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Bablu Question by Bablu on Jun 02, 2024Hindi
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Hello mam mera name bablu rahul he or me ek long distance relationship me hu hamare relationship ko 3 month ho gaye he lekin bo mujhse milne ki bol rahi he problam ye he mam ki hamari first chat hui thi tab mene use apna name rahul bataya jo ki mera surname he ab ise bo mera first name samajhti he lekin mera first name bablu he ab me usko kese batau ki mera name name rahul nahi bablu he ham sono me se apna relationship koi kharab karna nahi chahta kya koi esi prossese he jo me use apna real name bata saku kahi bo batane se mujhse gussa to nahi ho jayegi pls help me me mam

Ans: Dear Bablu,

This is not a big deal. Tell her that there was some confusion. Tell her that your first name is Bablu and your surname is Rahul. Since she started calling you by Rahul, you never corrected her. And you also like how she calls you Rahul. You are telling the truth and hence you have nothing to fear. Moreover, no one should be mad because of such a small matter. Please tell her as soon as possible to avoid any more complications.

Best Wishes.
Asked on - Jun 04, 2024 | Answered on Jun 06, 2024
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Thank you sir i hope bo meri bat samjhe?
Ans: Dear Bablu,

I am hopeful that she will understand. It is a very simple matter of miscommunication and misinterpretation. You were not lying about your name here. I am sure she won't take it too seriously either. Just tell her as soon as possible.

Best Wishes.

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Hello sir mai 28 year ki hoo mai abhi llb kar rahi hoo mai last 7 year se relationship mai hoo vo mujse 25 year bade hai saruaat 1 to 2 year inhone muje bhot priorities di ab hum 3 to 4 month mai kabhi milte hai hum dono alag alag city mai hai unki bhot badi family hai or finincially bhi problem chal rahi hai last 3 yaer se vo.muje priority nai de rahe hum.roj bat karte hai vo mera khyal bhi rakhte hai lekin muje unse ab dur nai hona mene sadi na karne ka decisions Liya hai lekin kitni bar bhot akela feel karti hoo vo muje itna time nai dete phele jaisa nai hai aisa lagta hai.fir vo ku6 help kar de ya pyar se bat bhi kar le.to.lagta hai sab theek hai mai.bhot confused hoo mai.kya karu muje kya karna chahiye ..
Ans: Dear Anonymous,

Dating someone older than you is not the problem, but the fact that you are making major life decisions based on what he wants and doesn't want is concerning. I am guessing that you decided to not get married because he doesn't want it either. Is that fair to you? You yourself mentioned that you often feel lonely. Don't you think you deserve better? Don't you deserve someone who would love you and would like to spend the rest of their life with you? Please reconsider this relationship. Speak to your partner and ask him what his plans are for the future. Does he want to settle down with you? How will you two continue this relationship in the future? There are many important questions that need answering. Sort them out and you will have the solution to your dilemma.


Best Wishes.

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