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Anshu Question by Anshu on Oct 21, 2025Hindi
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Mam boyfriend doesn't take with me. What I can do this time. Only he talk with me when he will be in some problem

Ans: Dear Anshu,
I am really sorry that you are in such a situation. Please tell him how sad it makes you feel. Sometimes our partners don’t realise that their actions are hurting us, and hence, communicating our feelings is very important in a relationship. Tell him that you feel hurt that he only speaks to you when he is in some problem. See if he changes his ways or continues to do the same. This way, you are giving him a chance before judging him or reconsidering the relationship.

If he changes, then great. If not, I would suggest you rethink the relationship or have another direct conversation, because you don’t deserve to be treated like this.

Hope this helps.

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You are expecting to have a good college life. However, I don't fully understand what constitutes a "good" or "bad" college experience. They don’t teach life skills in college; rather, it’s how you behave during this time that matters. If you act improperly, it could lead to negative consequences.

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