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Mohammad Question by Mohammad on May 23, 2024Hindi
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Dear Anu..I am 46 yr old, MS (Mech. Engg.) and been working in a stable job for 15 years now. However, am facing lots of hurdles currently in getting my employment contract renewed or so. I have been doing this current job of mine for the past 15 years now. I have become a bit insensitive to the things happening around me and it's difficult to imagine myself in jobless position in a months' time or so. That way, I find myself in rather precarious situation in prioritizing my future plans as of now, as I have been in a comfort zone for years. Either to opt for Foreign Immigration to AUS/CAN or UK, or hit the right professional job in India. I am married with three kids, grades 10, 6 and 1 respectively and any misstep of mine can jeopardize their well being and this very thought is dragging me into the "indecisiveness" mode.. Kindly advise, Thanks..Faheem

Ans: Dear Mohammad,
Sometimes you need to take a step back and observe what is happening to you, around you and for you.
Do these things fill in what you want from life? If NO, then it's about time you reevaluate what you have been doing so far as the results are not what you want.

Prioritize work goals and ways of achieving them - this will give you an idea whether a relocation makes sense at this time or later or whenever. And oh well, comfort zone keeps you safe BUT does it fuel your goals or help you achieve them...NO...so, time to get comfortable being outside the comfort zone which will enable to think different and do something different and hence change the outcome of your life...makes sense here?

Step back and drop down what you want out of life...see if all that you are doing aligns with it...If not, be prepared to change...decide and make that decision work for you...Comfort Zone keeps you comfortable but nothing great happens sitting there.

All the best!
Anu Krishna
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Hello Anu, I need your advice related to my career.I am at the age of 52 and have been working from the age of 24. Till date haven't been a successful employee.I have been changing jobs on and off just for the betterment of my career and moreover my family.Recently I had been to Africa for job and was not satisfied with the company working and culture.At the start of the job and after landing at Africa the scene was good and later on everything changed and I had to forcefully leave the country. Currently I have moved to Rajkot and also have purchased a flat of own with EMI options. My son and my daughter are very helpful and have assured me not to be tensed and they are always there to take care and will clear off the EMI liability.Please advise me as to what should I do to have a stable career.
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Dear BT,

It’s nice that your children have assured you, but this may not allow them to go ahead with their lives.

Maybe it’s time for you to take a step back and evaluate what exactly happens at each job or assignment.

You may never be able to change your external environment, but certainly you can change the way you think or act on it.

Are you being hasty and changing jobs because of high expectations from the job or an ideal work environment?

At times, it takes a lot of resilience to stick with challenges and pressures from the top management to thrive in a work scenario.

Now that you are back in India and have begun to reflect on what is going on, maybe it’s time to look at other working options.

After the pandemic, hybrid and work from home models are becoming widely accepted ways of delivering job responsibilities.

Also, you may want to look at Freelancing if your field of expertise can make this option lucrative for you.

You can also look at consulting which given your span of career may also be a good career option.

Whatever you choose, challenges are going to a part of it.

I can only suggest that you work on a mindset change and treat these challenges as growth paths else you will continue to feel sorry for yourself and forget that: Change from within for a better outcome is the only thing that lets you sail through challenges and makes you a well-rounded person.

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I am 47 years old and working abroad in the Gulf., married but have no children. An insecure job (Sales and Marketing in the Healthcare segment) with 9 months remaining in the present contract period and a monthly salary of 2.65 lakhs in INR after conversion. Living expenses required 1.25 lakhs and I am left with only 1.4 lakhs to send back home every month. Ongoing medical expenses for the family require around 12 lakhs (+ an additional 2 lakhs) to be completed in the next 9 months. No home/car/personal loan in India presently. Assets include Home + Plot in home town, two houses earning rent of 10K per month, Ancestral property of agricultural land of 3 acres (which is barren and hard to grow any crop), Equity investments of 5 lakhs in shares with cash on hand of 8 lakhs in India. Other investment liabilities presently include LIC Premiums, ULIP premiums, and Health and Car insurance which works out to 2 lakhs per annum for the next 2 years. Investments in insurance and ULIPs will yield returns only from Dec 2026. Applying for jobs in India and abroad but no luck yet. Suggest a plan on how I manage my finances if I have to come back abruptly given the insecure situation in this part of the world. And what key questions I need to answer., I am confused.
Ans: You are currently 47 years old, working in an unstable sales and marketing job in the healthcare sector in the Gulf. You have nine months left in your contract and face uncertainty about future employment. You earn Rs. 2.65 lakhs per month, and after living expenses of Rs. 1.25 lakhs, you send Rs. 1.4 lakhs back to India. Additionally, there are ongoing medical expenses amounting to Rs. 12 lakhs, plus an extra Rs. 2 lakhs that need to be met within the next nine months. You have some key financial commitments in the form of LIC, ULIP premiums, and health and car insurance, amounting to Rs. 2 lakhs annually for the next two years.

