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Relationships Expert - Answered on Apr 04, 2023

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Question by Bhuvnesh on Apr 04, 2023Hindi

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Dear love guru mai ek talakshuda mahila se social media par mila Mai bhi talakshuda hu thode din ki chatting ke bad humne aapas me apne number bhi exchange kar liye hume chat karte hue almost one month ho Gaya hai or Humne aapas me kai photos bhi share kiye hai (not intimate) ek din bato bato me unhone mujhse kaha ki i got a crush on you mai bi unko pasand karne laga hu or unhone ye bhi kaha ki wo ab relationship me aan chahti hai par unhe ab Tak koi Mila nai unhone mujhe apne bare me kafi kuch bataya nai unke sath relationship me aana chahta hu par mujhe samajh nai aata ke kaise kahu dar hai ki kahin wo bura na Maan Jaye so please help me mai unko apne Dil ki baat kaise bataun kaha se shuruwat Karu pls help me. thanks and regards

Ans: Saaf saaf bataa do ki aap bhi interested hai, lekin thodi aur pehchan ke baad. Koi ek mahina chat karke relationship nahin shuru karta. Ek doosre se milo, date pe jao, in-person baat karo aur phir dekho.

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