather she expressed her interest and consent to live in a cohabitation(Living together relationship).(She said that her son is a grown up boy and preparing for competitive exams and she loves him a lot,She added that it is not possible to convince him for marrying another person.I accepted it and said ok. Later on we had date and moved on.Whenever she come for a date she asks me to spend and buy apparels,asking me to recharge mobile,asking me to buy provisions ,watches and to pay water taxes of her house.I did it without hesitation and she asks me for gold ring and ear-studs.She is not having contentment and i feel that she is greedy and she does not shows any form of courtesy towards me and further she did not spend even a single rupee for me .I am worried that she is exploiting me.I was wondered and shocked that during a little discussion with her she said that she could move away from me at any point of time if she finds any other person whom she likes her.I was dejected.I said that i am not your Money wallet to swindle me.I am not ready to spend money to a girl who informs me that she will be leaving from me.I scolded her. Even when have planned to marry at that time the woman asks me that whether i am a dominating person and asking about the details of my earlier marriage and testing about my genuinity. Now the relationship has broken between us and i am very much worried that whether i have taken a correct decision or not from stepping away from her because whenever i like to see her she ask me to make surprises for her.In turn no love and affection is being received from her. Kindly advice me that whether i have taken correct decision from quitting her relationship or i have hurried a lot by taken a wrong decision. Please advice and guide me and do the needful in this regard.
Ans: It's understandable that you're feeling confused and conflicted about your recent relationship. Based on what you've described, several points emerge:

Red flags in the relationship:

Financial demands: Her consistent requests for money and expensive gifts, without reciprocation, raise concerns about potential financial exploitation.
Lack of emotional connection: You mentioned not receiving love and affection, raising questions about her genuine interest in building a meaningful relationship.
Conditional presence: Her statement about leaving for someone else suggests instability and lack of commitment.
Focus on your past: Excessive questioning about your previous marriage could indicate insecurity or distrust.
Your decision to step away:

Given these red flags, your decision to end the relationship seems reasonable. Prioritizing your emotional and financial well-being is crucial.

Moving forward:

Focus on self-care: Allow yourself time to process this experience and prioritize your emotional well-being. Explore activities that bring you joy and fulfillment.
Consider therapy: Talking to a therapist or counselor can help you gain clarity, understand your needs, and develop healthy relationship patterns.
Refine your approach: Reflect on what you seek in a relationship and adjust your boundaries and expectations when seeking future partners. Don't hesitate to say no to financial requests or behaviors that make you uncomfortable.
Be patient: Finding a genuine connection takes time and effort. Focus on personal growth and building healthy relationships before actively seeking a new partner.
Remember, prioritizing your self-worth and respecting your boundaries is essential for building healthy and fulfilling relationships. Don't feel pressured to rush into anything that doesn't feel right. Focus on building a life that brings you happiness and fulfillment, and the right connections will follow.
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Hi Anu,I am 42 year old male and have been separated from marital relationship and i don't have children,since 13 years and living alone where my father and mother had passed away few years ago.I was searching for brides profile from matrimony websites and found a widowed woman who is selfemployed. I called and talked her. she is equivalent of my age.She has one son aged of 24.I was willing to marry her but she does not want to marry anybody rather she expressed her interest and consent to live in a cohabitation(Living together relationship).(She said that her son is a grown up boy and preparing for competitive exams and she loves him a lot,She added that it is not possible to convince him for marrying another person.I accepted it and said ok. Later on we had date and moved on.Whenever she come for a date she asks me to spend and buy apparels,asking me to recharge mobile,asking me to buy provisions ,watches and to pay water taxes of her house.I did it without hesitation and she asks me for gold ring and ear-studs.She is not having contentment and i feel that she is greedy and she does not shows any form of courtesy towards me and further she did not spend even a single rupee for me .I am worried that she is exploiting me.I was wondered and shocked that during a little discussion with her she said that she could move away from me at any point of time if she finds any other person whom she likes her.I was dejected.I said that i am not your Money wallet to swindle me.I am not ready to spend money to a girl who informs me that she will be leaving from me.I scolded her. Even when have planned to marry at that time the woman asks me that whether i am a dominating person and asking about the details of my earlier marriage and testing about my genuinity. Now the relationship has broken between us and i am very much worried that whether i have taken a correct decision or not from stepping away from her because whenever i like to see her she ask me to make surprises for her.In turn no love and affection is being received from her. Kindly advice me that whether i have taken correct decision from quitting her relationship or i have hurried a lot by taken a wrong decision. Please advice and guide me and do the needful in this regard.
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Hi I have following SIPs. Can you suggest whether they are good, bad or ugly and suggest changes if any. Quant small cap direct growth-10000 Canara robecco small cap DG- 10000 PGIM india mid cap Opp DG-10000 SBI contra Direct plan growth-10000 Parag parik flexi cap DG-10000 Quant infrastructure DG-10000 ICICI prudential tech fund-10000 Tata digital India regular plan-10000 Aditya birla sun life digital India regular plan -10000 - I hv started investing in last 6months and aim is to make atleast 3cr by next 10yrs. I hv certain other investments in SIPs, equity and PF (about 50000 per month) Thank you
Ans: Your portfolio seems well-diversified across different categories and themes, which is a good approach. However, there are a few considerations to keep in mind:

