How Can a 33-Year-Old Man Start a Conversation with a Girl He's Interested In?

Ans: Dear Ramtirath,

It is pretty simple. Start with a Hi and a small but attractive introduction about yourself. The tough part is to make the first move like sending the first message. If your vibes match, the rest will flow easily.

Here are some more tips-

• Compliment her but go easy. For instance, you can say, "I love your smile." But don't go ahead and tell her, "Your lips are beautiful." It can sound vulgar. The key is to balance it.
• Be yourself. Never pretend to impress someone.
• If you are approaching her IRL, make eye contact. It exudes confidence.

Most importantly, if she does not reciprocate or says no, move on. It is crucial to understand that a No does not mean you should convince her some more.

Best Wishes!

Ans: Dear Anonymous,

Starting a conversation with a girl sounds scary but it is as simple as finding a common interest or complimenting something you genuinely appreciate about her. Start with a friendly approach, especially when you don't know how the girl feels about you. Ask her about her day, listen carefully, and make her feel heard. Share things about your life that might be relevant. Be genuine; it is one of the most important aspects of finding a real connection. Keep the conversation light-heartedly in the beginning and gradually move towards shared interests and pointing out similarities between the two of you. Ensure she is comfortable every step of the way and never cross a boundary like asking her to meet when she's not ready, convincing her to share personal details, and such.

Remember, being a gentleman goes a long way. So be kind, confident, and authentic, and enjoy the conversation.

Best Wishes!

Ans: Dear Manglemba,
My suggestion may not be very effective as your post/question has very limited information. When you say, 'crazy', what does that mean? 'Brain disorder', as in? Does this condition impact any cognitive functions?
You might want to check with a medical expert if you need any treatment based on the reports for the medical condition.

All the best!
Anu Krishna
Mind Coach|NLP Trainer|Author
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Ans: Dear Prinve,
If she hasn't shown any visible disinterest in you, you can be direct with her. Let her know that you like her and ask if she is interested in going out with you- that's the best way to approach someone you like. If she seems interested, then take it ahead. If not, do not try to convince.
I hope things work out for you.

Best Wishes.