Hello sir ,, i am Btech degree holder 31 year unmarried boy from Punjab, India . I wanna to look girl only from USA who should be USA citizen. I tried two dating apps also since last 3 years , i sent interest to all types of profiles such as unmarried girls, divorced girls , widowed , out of caste girls , out of religion girls , but i didnot get any avail from anyone. I am serious and good looking. Please , tell me any solution , how can i connect with USA families who are seriously looking for marriage Plz tell me ,, i am in totally confusion . I will be thankful to you if you will guide me in right way sir , plz

Ans: Dear Anonymous,

I can assure you that all the apps that you mentioned using are not at fault. Every dating and matrimony app tries its best to maintain a safe and clean platform eliminating scammers and fake profiles. Some still make it through. I am glad you were on to them before it was too late. Having said that, I can not really help you with the names of matrimonial apps from the USA. But I can tell you how to secure the right match and stay clear of fake profiles.

You can write a clear bio where you mention what you want- the type of partner, type of relationship, and more; you can also clearly mention that you are looking to get married and are serious about it, so anyone looking for a casual relationship please do not contact.

Next, once you secure a match, you can check if it's a fake profile. Do a reverse image search of their profile picture and see if they have stolen someone else's image from the web. You can check for their social media presence. Almost everyone in today's date has an active social media presence. You can also check for genuineness while chatting-
• Request for a video call. If they refuse once, it's almost normal. But if they continually keep rejecting your request, it might be a fake profile.
• Try bringing up a topic you discussed the day before. Fake users scam many people at a time. It is possible that they won't be able to recall.
• You can request to speak to their parents. Since you are matching for marriage, involving the parents is quite normal. If the user seems hesitant, they might be fake or might not be serious.

Try these methods and if anything seems amiss, unmatch and move on. A match is not a commitment. You don't have to waste time verifying a match's authenticity for too long.

Hope this helps.

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Ans: Dear Anonymous,
It might help if you can actually request one of your close friends to introduce you to a lady acquaintance/friend of theirs or known to them.
Your friends know you and will also have an idea of your interests and introduce you to like minded people. It's worth taking this approach.

All the best!
Anu Krishna
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