Small Cap Exposure: Having significant exposure to small-cap funds like Quant Small Cap and Canara Robeco Small Cap can add volatility to your portfolio. While they have the potential for high returns, they also come with higher risk. Ensure you have a high-risk tolerance and a long-term investment horizon if you intend to stay invested in these funds.
Sectoral and Theme Funds: Funds like ICICI Prudential Tech Fund, Tata Digital India, and Aditya Birla Sun Life Digital India focus on specific sectors/themes. While these can offer opportunities for growth, they also carry concentration risk. Monitor these funds closely and be prepared for volatility, considering the dynamic nature of sectoral investments.
Mid Cap and Flexi Cap: PGIM India Mid Cap Opp and Parag Parik Flexi Cap provide exposure to mid-cap and flexible-cap segments, which can complement your small-cap investments. Ensure you review the performance and portfolio composition of these funds regularly to confirm they align with your investment objectives.
Regular Review: Given your long-term goal of reaching 3 crores in 10 years, regularly review your portfolio's performance and make adjustments as necessary. Consider rebalancing periodically to maintain your desired asset allocation and risk level.
Risk Management: Since you have a significant amount invested across various funds, ensure you have an adequate emergency fund and insurance coverage to mitigate any unforeseen risks.
Overall, your portfolio appears to have the potential to achieve your long-term financial goals, but it's essential to monitor and adjust it periodically based on your changing financial situation and market conditions. Consider consulting with a financial advisor for personalized advice tailored to your specific needs and objectives.
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sir, pl. advise me whether to continue or wait with this fund. I have invested in these funds sip / lumpsum. Aditya Birla Sun Life Small Cap Fund (formerly known as Aditya Birla sun Life Small & Midcap fund) Lumpsum Aditya Birla sun Life frontline equity fund Lumpsum Aidtya Birla sun life liquid fund Lumpsum Aditya Birla sun life tax relief '96 SIP stopped ICICI Prudential Equity & Debt Fund ‐ Growth Lumpsum Hdfc Balanced advantage fund-Direct Plan-Growth Option Lumpsum ICICI prudential value discovery fund_direct plan- Growth earlier known as ICICI prudential value fund series 19 direct plan subsequently switch out (merger) on 24.06.2021 Lumpsum Nippon India Focused Equity Fund ‐Growth Plan Lumpsum Nippon India Large Cap Fund‐ Growth Plan ‐Growth Option Lumpsum Axis Small Cap Fund ‐ Regular Plan ‐ Growth SIP Canara Robeco Emerging Equities ‐ Regular Plan Growth SIP HDFC Multi Cap Fund ‐ Growth Option SIP ICICI Prudential Flexicap Fund ‐ Growth SIP ICICI Prudential Transportation And Logistics Fund SIP SBI Magnum Midcap Fund - Regular Plan - Growth SIP
Ans: When deciding whether to continue or wait with your current mutual fund investments, consider the following factors:

