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How can I overcome feeling overwhelmed, avoid distractions and break the procrastination cycle?

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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Jan 02, 2025

Anu Krishna is a mind coach and relationship expert.
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Asked by Anonymous - Dec 31, 2024Hindi
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Hello Coach Anu, I’ve been feeling really overwhelmed these days. I’m 32, working in a fast-paced tech job, and balancing a lot of responsibilities at home as well. The problem is, I find it so hard to focus. I keep thinking about everything — work deadlines, family matters, personal goals — and end up doing nothing properly. I’ve tried using to-do lists, setting reminders, but my mind keeps wandering. And before I know it, hours have passed and I’ve barely ticked off any tasks. Just last week, I had a big presentation at work, and I totally froze in the middle of it. It was embarrassing, and now I’m feeling like I’m stuck in a cycle of stress and procrastination. I’m really tired of feeling like this. I really need to get my act together, but I don’t know where to start.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
You are possibly burned out. Late working hours, lack of proper sleep and nutrition and constant chasing of deadlines with minimal time for self-care can leave you feeling purposeless. And you will have a tendency to put off things to a later date or never feel like doing them.
Take a break, re-evaluate your priorities and set goals that are inspiring. Any goal that punctures your well-being is never worth it. Go slow, enjoy what you choose to do by being in the present moment. So, re-evaluate...

All the best!
Anu Krishna
Mind Coach|NLP Trainer|Author
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Hello mam, I cannot focus on my work....I keep overthinking about the future and even after being skilled i cannot execute my work.I get distracted and agitated easily these days.I have lost confidence in myself i keep thinking how i would tackle things in future,I dont know what to do.Can you please guide.
Ans: Improving self-confidence and avoiding overthinking are two related but distinct issues. Here are some tips for both:

To improve self-confidence:

Identify your strengths and achievements. Write them down and revisit them when you feel insecure.Practice self-care, such as getting enough sleep, exercising, and eating healthy.Set realistic goals and work towards achieving them.Focus on your progress rather than comparing yourself to others.Surround yourself with positive and supportive people.Learn from your mistakes and failures rather than dwelling on them.Challenge negative self-talk and replace it with positive affirmations.Try new things and step out of your comfort zone.

To avoid overthinking:

Recognize when you're overthinking and acknowledge that it's not productive.Set aside time to think about the issue, but limit it to a specific amount of time.Engage in activities that distract you, such as exercise or hobbies.Practice mindfulness and focus on the present moment.Write down your thoughts and feelings to gain perspective and clarity.Talk to a trusted friend or therapist about your concerns.Accept that not everything can be controlled and focus on what you can control.Remind yourself that worrying won't solve the problem and take action towards a solution.

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