Your assets include a home, a plot in your hometown, two rental houses earning Rs. 10,000 monthly, agricultural land, Rs. 5 lakhs in equity, and Rs. 8 lakhs in cash savings.

Let’s break down how you can manage your financial situation, especially if you must return to India abruptly.

Assessing Cash Flow & Medical Expenses

Your current salary provides you with Rs. 1.4 lakhs to send back home every month, but there is a pressing need to cover medical expenses of Rs. 12-14 lakhs over the next nine months.

These medical expenses will eat into your monthly savings or cash reserves, which means you may face a liquidity crunch in the short term. It is essential to ensure you have a clear plan for covering these medical costs while continuing to save for future needs.

What You Can Do

Create a Medical Emergency Fund: Allocate a portion of your Rs. 8 lakhs in cash reserves specifically to handle these medical costs. This will prevent unnecessary pressure on your monthly cash flow and give you peace of mind. You can then prioritize building this fund up again once the medical expenses are over.

Prioritize Savings: Focus on increasing your savings, even if that means slightly cutting down your living expenses abroad. See if there are areas where you can cut back or reduce discretionary spending to boost your savings buffer. Even saving an extra Rs. 10,000-20,000 monthly can help.

Evaluating Investment Commitments

You have insurance and ULIPs as investments, with returns starting from December 2026. However, these investments are likely not yielding optimal returns due to their high costs.

What You Can Do

Review Your Insurance Plans: If possible, check if any of the insurance or ULIP policies are underperforming. Given that their maturity is still a few years away, it might be wise to consider if surrendering these policies and reinvesting in more flexible and higher-yielding options like mutual funds will benefit you. Consult a Certified Financial Planner to guide you in this area.

Switch to Regular Mutual Funds: If your focus is on actively managed mutual funds, you should consider shifting some of your insurance-based investments into well-researched funds through an MFD and CFP. Actively managed funds have the advantage of being able to outperform index funds, especially during volatile market conditions. Since your ULIPs and insurance may have higher charges, they could hinder your returns compared to mutual funds.

Why Avoid Direct Funds: If you have been considering direct mutual funds, it’s important to know they can sometimes result in missed opportunities or inadequate management due to the absence of a professional advisor. Regular funds, when invested through a trustworthy MFD with CFP credentials, can outperform direct funds because they offer better fund selection, continuous monitoring, and timely adjustments.

Managing Assets and Liabilities

You have various assets: property in your hometown, two rental houses bringing in Rs. 10,000 per month, equity investments worth Rs. 5 lakhs, Rs. 8 lakhs in cash, and agricultural land that is barren.

What You Can Do

Maximize Rental Income: Rs. 10,000 from two houses is a modest amount. You may want to assess if there is potential to increase this rent over time. If you feel that these properties are not providing enough returns, consider renting out the home or plot in your hometown as well. Since you don’t have plans to live there right now, renting these out may provide a steady cash flow that can offset your living expenses in India or abroad.

Reassess Agricultural Land: The agricultural land isn’t generating any income, which can be a missed opportunity. You might want to explore leasing it out to someone who can cultivate it. Even a nominal rent could be beneficial, as the land is otherwise lying idle. This would also reduce maintenance costs and make the land more productive.

Strengthen Equity Portfolio: You have Rs. 5 lakhs in equity investments. While this is a good start, considering the potential of equity to generate inflation-beating returns over the long term, you could aim to increase this allocation. Since equities can provide better returns than ULIPs and insurance policies, focusing on this area will help in wealth accumulation for future needs.

