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Mohammad Question by Mohammad on May 23, 2024Hindi
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Dear Anu..I am 46 yr old, MS (Mech. Engg.) and been working in a stable job for 15 years now. However, am facing lots of hurdles currently in getting my employment contract renewed or so. I have been doing this current job of mine for the past 15 years now. I have become a bit insensitive to the things happening around me and it's difficult to imagine myself in jobless position in a months' time or so. That way, I find myself in rather precarious situation in prioritizing my future plans as of now, as I have been in a comfort zone for years. Either to opt for Foreign Immigration to AUS/CAN or UK, or hit the right professional job in India. I am married with three kids, grades 10, 6 and 1 respectively and any misstep of mine can jeopardize their well being and this very thought is dragging me into the "indecisiveness" mode.. Kindly advise, Thanks..Faheem

Ans: Dear Mohammad,
Sometimes you need to take a step back and observe what is happening to you, around you and for you.
Do these things fill in what you want from life? If NO, then it's about time you reevaluate what you have been doing so far as the results are not what you want.

Prioritize work goals and ways of achieving them - this will give you an idea whether a relocation makes sense at this time or later or whenever. And oh well, comfort zone keeps you safe BUT does it fuel your goals or help you achieve them...NO...so, time to get comfortable being outside the comfort zone which will enable to think different and do something different and hence change the outcome of your life...makes sense here?

Step back and drop down what you want out of life...see if all that you are doing aligns with it...If not, be prepared to change...decide and make that decision work for you...Comfort Zone keeps you comfortable but nothing great happens sitting there.

All the best!
Anu Krishna
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Hello Anu, I need your advice related to my career.I am at the age of 52 and have been working from the age of 24. Till date haven't been a successful employee.I have been changing jobs on and off just for the betterment of my career and moreover my family.Recently I had been to Africa for job and was not satisfied with the company working and culture.At the start of the job and after landing at Africa the scene was good and later on everything changed and I had to forcefully leave the country. Currently I have moved to Rajkot and also have purchased a flat of own with EMI options. My son and my daughter are very helpful and have assured me not to be tensed and they are always there to take care and will clear off the EMI liability.Please advise me as to what should I do to have a stable career.
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Dear BT,

It’s nice that your children have assured you, but this may not allow them to go ahead with their lives.

Maybe it’s time for you to take a step back and evaluate what exactly happens at each job or assignment.

You may never be able to change your external environment, but certainly you can change the way you think or act on it.

Are you being hasty and changing jobs because of high expectations from the job or an ideal work environment?

At times, it takes a lot of resilience to stick with challenges and pressures from the top management to thrive in a work scenario.

Now that you are back in India and have begun to reflect on what is going on, maybe it’s time to look at other working options.

After the pandemic, hybrid and work from home models are becoming widely accepted ways of delivering job responsibilities.

Also, you may want to look at Freelancing if your field of expertise can make this option lucrative for you.

You can also look at consulting which given your span of career may also be a good career option.

Whatever you choose, challenges are going to a part of it.

I can only suggest that you work on a mindset change and treat these challenges as growth paths else you will continue to feel sorry for yourself and forget that: Change from within for a better outcome is the only thing that lets you sail through challenges and makes you a well-rounded person.

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Hello, I am 3 yr neet dropper.in 2025 it will be my third attempt... I'm trying my best to crack neet ...i don't know what will happen will i score good marks or not ... please help me in suggesting good career options if not crack neet .....there are many options through neet marks also like bhms , veterinary...etc. i will also give entrance exam also like cuet ,gbpuat ,....but i want that what to choose which course will be best for me ...i want to make my life good and happy... having a good degree, good job ,...
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Have you analyzed your failure in 2 successive attempts in the NEET examination? If yes, then the question is what you have done for improvement and not then again the question arises why not? Here, I would like to suggest you focus now only on the NEET examination which is your 3rd attempt. Don't think about any other options right now till May 2025. After the NEET exam is over, you have ample time to explore the options available. Depending on your score in NEET 2025, we will guide you at that time. But yet, if you are confused, then looking towards your question and anxiety, you need personal counseling where you can express yourself face-to-face. Only after the NEET exam is over, you contact a counsellor for one-to-one counseling. Till then, keep mum and focus only on NEET. Take this exam as your mission and project. Work on this project, apply forces from all sides, success is there which is waiting for you eagerly.
Best of luck for your bright future.

Some tips: (1) Analyse separately Phy, Che, Bio (2) Prepare a list of hard topics (3) First focus more on the topics which are easy for you and then try to excel in hard topics (4) Appear more and more online/offline examinations (4) Prepare your short-cut file for all subjects (5) Prepare a file for each subject having only synopsis of all chapters (6) Try to solve the problems at the lightening speed and observe the period on regular basis (7) Create your time table to revise the topics on regular basis (8) Do not hesitate to ask your difficulties to your teachers, if you have joined to offline classes (9) Keep the habit of marking the answers which you know 100%. Don't guess the answers and mark them, as there is -ve marking scheme. (10) Be calm, quite, and smiling all the time to release the tension and always have a healthy chat with your friends.

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