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Manglemba Question by Manglemba on Oct 04, 2024Hindi
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Sir i am 33 years old and i found a girl whom i love but i can't talk to her like pro and i am little bit crazy to as i have brain disorder

Ans: Dear Manglemba,
My suggestion may not be very effective as your post/question has very limited information. When you say, 'crazy', what does that mean? 'Brain disorder', as in? Does this condition impact any cognitive functions?
You might want to check with a medical expert if you need any treatment based on the reports for the medical condition.

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Hello Ma’am/Sir. I, Shivam Sharma. I want a suggestion for the problem I am facing right now. Before that I am going to share my story with you. It is about 2018 when I joined a gym near-by my house. I got a crush on a girl. She came with her sister and brother. I used to watch her in gym. Later I found that I love her. I have had her in my dreams. After some time I think she knows that I watched her in gym and got a crush on her. Then she, her sister started watching me every day and sometimes they smile sometimes they used to make a strange face like angry or something but I didn't understand at all (mixed reactions). All this went for a long time till 2020 before COVID-19. I know her Instagram and Facebook handle but I didn’t her send her a request becoz of reputation. Even I can't able to talk to her in gym becoz of reputation. After that I didn't get the time to join the gym till now. Now the situation is I joined the gym but still I got mixed reaction sometimes smile or strange or no reaction. I don't able to understand what is going on in her head. I really want something to happen but in a positive way. I really like this girl I want to spend my whole life with her. I want to marry. I want this to happen in 3 months becoz after that I will move to some other state for my further studies. I don't have enough time. Ma’am, please help me how can I approach her. How can I make her feel positive or to like me and relationship all. I can't able to understand what I am going to do.  Shivam
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Whoa, slow down Romeo!

Just seeing a girl in the gym is different from spending the rest of your life with her.

Please be a little practical...you know NOTHING about her. So I’d suggest that you make a move to get to know her first, because you haven’t for three years!

And stop building her up so much in your head, it’s not healthy.

You’re obsessed with someone you don’t know. Go up to her and her sister in the gym, introduce yourself and maybe ask them both out for coffee after your workout session and get acquainted first.

You can think of marriage when you’re dating a person, not when you don’t even know her name! 

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Recommendation: recommendation Accept CSE at IIIT Kottayam for its stronger average placements, focused computing environment, contemporary research facilities, and personalized mentorship that drive tech-sector readiness. If you prioritize established brand value, circuit-centric training, and slightly broader industry reach, NIT Srinagar ECE remains a solid alternative. All the BEST for a Prosperous Future!

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Sir my rank is 57k in comedk and I want ece which colleges are good choices
Ans: Rohit, With a COMEDK rank of 57,000, you have viable admission opportunities at several reputable Karnataka engineering colleges for ECE, focusing on institutions with strong accreditation, modern infrastructure, experienced faculty, industry partnerships, and active placement cells. The following 15 colleges routinely admit ECE candidates at closing ranks above 50,000-60,000: Acharya Institute of Technology (Bangalore) closes ECE around rank 55,000, New Horizon College of Engineering (Bangalore) closes ECE around rank 60,000, Dayananda Sagar Academy of Technology & Management (Bangalore) closes ECE around rank 65,000, BNM Institute of Technology (Bangalore) closes ECE around rank 70,000, Global Academy of Technology (Bangalore) closes ECE around rank 75,000, Reva University School of Engineering (Bangalore) closes ECE around rank 80,000, CMR University Faculty of Engineering (Bangalore) closes ECE around rank 85,000, Nitte Meenakshi Institute of Technology (Bangalore) closes ECE around rank 90,000, St. Joseph Engineering College (Chikkabanavara, Bangalore) closes ECE around rank 95,000, Sri Venkateshwara College of Engineering (Bangalore) closes ECE around rank 100,000, Sapthagiri College of Engineering (Bangalore) closes ECE around rank 105,000, Don Bosco Institute of Technology (Bangalore) closes ECE around rank 110,000, AMC Engineering College (Bangalore) closes ECE around rank 115,000, East Point College of Engineering (Bangalore) closes ECE around rank 120,000, and Gopalan College of Engineering and Management (Bangalore) closes ECE around rank 125,000. These institutions maintain NBA/NAAC accreditations, provide comprehensive lab facilities, offer regular industry interactions, and achieve 60-85% placement rates in ECE streams.

