Why Do Good Guys Like Me Always Get Rejected?

Ans: While it's true that some individuals may prioritise financial stability, but its important to note that not everyone shares the same values, and there are still many people who prioritise meaningful connections, love, and mutual happiness in relationships It's important to approach dating with a positive mindset and an open heart. While it may seem challenging at times, there are people out there who value genuine connections and prioritize love and happiness over financial considerations. Remember that everyone is unique, and finding the right match often involves patience and perseverance. It's important to maintain a positive outlook and be patient. While the dating world can be challenging, there are individuals out there looking for genuine connections and meaningful relationships. By being true to yourself and expressing your desires clearly, you increase the likelihood of finding a partner who shares your values and is seeking a similar type of relationship.

Ans: Girls don't care about money. You'll have to learn to talk with women. Make money but it has nothing to do with women.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I agree what's happening to you is not fair, and however you are feeling right now, it is valid. But having said that, you can't justify saying "why cry later for justice, domestic violence and cheating." These are entirely different and serious matters. Do not trivialize them. Rejecting a man who would've loved her does not automatically mean the woman deserves to find a man who should cheat, beat, or abuse her.

Now, coming to your issue, rejection comes for several reasons; it doesn't necessarily have to do anything with your appearance. Since you mentioned getting rejected even before a conversation, my first guess would be that the profile might not be standing out in the crowd of profiles out there. You can try adding hints of humor to your BIO to make it more attractive. Use the 70-30 method in your Bio, where 70% of it showcases you as a person and the remaining 30 subtly indicates your version of an ideal partner. Additionally, try optimizing your DP and select something that shows your fun side.

But I would like to remind you that not everyone's love story runs at the same pace; some take time to start. I know you think it's cliched but people say it because it has truth to it- keep going; I am sure you will find someone.

Best Wishes.

Ans: Dear Dakshesh,
I can't speak for her, but I can tell you that when a person, man or woman, is pushing you away and voicing their disinterest, it's best to give them their space. It can either be she is not interested in you romantically or she needs time to get there. But you cannot manipulate, push, or convince her to like you that way. If it happens organically, then good. Or else, you should respect her decision. Moreover, don't you think you deserve someone who likes you back the same way and chooses you over everyone else? I sure think you deserve better.
Please let her make her own choices and as for you, make better choices that are good for you. This toxicity and complicated relationship might be subconsciously exciting right now, but it won't be for long. You will get exhausted.

Best Wishes.