Home > Relationship > Question

Sign In | Create an account

Language:

Now in हिन्दी too

Need Expert Advice?Our Gurus Can Help

Ravi Mittal |710 Answers |Ask -Follow

Dating, Relationships Expert - Answered on Dec 12, 2023

Ravi Mittal is an expert on dating and relationships.
He founded QuackQuack, an online dating platform, in 2010 with just two people. Today, it has over 20 million users in India.... more

Asked by Anonymous - Dec 12, 2023Hindi

Relationship

I want to be in relationship but how to start talking to a girl

Ans: Dear Anonymous,

Starting a conversation with a girl sounds scary but it is as simple as finding a common interest or complimenting something you genuinely appreciate about her. Start with a friendly approach, especially when you don't know how the girl feels about you. Ask her about her day, listen carefully, and make her feel heard. Share things about your life that might be relevant. Be genuine; it is one of the most important aspects of finding a real connection. Keep the conversation light-heartedly in the beginning and gradually move towards shared interests and pointing out similarities between the two of you. Ensure she is comfortable every step of the way and never cross a boundary like asking her to meet when she's not ready, convincing her to share personal details, and such.

Remember, being a gentleman goes a long way. So be kind, confident, and authentic, and enjoy the conversation.

Best Wishes!

RelationshipReply

You may like to see similar questions and answers below

Ravi Mittal |710 Answers |Ask -Follow

Dating, Relationships Expert - Answered on Oct 15, 2024

Asked by Anonymous - Oct 04, 2024Hindi

Relationship

Hello sir i am 33 yeas old and i found a girl but i don't know how to talk to hwr

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I need the whole picture to give you proper suggestions. But, in general, you can go up to her and ask her if she would be interested in going out with you. If she seems interested, then great. If not, you should not try to force her. Before you plan how to talk to her, it is important to understand if she is interested in you or shares the same feelings.

Best Wishes.

Ravi Mittal |710 Answers |Ask -Follow

Dating, Relationships Expert - Answered on Mar 10, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - Mar 09, 2025Hindi

Relationship

Hi I am 18 year guy want to know how to approach a girl and communicate with them I don't know the right way to talk to girls I am little introvert and want to be a extrovert kindly give some tips for it

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I understand what you are looking for and the best way to get there is baby steps. You can start by putting yourself a little out of your comfort zone every day- for instance, if you like someone, even as a friend, say your HIs and Hellos and try to make a conversation. It might be difficult at first, but you will get better at it soon. Then once you like a girl in more than friendly ways, you will be prepared for an interaction- you can start with a simple hi, and discuss matters that interest both of you. You can ask her out for coffee, and it does not have to be a date immediately. Make her feel comfortable around you and if she signals some form of boundaries, respect them. Rest, there is nothing wrong with being an introvert. You are perfect the way you are.
Best Wishes.

Ravi Mittal |710 Answers |Ask -Follow

Dating, Relationships Expert - Answered on May 26, 2025

Question by Sushant - May 26, 2025

Relationship

Hi, I'm 19 teen but I had never been in a relationship ? When I got a girl

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I am guessing you want to know when you will find a girlfriend– well, that is difficult to predict but I’d urge you to be patient and not rush while finding love. After all, you are only 19 years old. You have your whole life ahead of you to find a girlfriend. Focus on interacting with new people, and making new friends. If you think you can balance your studies and dating life well, you can consider joining a dating app and finding new female friends and maybe someone special from among them. But the most important part is, do not rush. It will happen. Love doesn’t happen the same way or in the same timeframe for all.

Hope this helps.

Latest Questions

Nayagam P P |10951 Answers |Ask -Follow

Career Counsellor - Answered on Mar 18, 2026

Asked by Anonymous - Mar 18, 2026Hindi

Career

Sir while been on class 12 i had given one of my attempt of jee exam, but in class 12(cbse board )i got back in one subject in year 2024-2025, so i dicided to leave cbse board and join nios board so then i given by 12 board paper through nios board in October 2025 , so i wanna ask now do i get any attempt left of jee exam or not, cam i give jee exam in year 2027

Ans: Yes, you’re eligible for JEE Main in 2027. Your year of passing is 2025 (NIOS), and NTA allows JEE Main for three consecutive years after that: 2025, 2026, and 2027. You’ve used 2025 once, so you still have 2026 and 2027 attempts left. However, I also suggest taking a reliable psychometric career assessment to get an objective idea of suitable career options for you and then choosing a UG program/branch that genuinely matches your strongest interests and passions. ALL the BEST for Your Prosperous Future!

