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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Aug 11, 2025

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Asked by Anonymous - Aug 11, 2025Hindi

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Hi mam. My mom is not willing to accept my bf as my future husband because of his family problems. What should I do

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Then discuss this with your boyfriend. It becomes his responsibility to clear his side of issues which will enable your mother to have trust that her daughter is going to settle down into a good family and that her future will be safe.

All the best!
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