How Can I Ensure My Child's Safety If They Study in Another State?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Well, they are going to have adjustment issues for sure...
India is a place that can envelop people in warmth and yet throw challenges and when one is not raised here, it can get to the. To expect an environment here that they are used to, is not going to happen.
Considering their age, they might have challenges finding themselves within peer groups as well. Get them close to well-adjusted before you make that move...
- You can plan longer vacations in India and especially the place where you intend to settle, so that they get used to the weather, food, culture and people
- They can also during the vacation period, take part in volunteering which gives them a feel of life beyond them
- Plan a visit to the school you intend to send them to when the school is in session and request for a class attendance for a couple of days if that is possible. This will give them a clear feel of how school will be like

Ultimately, there's only so much that you can do...expect few challenges and go with that flow...it's not possible to preempt it all...but projecting a few things upfront as listed above may give them an idea and help the, with the relocation process.

All the best!
Anu Krishna
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Ans: It's understandable that your cousin's family is seeking the best environment for their daughter's development and independence. Professional support is essential, including occupational therapists to assist with daily living skills, special educators for tailored educational strategies, and psychologists for behavioral therapy and emotional support. Joining parent support groups can provide valuable insights and resources from other parents facing similar challenges. It's crucial to stay in a city or town with access to rehabilitation professionals, good healthcare, and educational support systems. They should also check for specialized programs or schools nearby catering to children with ADHD.

Focusing on developing her independence in daily tasks, such as personal hygiene, cooking, cleaning, and time management, is vital. Engaging in extracurricular activities like sports, arts, or hobbies can boost her confidence and social skills. While relocating to a metropolitan city may offer more resources, it's important to weigh the emotional and financial implications. A more practical approach might be to stay in their current location but ensure regular visits to professionals in a nearby city. A specialized boarding school might provide a structured environment that encourages independence, but this should be carefully evaluated to ensure it meets her specific needs and comfort. Ensuring her current school provides the necessary support and accommodations, such as individualized education plans (IEPs), is also crucial.

Utilizing apps and tools designed to help children with ADHD manage their routines, homework, and tasks can be beneficial. Additionally, parents can build their capacity by enrolling in professional courses related to ADHD and child development, enabling them to better support their daughter. With the right support, their daughter can develop the skills needed for greater independence. Building a network of professionals and support groups close to home can be just as effective as relocating to a metropolitan city. My best wishes

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
What happened at KIIT is really sad. Obviously, it should have never happened in the first place.
Bullying and ragging is a punishable offense but who ever thought of an offense before committing one? In my opinion, stay close in terms of emotional support to your daughter. Let her know that she can come to you when things get rough. Also, if there's a counseling cell at her Institute, it maybe good for you to understand how it works, so that there is a place that can become her Go To in case the need arises. If your daughter says that intervention is not required at this point, then take her word for it. Be in constant touch with her, so that there's always a comfort feel that she has.

All the best!
Anu Krishna
Mind Coach|NLP Trainer|Author
Drop in: www.unfear.io
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