Evaluate Gold as an Investment: If you have any idle gold investments, you might want to consider their value. Gold can act as a hedge against inflation, and selling or leveraging it in times of emergency could provide you with immediate liquidity. This can be an option for medical expenses or any abrupt changes in your income.

Retirement Planning and Building a Safety Net

Since you are 47, it’s important to start thinking about building a retirement corpus, especially if you return to India soon. You should aim for a financial plan that provides income stability for the long term.

What You Can Do

Continue Building Emergency Fund: Given the uncertainties in your job, focus on creating a solid emergency fund. Ideally, this should cover 12-18 months of your expenses in case of job loss or a sudden need to return to India. With your living expenses at Rs. 1.25 lakhs monthly, you would need a fund of Rs. 15-20 lakhs. This will give you a cushion while searching for jobs or setting up income streams back home.

Build Your Retirement Portfolio: A retirement corpus should be a top priority at this stage. You can create a mix of investments, focusing on debt and equity mutual funds to balance risk and returns. Avoid relying heavily on insurance products like ULIPs, as they may not provide the liquidity and returns you need for retirement planning. Regular SIPs in diversified equity funds can grow your portfolio faster than ULIPs.

Ensure a Stable Post-Retirement Income: Since you own properties and have rental income, you already have a base for post-retirement income. You can further enhance this by investing a part of your equity or savings into high-dividend-paying stocks or mutual funds. Also, systematically investing into debt mutual funds closer to your retirement will ensure a predictable income stream.

Job Uncertainty and Transitioning Back to India

Since there is a chance you may need to return to India abruptly, it's essential to have a plan that ensures financial security during the transition.

What You Can Do

Build a Buffer for the Transition: You may not find a job in India or abroad right away. Therefore, it’s important to create a transition fund to cover at least six months of living expenses. This should be separate from your emergency fund. This buffer will allow you to take the time to find a suitable job without financial stress.

Explore Freelance/Consulting Work: Given your experience in sales and marketing in the healthcare sector, you may want to explore opportunities for freelance consulting or remote work. These jobs can give you flexibility and a backup income source.

Invest in Upskilling: Now might be a good time to invest in upskilling or gaining certifications that can improve your chances of finding a new job in India or abroad. Explore courses that are in demand within your industry and sector, whether in digital marketing, healthcare innovations, or related fields.

Final Insights

You are in a challenging yet manageable situation. Your key focus should be on building a solid emergency fund, reviewing your insurance-based investments, and increasing your equity exposure. Since job security is uncertain, preparing for a possible return to India is essential. Maximize your income sources, whether through increased rent or alternative job opportunities like freelance consulting.

You already have a solid asset base, but liquidity and future income stability are crucial. Ensure that your investments are aligned with long-term growth goals and provide flexibility in case of sudden changes in your employment status.

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Hi i am 40M. would request your help to understand what should be the corpus required for retirement as i want to get retired in next 3-5yrs. currently my take home is 2.3L monthly & my wife also works but leaving the job in next 2-3 months. we have a daughter 10yrs, currently i stay on rent and total monthly expense is 1.1L month. once i will retire we will shift in our own parental flat, where hopefully there will be no rent. current Investments 1. 50L in REC bonds getting matured in 2029 2. 42L in stocks 3. 17L in MF 4. 16L FD 5. 15L in PPF 6. 1.3L SIP monthly i do My Wife Investments 1. 30L corpus 2. flat with current value 40L and we get rental of 10K monthly. Please guide what should be the retirement corpus required combined to retire, assuming i need 75L for my daughter post grad and marriage and we would be requiring 75K monthly for our expenses after retiring
Ans: You have explained your income, goals, current assets, and future plans with great clarity. Your early planning spirit is strong. This gives a very good base. You can reach a peaceful retirement with smart steps in the next few years.

» Your Current Position

You are 40 years old. You plan to retire in 3 to 5 years. You earn Rs 2.3 lakh per month. Your wife also works but will stop working soon. You have one daughter aged 10. Your current monthly cost is around Rs 1.1 lakh. This cost will reduce after retirement because you will shift to your parental flat.