Performance: Evaluate the performance of each fund over different time periods. Look at their returns compared to benchmark indices and peer funds in the same category.
Fund Objectives: Ensure that the objectives of the funds align with your investment goals and risk tolerance. Review the fund's investment strategy and portfolio composition.
Fund Manager: Assess the track record and expertise of the fund manager managing each fund. A skilled and experienced fund manager can significantly impact fund performance.
Expense Ratio: Consider the expense ratio of each fund, as higher expenses can eat into your returns over time. Compare the expense ratios of your funds with similar funds in the market.
Market Conditions: Take into account the current market conditions and economic outlook. Certain funds may perform better in specific market environments.
Changes in Personal Financial Situation: Evaluate any changes in your personal financial situation or investment goals that may necessitate adjustments to your portfolio.
Review Periodically: Regularly review your portfolio to ensure it remains aligned with your objectives. Consider rebalancing or making changes if needed based on market trends or changes in your financial situation.
By carefully considering these factors and possibly seeking advice from a financial advisor, you can make informed decisions about whether to continue or wait with your current mutual fund investments.
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Hello Sir, I am 43 yrs of age and following is the list of my MF holdings which are all 15 Months Plus......Can you pls advice me if I should continue to remain Invested in the same or should I change any of these....I am looking at an aggressive and high return Funds in the next 3 Years....Also one very important point is all my Investments are thru an Agent, do you suggest i shud withdraw them all and go for Direct Plans.....Pls advice - SIP Details - CANARA ROBECCO EMERGING EQUITIES FUND – 10000 PGIM INDIA MID CAP OPPORTUNITIES FUND – 5000 ICICI PRUDENTIAL TECHNOLOGY FUND – 4000 SBI FOCUSED EQUITY FUND – 6000 QUANT ACTIVE FUND – 10000 MIRAE ASSET LARGE CAP FUND – 10000 INDIA INFOLINE - 5000 LUMPSUM Details - PGIM INDIA MID CAP OPPORTUNITIES FUND – REGULAR GROWTH – 3 LACS K1155 - KOTAK MULTICAP FUND – REGULAR PLAN GROWTH – 3 LACS AXIS MULTICAP FUND REGULAR PLAN GROWTH – 3 LACS IIFL FOCUSED EQUITY FUND – 4 LACS UTI FLEXI CAP FUND – 2.5 LACS MIRAE ASSET LARGE CAP FUND – 3 LACS LIC MF LARGE AND MID CAP FUND – 4 LACS CANARA ROBECCO BLUE CHIP EQUITY FUND – 3 LACS QUANT ACTIVE FUND – 2.5 LACS PARAG PARIKH FLEXI CAP FUND – 2.5 LACS
Ans: Given your desire for aggressive growth in the next 3 years, it's crucial to assess your current mutual fund holdings and make informed decisions. Here are some considerations:

Performance Review: Evaluate the performance of your existing funds over the past few years. Look at their consistency, returns, and how they have performed during different market cycles.
Risk Appetite: Consider your risk tolerance and whether your current funds align with your risk profile. Aggressive funds typically carry higher risk, so ensure you are comfortable with potential volatility.
Diversification: Check the diversification of your portfolio across different fund types (large cap, mid cap, small cap) and sectors. A well-diversified portfolio can help mitigate risk.
Expense Ratio: Assess the expense ratio of your funds, especially if they are regular plans. Direct plans generally have lower expense ratios, which can significantly impact returns over the long term.
Exit Loads and Tax Implications: Understand any exit loads or tax implications associated with redeeming your existing investments, especially if they are less than 3 years old.
Consideration of Direct Plans: Switching to direct plans can save on expenses in the long run, potentially boosting returns. However, ensure you are comfortable with managing your investments independently or seek the assistance of a fee-based advisor.
After considering these factors, you can decide whether to continue with your current holdings, reallocate investments, or explore new funds that align better with your goals and risk appetite. It's essential to periodically review your portfolio and make adjustments as needed to stay on track with your financial objectives.
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Dear Sir, My name is Shrikanth S Kumar. My age is 38 and wife's age is 34. My total annual CTC is 16,10,000. My monthly expenses is 40 k. I have 15 lakhs in savings account which I can invest for Long term. Please suggest New SIPS or current good sips and investment avenues to continue. Started investing in equity sips from 5 years. I have a target net worth to reach of 5CR in 5years. I have 13 lakhs MF portfolio, and my running MF sip are 35k in quant active, 30k in parag parikh flexi cap,6k in DSP Nifty 50 equal wieght Index fund and 5k in nippon small cap.
Ans: It's great to see your proactive approach towards long-term financial planning. Given your income, expenses, and existing investments, here are some suggestions to help you achieve your target net worth of 5 crores in 5 years:

