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Anshu Question by Anshu on Oct 21, 2025Hindi
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Mam boyfriend doesn't take with me. What I can do this time. Only he talk with me when he will be in some problem

Ans: Dear Anshu,
I am really sorry that you are in such a situation. Please tell him how sad it makes you feel. Sometimes our partners don’t realise that their actions are hurting us, and hence, communicating our feelings is very important in a relationship. Tell him that you feel hurt that he only speaks to you when he is in some problem. See if he changes his ways or continues to do the same. This way, you are giving him a chance before judging him or reconsidering the relationship.

If he changes, then great. If not, I would suggest you rethink the relationship or have another direct conversation, because you don’t deserve to be treated like this.

Hope this helps.

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What are the pros and cons of investing in Regular, Growth and Dividend plan of Mutual Funds.
Ans: It is great to see that you are looking at different ways to grow your money through mutual funds. Taking the time to understand these options shows you are serious about your future, which is a wonderful first step toward financial success.

» Regular vs Direct Plans

When you choose a Regular plan, you are not just buying a fund; you are getting a partner. In a Regular plan, a Certified Financial Planner helps you pick the right funds and watches over them. Many people think Direct plans are better because the fees are lower, but that is often a mistake. Without a professional, it is easy to pick the wrong fund or panic when the market goes down. Regular plans give you access to expert advice that helps you stay calm and make better choices over a long time. This guidance is usually worth much more than the small cost difference.

» Growth Option

The Growth option is like planting a tree and letting it grow without cutting any branches. In this plan, the profits made by the fund are put back into the fund. This helps your money grow faster because of the power of compounding.

Pros: Your money grows much bigger over 10 or 20 years. You only pay tax when you sell your units. Under the new rules, Long Term Capital Gains (LTCG) above Rs. 1.25 lakh are taxed at 12.5%, which is very helpful for building wealth.

Cons: You do not get any regular cash in your hand. If you need money for monthly bills, this might not be the best choice unless you sell some units.

» Dividend Plan (IDCW)

This plan is now called the Income Distribution cum Capital Withdrawal (IDCW) option. Instead of letting all the money grow, the fund house sometimes pays out some of the profits to you.

Pros: It feels good to get some money in your bank account every now and then. It can give a sense of comfort to see some gains being "locked in."

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If you want to build a large amount of money for retirement or a child's education, the Growth option is usually the winner. It is very efficient for taxes and growth. The Dividend option might look nice because you get cash, but it often hurts your long-term goals because the tax is high and the compounding is broken. Using a Regular plan with the help of a Certified Financial Planner ensures that you choose the right path for your specific family needs.

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Choosing the right plan is about looking at your whole life, not just the numbers. A 360-degree solution means looking at your taxes, your goals, and how much risk you can take. While the Growth option is great for wealth, having a professional to guide you through the Regular plan is the best way to make sure you actually reach the finish line without making costly mistakes.

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