Your investment base is already good. You have saved in bonds, stocks, mutual funds, PPF, FD, and SIP. Your wife also has her own savings and rental income from a flat. All these create a good starting point.

This early base helps you plan stronger. It also gives room for more shaping. You are on the right road.

» Your Family Goals

You need Rs 75 lakh for your daughter’s higher education and marriage.

You want Rs 75,000 per month for family living after retirement.

You want to retire in 3 to 5 years.

You will shift to your parental flat after retirement.

You will have rental income of Rs 10,000 from your wife’s flat.

These goals are clear. They give direction. They allow a strong plan.

» Your Present Investments

Your investments include:

Rs 50 lakh in REC bonds maturing in 2029.

Rs 42 lakh in stocks.

Rs 17 lakh in mutual funds.

Rs 16 lakh in fixed deposits.

Rs 15 lakh in PPF.

Rs 1.3 lakh as monthly SIP.

Your wife holds:

Rs 30 lakh corpus.

A flat worth Rs 40 lakh with rent of Rs 10,000 each month.

Your combined net worth is healthy. This gives good power to build your retirement fund in the coming years.

» Understanding Your Expense Need After Retirement

You expect Rs 75,000 per month after retirement. This includes all basic needs. You will not have rent. That reduces cost. This assumption looks fair today.

Your cost will rise with inflation. So you must plan for rising needs. A strong retirement corpus must support rising cost for 40 to 45 years because you are retiring early.

An early retirement needs a large buffer. So you need safety along with growth. Your plan must include growth assets and safety assets.

» How Much Monthly Income You Will Need Later

Rs 75,000 per month is Rs 9 lakh per year. In future years, this cost can rise. If we assume steady rise, your future cost will be much higher.

So the retirement corpus must be designed to:

Give monthly income.

Beat inflation.

Support you for 40 to 45 years.

Protect your family even in market down cycles.

Allow flexibility if your needs change.

A strong retirement fund must support both safety and long-term growth.

» How Much Corpus You Should Target

A safe target is a large and flexible corpus that can support long years without running out of money. For early retirement, the usual thumb rule suggests a very high number. This is because you need income for many decades.

You need a corpus big enough to produce rising income. You also need a cushion for unexpected health costs, lifestyle shocks, and inflation changes.

Your target retirement corpus should be in a strong range. For your needs of Rs 75,000 per month and for goals like daughter’s education and marriage, you should aim for a combined retirement readiness corpus in the higher bracket.

A safe range for your family would be a very large number crossing multiple crores. This large range gives you:

Income safety.

Inflation protection.

Peace during market cycles.

Comfort in long life.

Room for daughter’s future.

Strong backup for health.

You are already on the way due to your existing assets. You will reach close to this range with systematic building over the next 3 to 5 years.

» Why You Need This Larger Corpus

You will retire early. That means more years of living from your corpus. Your corpus must not fall early. It must grow even after retirement. It must give monthly income and long-term family protection.

This is only possible when the corpus is strong and well-structured. A weak corpus creates stress. A strong corpus creates freedom.

Also, your daughter’s future cost must be kept aside. This must be parked in a separate fund. This must not touch your retirement money.

A strong corpus makes these two worlds separate and safe.

» Your Existing Assets and Their Strength

You already have good diversification:

Bonds give safety.

Stocks give growth.

Mutual funds give managed growth.

FD gives stability.

PPF gives tax-free long-term savings.

This blend is already a good start. But you need to make the blend more structured for early retirement.

Your Rs 1.3 lakh monthly SIP is also strong. It builds your future fast. You should continue.

Your wife’s rental income is small but steady. This adds strength.

Your combined financial base can reach your retirement target if you refine your allocation now.

» Your Daughter’s Future Fund Need

You need Rs 75 lakh for your daughter’s education and marriage. You should keep this goal separate from your retirement goal.

Your current SIP and future allocations should create a dedicated fund for this goal. A long-term fund can grow well when managed actively.

Do not mix this fund with your retirement needs. Mixing leads to shortage in old age. Always keep this corpus ring-fenced.

» A Strong Asset Mix For Your Retirement Path

A balanced mix is needed. You need growth assets to beat inflation. You also need stable assets for income.