Follow RediffGURUS to Know More on 'Careers | Money | Health | Relationships'.

Nayagam P P |10951 Answers |Ask -Follow

Career Counsellor - Answered on Mar 18, 2026

Asked by Anonymous - Mar 18, 2026Hindi

Career

Hlo sir My son have passed 11th in science pcb by cbse board. But in 12th he want to change stream from science to humanities. Is there any rule to change stream??

Ans: Under CBSE rules, Class 11 and 12 form a two?year course. After passing Class 11, a student cannot normally offer new Class 12 subjects not studied in Class 11, and any subject-change request must be made early in the session (before 15 July) through the school.

So, a direct PCB to Humanities shift in Class 12 is generally not allowed; options are repeating Class 11 with Humanities, changing to an open school board (like NIOS), or requesting rare special permission via the school and CBSE regional office. I suggest you approach your school authorities first to get this clarified further. ALL the BEST for Your Son's Prosperous Future!

Follow RediffGURUS to Know More on 'Careers | Money | Health | Relationships'.

Ravi Mittal |710 Answers |Ask -Follow

Dating, Relationships Expert - Answered on Mar 18, 2026

Asked by Anonymous - Mar 17, 2026Hindi

Relationship

How can you tell if a co-worker is flirting with you and wants to go out on a date?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
First clue would be them asking you out on a date verbally. If there’s no confirmation of such nature, you can try and gauge their behavior, but that’s risky business because some people are just being nice and kindness can be mistaken as flirting. If you are unsure, ask your other colleagues if they too feel that your co-worker is flirting with you or if you are assuming it.

Hope this helps.

Radheshyam Zanwar |6863 Answers |Ask -Follow

MHT-CET, IIT-JEE, NEET-UG Expert - Answered on Mar 18, 2026

Question by Prachi - Mar 18, 2026Hindi

Career

Which private colleges should I apply for I scored 93.442 percentile in jee mains 2026 Jan attempt I will appear for second attempt as well but not sure about improvement and 77 % in class 12,98% in class 10. My home state eligiblity is DELHI NCT , I also have punjab domicile certificate

Ans: Target private colleges like Thapar, Jaypee, Shiv Nadar University, VIT, SRM, and Manipal Institute of Technology.

Good luck.
Follow me if you receive this reply.
Radheshyam

Nayagam P P |10951 Answers |Ask -Follow

Career Counsellor - Answered on Mar 18, 2026

Asked by Anonymous - Mar 09, 2026Hindi

Career

Sir.. My daughter scored 94.4 percentile in jee january shift belongs OBC from tamil nadu... what are the possibilities to get NIT?

Ans: At 94.4 percentile, her expected JEE Main rank is around 65,000, which usually clears the OBC?NCL cut-off. As an OBC girl, she may get newer NITs or lower-demand branches, but CSE/ECE in top NITs like Trichy is unlikely; keep IIIT/GFTI options open too. If possible/affordable, have 3-4 other best options in Tamil Nadu itself such as SSN, SNU, Sathyabhama, Saveetha, PSG etc. ALL the BEST for Your Daughter's Prosperous Future!

Follow RediffGURUS to Know More on 'Careers | Money | Health | Relationships'.

Mayank Chandel |2652 Answers |Ask -Follow

IIT-JEE, NEET-UG, SAT, CLAT, CA, CS Exam Expert - Answered on Mar 18, 2026

Asked by Anonymous - Mar 07, 2026Hindi

Career

Hi, I need honest career guidance based on my situation. I completed my HSC in 2024 with PCB stream (no Mathematics) and scored only 45%. I was preparing for medical entrance but it didn't work out, and due to personal reasons I couldn't appear for improvement exams either. It's now 2026 and I have a 2 year gap. I now want to pursue a career in IT or Computer Science. I'm confused between BSc IT, BSc CS, BCA, and Data Science — and keep getting mixed opinions from everyone. My specific questions are — 1. Since I don't have Maths in HSC, can I appear for the HSC Maths exam as an Isolated Candidate in July–August 2026? And if I clear it, will that result be valid for 2026–27 admissions? 2. With 45% and a 2 year gap, what are my realistic college options in Mumbai? Which good colleges have lower cutoffs for BSc IT / BSc CS / BCA? 3. Given that I'm coming from Biology with no Maths background — which degree would actually be the best fit for me for real career growth, not just for getting admission? 4. Does college name or tier matter a lot in the IT field with lower percentage, or do skills and portfolio matter more? 5. Honestly, what is the smartest move for someone in my exact situation right now? I don't want to waste more time and want to make the right decision. Please guide me."

