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Dating My Cross Cousin - Can I Convince My Parents?

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Asked by Anonymous - Jan 17, 2025Hindi
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Hello Mam/Sir I’m in relationship with my cross cousin and we both want to get married . How should I convince my parents as in Northern India it is prohibited but southern side it is accepted.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Consanguineous marriages (between people who are related by blood) can increase the chances of genetic disorders in their offspring. This could be the reason that your parents may not accept the marriage. It's a matter of understanding what your parents are saying and what makes them refuse the marriage. I suggest finding out from your parents what is going on in their mind.

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My son has got 91 percentile in the recent jee exam , he has next attempt in april, but i feel its difficult for him , can i know about other good colleges in karnataka , as im based their. interested in computer science and aeronautical degree, also advise some recent good courses for his career in india.
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