I am Haarika, mother of two sons. Actually I take any decision after thinking a lot and wisely. But, recently, I made a mistake. I applied for a transfer to another place in order to save me mentally from the harassment of my womanizer and idiot boss. The people who promised me that they will help me in my choice of posting in new place took a U turn. Here I met higher officers, but they didn't consider my appeal. I’m feeling guilty that I took wrong decision and troubled my kids. My kids are 23 years and 19 years old. I’m very guilty why I took such a foolish decision.
Pl. Help me to get rid of this mess.
Ans: Dear H,
What is done, is done!
Time to salvage what you can now…
Is it possible for you to try for a job in a new place?
Who else in the current place can actually help you out of this?
Is there a possibility of exposing your boss? What will be the challenges doing this?
What else can you do that you haven’t yet done before to retain the job and yet be at peace?
How can your sons support you in this time that their mother is in need?
Sometimes, we feel that we have reached the end of the tunnel but remember that that is the place where your power will determine how you can bring the dark tunnel down to feel the light back.
Empower yourself with positive thoughts and begin the day with not what has gone wrong, but what more you can do to lift yourself up?
We are defined by our ability to pick ourselves up and overcome challenges and you have done this many times before, why not one more time?
Best wishes!
