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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Jun 01, 2023

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Question by TRS on May 29, 2023Hindi

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My close friend cheated on his wife. I am close friends with her too. They got divorced because he loved the other girl. I like my friend’s ex-wife and I proposed to her. Her family said yes but my family is not agreeing. What should I do?

Ans: Dear TRS,
If you and the lady are sure of what you want, I guess the family will eventually understand this. But yes, sit them down and address their concerns. I am sure they are not agreeing for various reasons. Hear them out; their fears might rest after that conversation. Do not ignore their resentments, disagreements etc as they all come from a place of love and concern for you.

Now, you know that you got to make that attempt if you want to marry this person. So, do what it takes...

All the best!

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Madam my girl friend was proposed to me for marriage. i was ready. but i asked her to talk with your parents first. after that we will marry. I have convinced to my family. but she failed to convince her parents. now she tell me forget to me and marry with other girl. but i cant leave without her. what should i do now.

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If she is not willing to marry you, what can you do? She wants her parents also to be convinced, but that hasn't happened. Either you can wait and convey to her that you are willing to wait till she also is able to get her parents to agree. I don't see why she would not want you to wait.
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Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I understand that it is a tricky situation. I am sorry I cannot tell you what you should do, but I can tell you that you have to handle this very carefully because it's a sensitive matter and involves too many people and their emotions. You can discuss the same with your family; you might be worried about upsetting them but at the end of the day, it's your life and you will have to live a long long time with the decisions you make. Sort your priorities- ask yourself these simple questions: what would hurt you more- hurting your parents and making your wife collateral damage because of your confusion or not living the rest of your life with the woman you love? Once you can answer these truthfully, it will be easier to make a choice.

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Can you give me the information that , which type of engineering is best to choose for future demands . As all are taking the computer science AiMl , stream for the better future , is that really most demanding ? If not so , which branch is better to choose.

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