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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Feb 03, 2023

Anu Krishna is a mind coach and relationship expert.
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Question by Kumar on Jan 30, 2023Hindi

Relationship

Hi Anu, Thanks very much for your appropriate answer. But I can't afford being a spectator as I am no getting unbearably envious. I want to avenge by tarnishing her image by reporting about her proximity towards him despite being married.

Ans: Dear Kumar,
So revenge? What is your intention?
To gain her attention by maligning her? Do you think a woman is going to like a man who runs after vengeance? And what is her fault in this? Who she is close to is her business.
Whether she is married or not while she is close to anyone, is not open to judgement.
You feel spurned and that does not mean you go around hurting her to feel better.
Kindly, put this to rest and move on with life. Please deal with your insecurities and jealousies. It's not her problem; it's yours!
Best wishes for a better mind space!

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