Increase SIP Contributions: Consider increasing your SIP contributions to align with your ambitious goal. You may also explore the option of stepping up SIP amounts annually to accelerate wealth accumulation.
Diversification: While your current SIPs are well-diversified, you can further enhance diversification by adding funds from different categories such as large-cap, mid-cap, and multi-cap funds. This helps spread risk and capture opportunities across market segments.
Explore Tax-Saving Investments: Utilize tax-saving investment avenues such as Equity Linked Savings Schemes (ELSS) to optimize tax benefits while building wealth. ELSS funds offer the twin benefits of tax savings under Section 80C of the Income Tax Act and potential capital appreciation.
Regular Review and Rebalancing: Regularly review your investment portfolio to ensure it remains aligned with your financial goals and risk tolerance. Consider rebalancing your portfolio periodically to maintain the desired asset allocation mix.
Emergency Fund: Ensure you have an adequate emergency fund set aside in a liquid instrument like a savings account or liquid mutual fund to cover unforeseen expenses without disrupting your investment portfolio.
Seek Professional Advice: Given the ambitious nature of your financial goal, consider consulting with a certified financial planner who can provide personalized advice tailored to your specific circumstances and objectives.
Remember, achieving a significant target like 5 crores in 5 years requires disciplined savings, strategic investing, and periodic reassessment of your financial plan. Stay focused on your long-term objectives and remain patient during market fluctuations.
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Hello, please advise. I want to create of corpus of 5 crores in 5 years, the value of my current portfolio is 50 lakhs. I am 44 years. My monthly SIP is around 2.25 lakhs. Rs. 1.25 lakhs in Franklin India US opps fund, Smaller companies, Tech fund, Axis Bluechip and small cap, Mirae Asset Blue chip, Canara Robeco Equity hybrid, Motilal Nasdaq 100 FOF, Parag Parikh long term equity. Started another Rs. 1 lakh last month in ICICI Prudential Mutual bank, DSP, Franklin India smaller companies, Kotak Emerging Equity, HDFC Flexi, HDFC Smaller Cap, Tata Digital India Fund. Please advise.
Ans: It's commendable that you're focused on building a significant corpus in a relatively short period. However, aiming for a corpus of 5 crores in just 5 years is an ambitious goal and may require a carefully crafted strategy and potentially higher investments.

Here are some considerations:

Investment Amount: Given your current portfolio value of 50 lakhs and monthly SIP of 2.25 lakhs, you may need to increase your investment amount to achieve your target. Consider whether it's feasible to increase your SIP amount or allocate additional lump sum investments.
Risk and Return: With a relatively short investment horizon, it's crucial to strike a balance between risk and return. Evaluate the risk profile of your investments and ensure they align with your risk tolerance and goals.
Diversification: Review the diversification of your portfolio across different asset classes, sectors, and market capitalizations. Consider diversifying further if needed to reduce concentration risk.
Regular Review: Given the short time frame, regularly monitor the performance of your investments and adjust your strategy as needed. Be prepared to make tactical changes based on market conditions and evolving financial goals.
Professional Advice: Consider consulting with a certified financial planner or advisor who can provide personalized guidance based on your financial situation, goals, and risk profile.
Remember, achieving such a substantial corpus in a short period requires disciplined savings, prudent investing, and realistic expectations. While it's essential to aim high, it's also crucial to maintain a realistic perspective and adapt your strategy as needed along the way.
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I have following mutual fund in my portfolio 1. Parag Parikh flexi cap 2. Pgim India midcap opportunity 3. Quant tax plan 4. Canera Rebecca equity tax fund Do I need to change anything,please suggest
Ans: Your portfolio appears to have a mix of flexi-cap, mid-cap, and tax-saving equity funds, providing diversification across different market segments. However, it's essential to periodically review your investments to ensure they align with your financial goals, risk tolerance, and market conditions. Here are a few considerations:

Diversification: Assess whether your portfolio is adequately diversified across different asset classes, sectors, and market capitalizations. Consider adding exposure to other sectors or asset classes if needed to reduce concentration risk.
Performance: Evaluate the performance of each fund relative to its benchmark index and peers. If any fund consistently underperforms or deviates significantly from its investment mandate, consider replacing it with a better-performing alternative.
Tax Efficiency: Since you have a tax-saving equity fund in your portfolio, ensure it aligns with your tax planning goals and provides adequate tax benefits. Evaluate its performance and tax efficiency compared to other tax-saving options.
Risk Management: Consider your risk tolerance and investment horizon when making changes to your portfolio. Ensure that the overall risk level of your investments is in line with your comfort level and financial objectives.
Professional Advice: Consult with a certified financial planner or advisor who can provide personalized recommendations based on your financial situation and goals.
Ultimately, the decision to change or maintain your portfolio depends on your individual circumstances and market outlook. Regular review and adjustment can help ensure that your investments remain aligned with your long-term financial goals.
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