i hurted a innocent person. what to do ? i feel very much guilt

Dear H,

What is done, is done!

Time to salvage what you can now…

Is it possible for you to try for a job in a new place?

Who else in the current place can actually help you out of this?

Is there a possibility of exposing your boss? What will be the challenges doing this?

What else can you do that you haven’t yet done before to retain the job and yet be at peace?

How can your sons support you in this time that their mother is in need?

Sometimes, we feel that we have reached the end of the tunnel but remember that that is the place where your power will determine how you can bring the dark tunnel down to feel the light back.

Empower yourself with positive thoughts and begin the day with not what has gone wrong, but what more you can do to lift yourself up?

We are defined by our ability to pick ourselves up and overcome challenges and you have done this many times before, why not one more time?

Best wishes!

Guilt is not reason enough to go back to an ex, especially one who dumped you for someone else.

If, on the other hand you love him, that's another situation altogether, but you haven't specified that you do.

It may just be that he wants you back because you have now committed to another man?

You need to figure out what you want and who you want. Do you want to give him another chance? How likely is he to break your heart again?

And, on a separate note, I think you're rushing into marriage by December. You haven't given yourself any time to breathe after a decade-long relationship. Why?

Don't marry on the rebound; that will be a terrible mistake, even if you're not going back to your previous boyfriend.

Figure out whether you want to make contact with him first and why. Then take things forward.