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Question by Bablu on Jun 02, 2024Hindi

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Hello mam mera name bablu rahul he or me ek long distance relationship me hu hamare relationship ko 3 month ho gaye he lekin bo mujhse milne ki bol rahi he problam ye he mam ki hamari first chat hui thi tab mene use apna name rahul bataya jo ki mera surname he ab ise bo mera first name samajhti he lekin mera first name bablu he ab me usko kese batau ki mera name name rahul nahi bablu he ham sono me se apna relationship koi kharab karna nahi chahta kya koi esi prossese he jo me use apna real name bata saku kahi bo batane se mujhse gussa to nahi ho jayegi pls help me me mam

Ans: Dear Bablu,

This is not a big deal. Tell her that there was some confusion. Tell her that your first name is Bablu and your surname is Rahul. Since she started calling you by Rahul, you never corrected her. And you also like how she calls you Rahul. You are telling the truth and hence you have nothing to fear. Moreover, no one should be mad because of such a small matter. Please tell her as soon as possible to avoid any more complications.

Best Wishes.

Asked on - Jun 04, 2024 | Answered on Jun 06, 2024

Thank you sir i hope bo meri bat samjhe?

Ans: Dear Bablu,

I am hopeful that she will understand. It is a very simple matter of miscommunication and misinterpretation. You were not lying about your name here. I am sure she won't take it too seriously either. Just tell her as soon as possible.

Best Wishes.

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Hello love guru mera name bablu rahul he or me ek long distance relationship me hu social site par usne mera name aaj tak nahi pucha lekin mene use apna name sirf rahul bataya jo ki mera cast he or hamare relationship ko 3 month ho gaye he lekin ab mujhe ye samjh nahi aa raha ki me use real name kese batau pls help me.

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