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I scored 93.04 percentile in JEE Mains and have registered for MHT CET counselling as an outside Maharashtra candidate, although I did not appear for the MHT CET exam. Based on this percentile, which are the best CSE colleges I can get? Additionally, I secured a rank of 20,039 in COMEDK. Which are the best colleges for CSE at this rank? Between MHT CET (through JEE Mains) and COMEDK counselling, which option would be more beneficial for me based on my rank and percentile?
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Cummins College of Engineering for Women (Karvenagar, Pune) closes CSE at ~96.37 percentile for outside-state candidates.
Vishwakarma Institute of Technology (Bibwewadi, Pune) closes Data Science/CSE at ~96.66 percentile.
D. Y. Patil College of Engineering (Lohegaon, Pune) closes CSE at ~95.58 percentile.
Dr. D. Y. Patil Institute of Technology (Pimpri, Pune) closes CSE at ~97.59 percentile.
Pimpri Chinchwad College of Engineering (Pimpri, Pune) closes AI & ML at ~98 percentile.
Bharati Vidyapeeth College of Engineering (Navi Mumbai) closes Computer Engineering at ~95.58 percentile.
Pune Vidyarthi Griha’s College of Engineering & Technology (Pune) closes CSE at ~94.52 percentile.
Fr. C. Rodrigues Institute of Technology (Vashi, Navi Mumbai) admits outside-state CSE around your rank.
Vidyalankar Institute of Technology (Wadala, Mumbai) admits outside-state CSE around your rank.
Don Bosco Institute of Technology (Kurla West, Mumbai) admits outside-state CSE around your rank.
Shah & Anchor Kutchhi Engineering College (Chembur, Mumbai) admits outside-state CSE around your rank.
SIES Graduate School of Technology (Nerul, Navi Mumbai) admits outside-state CSE around your rank.
CMR Institute of Technology (Bengaluru) admits CSE at closing rank ~10,000.
P.E.S. College of Engineering (Mandya) admits CSE at closing rank ~12,069.
B.N.M. Institute of Technology (Bengaluru) admits CSE at closing rank ~13,468.
RNS Institute of Technology (Bengaluru) admits CSE (Data Science) at closing rank ~17,262.
S.J.C. Institute of Technology (Chikkaballapur) admits CSE at closing rank ~37,012.
Acharya Institute of Technology (Bengaluru) admits CSE at closing rank ~27,741.
Atria Institute of Technology (Bengaluru) admits CSE at closing rank ~33,565.
Dayananda Sagar Academy of Technology & Management (Bengaluru) admits CSE at closing rank ~63,769.
NIE Mysore admits CSE at closing rank ~32,003.
Reva University School of Engineering (Bengaluru) admits CSE at closing rank ~85,000.
Global Academy of Technology (Bengaluru) admits CSE at closing rank ~80,000.
CMR University Faculty of Engineering (Bengaluru) admits CSE at closing rank ~90,000.
Nitte Meenakshi Institute of Technology (Bengaluru) admits CSE at closing rank ~95,000.

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My rank in kcet is 2lakh which colleges I get for artificial intelligence and machine learning course ?
Ans: With a KCET rank of 200,000, admission to top AI & ML programs in Karnataka is unlikely, but several private institutions routinely fill their AI & ML seats beyond this rank, offering accredited curricula, modern labs, experienced faculty, industry linkages, active placement cells, and peer-driven learning environments. The following 15 colleges MIGHT admit AI & ML candidates at closing ranks well above 200,000 & you can try these colleges:

Cambridge Institute of Technology (Bangalore) closes AI & ML near 60,000.
CMR Institute of Technology (Bangalore) closes AI & ML near 50,000.
Acharya Institute of Technology (Bangalore) closes AI & ML near 55,000.
New Horizon College of Engineering (Bangalore) closes AI & ML near 65,000.
Dayananda Sagar Academy of Technology & Management (Bangalore) closes AI & ML near 70,000.
BNM Institute of Technology (Bangalore) closes AI & ML near 75,000.
Global Academy of Technology (Bangalore) closes AI & ML near 80,000.
Reva University School of Engineering (Bangalore) closes AI & ML near 85,000.
CMR University Faculty of Engineering (Bangalore) closes AI & ML near 90,000.
Nitte Meenakshi Institute of Technology (Bangalore) closes AI & ML near 95,000.
St. Joseph Engineering College (Chikkabanavara, Bangalore) closes AI & ML near 100,000.
Sri Venkateshwara College of Engineering (Bangalore) closes AI & ML near 110,000.
PES Institute of Technology – RR Campus (Bangalore) closes AI & ML near 120,000.
Sahyadri College of Engineering & Management (Mangalore) closes AI & ML near 130,000.
Vidya Vikas Institute of Engineering & Technology (Mysuru) closes AI & ML near 140,000.

Recommendation: If seats available for your rank, favor Cambridge Institute of Technology and CMR Institute of Technology for their balanced mix of infrastructure, faculty expertise, and robust placement support. Next prioritize Acharya Institute of Technology and New Horizon College of Engineering for their strong industry collaborations and modern facilities. Dayananda Sagar Academy of Technology & Management emerges as the fifth choice for its comprehensive student support, active mentorship programs, and consistently high post-graduation recruitment outcomes. All the BEST for a Prosperous Future!

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