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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Feb 20, 2024

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Asked by Anonymous - Feb 14, 2024Hindi

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Hello mam I also have intercaste relation for 1.5 years but how to convince parents

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
It is a huge task to convince parents on inter-caste marriages especially when you belong to a traditional and orthodox family.
What you might want to do"
- highlight your partner's ability to be integrated with your family (Your partner must be willing to put in this hard work; similarly you need to do it with his/her family as well)
- arrange a meeting in a public place between your partner and parents (Let both sides have a conversation on all the Ifs and Buts)

At the end of the day, it's two people wanting to spend their lives together BUT families do play an huge role. So be patient and go at this with the support of your partner. Be on the same side and DO NOT quarrel because of this. You will only be making this more difficult on yourselves. Stick together and solve it together; that's the only way this can work out itself smoothly...

All the best!

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Hello Mam/Sir I’m in relationship with my cross cousin and we both want to get married . How should I convince my parents as in Northern India it is prohibited but southern side it is accepted.

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Me and girlfriend we are in a relationship from last 3 year we have age difference of 1.5 years. She was 1.5 years older than me. Apart from this we both are financially stable and sure about our relationship we our parents are quite strict how to convince them?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
In today's date, age difference is not a big deal, especially 1.5 years, but I do see where your concern stems from. It can be tricky to convince parents and more so strict parents. But I believe if you explain to them how happy she makes you, how compatible you both are, they should understand. You have to start somewhere. Plus both of you are established adults. And, parents can surprise us too. It's possible that they might not react as badly as you are imagining. Start the convincing process. It will work out.

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HI! i need an advice on how convince my parents, i am in love with a guy who is much genuine to all my feelings and loves me to the core, well he earns a quite less than me, that is the major reason for my parents disapproval also he belongs to a different caste, i had tried convincing my parents certain times telling them about how we could handle our lives happily but it ended up in them blackmailing emotionally, and verbally and physically abusing. i found this page and thought this would be apt for giving me answers

Ans: Hello mam, it is not bad to fall in love with a person who has a different caste from yours or earns a little less than yours.
Financial things can be managed at a point but he should be willing to change his own situation by working on it.
You can sit with your parents and talk to them and convince them to atleast have a meeting with the boy and share their concerns with him. I am sure you will be able to convince them and make the things in order. Take care !
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