Ans: Hi
Go with BCA. BCA colleges are more flexible with % and background.
You can try
Tilak Maharashtra Vidyapeeth
Amity University Mumbai
DY Patil University Navi Mumbai

Mayank Chandel |2652 Answers |Ask -Follow

IIT-JEE, NEET-UG, SAT, CLAT, CA, CS Exam Expert - Answered on Mar 18, 2026

Question by Himank - Mar 17, 2026Hindi

Career

I got 97.6%ile in jeemains26 i have delhi homestate what nit/iiit can i get

Ans: Hello Himank
you can get NIT delhi.
other Mid NITs
National Institute of Technology Kurukshetra
National Institute of Technology Jalandhar
National Institute of Technology Hamirpur

TOP iiits can be delhi, allahabad, gwalior

Mayank Chandel |2652 Answers |Ask -Follow

IIT-JEE, NEET-UG, SAT, CLAT, CA, CS Exam Expert - Answered on Mar 18, 2026

Question by Alok - Mar 03, 2026Hindi

Career

My son name in aadhar card and 10th certificate from CBSE is Ashwin Anand. Class 12th GSEB marksheet, father name has been added and same is expected in graduation certificate also which reads as Anand Ashwin Alok Kumar. Will be face any issue due to this for higher education inindia

Ans: Hello Alok Ji
if you can apply for name correction in GSEB then all the documents will have same name. Else you will have to Prepare an Affidavit (Name Declaration)

This is the most practical and accepted solution.

“Ashwin Anand and Anand Ashwin Alok Kumar refer to the same person (my son). ‘Alok Kumar’ is the father’s name, which has been included in some academic records.”

Get it on ?100 stamp paper Notarized

Mayank Chandel |2652 Answers |Ask -Follow

IIT-JEE, NEET-UG, SAT, CLAT, CA, CS Exam Expert - Answered on Mar 18, 2026

Asked by Anonymous - Mar 06, 2026Hindi

Career

Hello sir, mai 2025 mai 12th board appear kiya tha...aur mera 60% hai...lekin chemistry mei passing marks nahi aya..baki physics and biology mei thik hain...toh mei neet mei select hone ke bad medical seat milegi ki nahi kyuki mera betterment marksheet hoga ....ham medical college in Assam mei milega ki nahi..plz bataye??

Ans: Hi
After improvement you are Fully eligible, seat in medical college will depend upon your neet score

Mayank Chandel |2652 Answers |Ask -Follow

IIT-JEE, NEET-UG, SAT, CLAT, CA, CS Exam Expert - Answered on Mar 18, 2026

Question by Sourindra - Mar 15, 2026Hindi

Career

Sir, I have passed 12th in May 2024. I took a gap for preparation for NEET, but could not get good college. But in September 2025, I took admission in IIT Jodhpur's B.Sc./B.S. in Applied AI and Data Science (delivered in online mode, similar to IIT Madras's B.S. program), of which currently I'm a bona-de student, and upon graduation in 2029, I will become an alumnus of IIT Jodhpur. Along with this, I will be joining an engineering college in 2026 to pursue dual degree (IITJ+ offline college). Sir, do I have a gap of 1 year or 2 year in my education? What to write in my gap certificate ? It would have been very kind of you if you could help me regarding this matter.

Ans: Official gap = 1 year (2024–2025)
NOT 2 years, because from Sept 2025 you are already a bona fide student of a recognized IIT program.
In Gap certificate you can write
During this period, I was fully engaged in academic preparation and did not enroll in any regular academic program.

See more questions »

DISCLAIMER: The content of this post by the expert is the personal view of the rediffGURU. Investment in securities market are subject to market risks. Read all the related document carefully before investing. The securities quoted are for illustration only and are not recommendatory. Users are advised to pursue the information provided by the rediffGURU only as a source of information and as a point of reference and to rely on their own judgement when making a decision. RediffGURUS is an intermediary as per India's Information Technology Act.

Video Reply
Audio Reply

WhatsApp
Facebook
Twitter
Copy link

Delete

Close

Dear User, You have not registered yet. Please register by filling the fields below to get expert answers from our Gurus

Sign up

email

uname

mobile no

Country Code

Mobile number

By signing up, you agree to our
Terms & Conditions and Privacy Policy

Already have an account?

LOGIN

x