hello mam, My son 19 year old from last 4 year his behavior change not listing not having food properly whole day watching mobile after 10th i put him diploma in electrical engineer he completed his 1 year but from 2nd year he stop going to college we both are working parent so nobody is there at home to force to go for college his teacher every day calling me to send him to college but he is not listing i ask him did teacher scold you or any student is troubling you he said no one is troubling me i don't want to study i want to do voice dubbing i want to give my voice for cartoon and for dubb movies in july 2025 he told me in 2028 i will leave both of you i have my dream i leave the home i ask him what is your dream he said 1st 2 dream i cant tell you but 3rd dream is to go to japan for tour i thought he is joking. In August 2025 he started going for voice dubbing classes in 1st week of August 2025 he told me my planning is change next month only i will leave both of you again i thought is just pulling my leg but on 15 September its regular Monday we both parent went for job and he called me around 12 pm and said daddy left the home not a single rupees he had with him and he left the home in full of rain he keep walking and talking to me i ask him where you are going but he said that's secrete i took his mom in conference and try convince him but he not listing with 1 hour talking with him on phone i ask him tell me the landmark where you are he told me one landmark while talking him i left office to reach the landmark he told i forcibly sit him in car and take back home with his mother after reaching home with his mother we are trying to convince don't do like this its your home we have only one child that is you but he said no today is the i want to go let me go don't fail my planning whole standing at home he said want to go without having water or food just crying and saying i want leave the home in evening at 7pm i told him give me three month i will send to japan for tour after hearing this he little bit convince but said repair my mobile which was shutdown due rain water get inside arrange visa and passport within three month and give new laptop for playing game but after three i will leave both of you and left the home in december 2025 he told me he will the home. he is very superstitious at home not having bath use same cloth he said if change cloth and have bath all my power will go after that incidence leaving home he become more superstitious each and every moment he whispering himself after asking why you doing this saying this is my power i will get what i want if i scold him he said i will leave home right now please help me what to do he not having bath not changing cloth not having afternoon food not cutting his nails from last 15 days i am very much in stress due to his behavior and stress about his future also he is not behaving like a normal child whole day and night watching mobile. Please help

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Ans: HI SIR,
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Based on domicile and category rank, the chances are as follows: Mechanical and Chemical have moderate to low chances. Civil, Production, and Metallurgy have good chances, especially in special rounds.
Ask him to prepare accordingly.

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Ans: Hi Arshad,
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There are slim chances of admission at MBM Jodhpur. Since you did not provide your domicile details, if you belong to Rajasthan, then through state counseling (REAP), you can secure a seat.

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Ans: You are in a very strong position. High income, low expense, and good saving habit give you big advantage. With some corrections, you can achieve all goals comfortably.

» Current Position – Strong Foundation

Income is high compared to expenses
EMI is manageable
You already have equity + MF + NPS
Emergency fund exists, but needs strengthening
Clear goals: farmhouse + retirement

» LIC Policy – Review Before Decision
You have LIC from 2019, paying Rs 27k per quarter

Points to check:

What is the return expectation? Usually such policies give low returns
Long lock-in till 2040 reduces flexibility

Suggested approach:

Do not stop immediately
Check surrender value and paid-up value
If returns are low and cover is not needed, consider making it paid-up
Redirect future premium into mutual funds for better growth

» Emergency Fund – Increase Slightly

Current Rs 4 lakh is on the lower side

You should:

Target at least Rs 6 to 8 lakh
Keep in savings + liquid funds

» Home Loan – Partial Payment Strategy

EMI Rs 70k is comfortable for your income

Approach:

Do some part payment, but not aggressive
Balance between loan reduction and wealth creation

Why:

Equity investments over long term can give better returns than loan interest saved
Do not block too much money into loan

» Investment Diversification – Needs Structure
Current mix:

Direct equity Rs 14L
MF Rs 12L
NPS Rs 1L

Concerns:

Direct equity exposure is high
Portfolio may not be diversified properly

You should:

Gradually reduce direct stock exposure if not actively tracked
Increase allocation to diversified, actively managed mutual funds
Continue NPS for retirement discipline

» Farmhouse Goal (Rs 1 Cr in 5 Years) – Critical Planning
This is a large and near-term goal

Important reality:

Equity alone is risky for 5-year horizon
Loan + investment mix required

Approach:

Start a dedicated monthly investment for this goal
Use a mix of:
Short duration / debt funds (safety)
Some hybrid funds (moderate growth)
Avoid pure equity for this goal

Also think:

How much loan you are comfortable taking later
Try to build at least 40–50% from your own corpus

» Retirement Planning – 20 Years Horizon
You are well placed here

Action steps:

Increase MF SIP regularly (step-up every year)
Keep strong allocation to equity for long term
Use NPS as additional disciplined retirement tool

Target:

Build a corpus that can replace your lifestyle income

» Cash Flow Optimisation – Big Opportunity
Income: Rs 3.5 lakh
Expense + EMI: ~Rs 1.2 lakh

You have large surplus

Use this wisely:

Increase SIP significantly
Allocate separately for:
Retirement
Farmhouse
Child/family goals if any

» Risk Protection – Already Strong

Health insurance of Rs 1 Cr is excellent

But check:

Do you have adequate term insurance?
If not:
Take pure term plan (independent of LIC)

» Finally

Do not rush to surrender LIC, evaluate and then make paid-up if needed
Increase emergency fund
Balance loan prepayment and investments
Reduce direct equity risk, increase diversified MF exposure
Plan farmhouse separately with lower-risk investments
Increase SIPs – your biggest strength is surplus income

If you follow this structure, you can achieve both lifestyle goals and retirement without stress.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in

https://www.linkedin.com/in/ramalingamcfp/

Ans: HI,
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Yes, it is possible. The EWS category represents a strong ranking, and you have a good chance of securing a seat in Trichy, Warangal, Surathkal, or Calicut for the Electrical, Electronics, or Mechanical branches. Additionally, being in the PwD category provides significant advantages. Therefore, you should be able to get a seat in an NIT.

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Ans: Hi Tejaswi,
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Kindly provide your category details to predict the posiibilities.

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Ans: HI BISWANATH SIR,
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Based on your domicile and your son's rank, securing a seat in NIT Durgapur is highly likely for the following core branches: Mechanical, Civil, Electrical, and Metallurgical Engineering.

He has slim chances in securing Electrical and Chemical engineering in the Special Rounds

So, encourage him to pursue the path that aligns with his interests.

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Ans: HI SIR,
GREETINGS FROM THE REDIFFGURUS!
Based on your son's rank and domicile, he will have strong chances for core and less competitive branches such as Civil Engineering, Chemical Engineering, Metallurgical and Materials Engineering, and Production Engineering. However, your son will have slim chances for Mechanical Engineering and Instrumentation and Control Engineering (ICE) at NIT Trichy.

In NIT Warangal, your son may have opportunities in Biotechnology. At NIT Calicut, Production Engineering and Materials Science are possible. Meanwhile, at NIT Surathkal, Mining and Metallurgy could be an option.

So ask him to plan accordingly to achieve the target.

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Ans: HI Bhumi,
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Typically, a candidate completes the HSC/+2/12th standard by age 17. As soon as they complete it, they normally appear for undergraduate courses. Why is he or she joining the course at age 22? What did he or she do for the past 5 years?
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