You must avoid index funds because they do not give flexibility. Index funds follow a fixed index. They cannot make active changes in different markets. They cannot move to better stocks when markets change. They force you to stay in weak sectors for long. They also do not help you in down cycles because they cannot protect you by shifting to safer options. This can hurt retirement planning.

Actively managed funds are better because:

They give active asset selection.

They give scope for better returns.

They give flexibility to change sectors.

They give downside management.

They give access to a skilled fund manager.

They support long-term planning more safely.

Direct plans also carry risk. Direct plans do not give guidance. They do not give behavioural support. They do not give market timing help. They do not give portfolio shaping. They leave all the judgement to you. One mistake can cost years of wealth.

Regular plans with guidance from a Certified Financial Planner help you shape decisions. They help you remain disciplined. They help you avoid panic. They help you decide allocation changes at the right time. This saves wealth in long-term.

» How Your Investment Journey Should Grow in the Next 3–5 Years

Continue your SIP.

Increase SIP when your income rises.

Shift part of your stock holding into planned long-term mutual funds to reduce concentration risk.

Build a defined daughter’s education fund.

Keep a part of your REC bond maturity amount for long-term.

Avoid locking too much into fixed deposits for long periods.

Build a safety fund for one year of expenses.

This will create a full structure.

» Your Rental Income Role

Your rental income of Rs 10,000 per month is small but steady. Over time it will rise. This income will support your monthly cash flow after retirement.

You can use this for utilities or health insurance premiums. This gives a cushion.

» Your Emergency Buffer

You should keep at least one year of essential cost in a safe place. This can be in a liquid account or short-term fund. This protects you in shocks.

Since you plan early retirement, a strong buffer is important. It gives peace even in low months.

» A Structured Retirement Approach

A complete retirement plan for you should include:

A clear monthly income plan after retirement.

A corpus that can grow and protect.

A rising income system that matches inflation.

A separate daughter’s future fund.

A health cover plan for your family.

A tax-efficient withdrawal plan.

A market cycle plan to protect you in tough times.

This holistic approach keeps your family strong for decades.

» What You Should Build by Retirement Year

Your aim should be to reach a strong multi-crore range in investments before retirement. You already hold a large amount. You will add more in the next 3 to 5 years through SIP, stock growth, bond maturity, and disciplined saving.

Once you reach your target range, you can start the shifting process:

Move a part to stable assets.

Keep a part in long-term growth assets.

Create a monthly income strategy.

Keep a reserve bucket.

Keep a child future bucket.

Keep a long-term growth bucket.

This structure protects you in all market conditions.

» Final Insights

Your financial journey is already strong. You have a good income. You have saved well. You have multiple asset types. You have a clear timeline. And you have clear goals. This foundation is solid.

In the next 3 to 5 years, your focus should be on growing your combined corpus to a strong multi-crore range, keeping a separate fund for your daughter, reducing risk in unplanned assets, and building a stable long-term structure.

With the present path and a disciplined structure, you can retire peacefully and support your family with confidence for many decades.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
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https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment

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Hello my name is saket, I monthly salary is 43k and my saving is zero. My Rent is 15 k and 10 k i send to my parents. How can i save money and investments.
Ans: 1. Your Current Monthly Numbers

Salary: Rs 43,000

Rent: Rs 15,000

Support to parents: Rs 10,000

Left with: Rs 18,000 for food, travel, bills, and savings

You have very little room, but saving is still possible if done smartly.

2. First Step: Build a Small Emergency Buffer

You must build Rs 10,000 to Rs 20,000 emergency money.
This protects you from taking loans for small issues.

How to build it:

Save Rs 3,000 to Rs 5,000 every month in a simple bank savings account

Do this for the next few months

Don’t touch it unless truly needed

3. Create a Mini Budget (Very Simple One)

Try this split from the remaining Rs 18,000:

Daily living (food + transport): Rs 10,000 – 11,000

Personal expenses (phone, internet, basics): Rs 3,000 – 4,000

Savings + investments: Rs 3,000 – 5,000

If this feels difficult, reduce food/transport costs by small adjustments.

4. Where to Invest Once You Have Emergency Money

(For minors: This is general education. For actual investing, get guidance from a trusted adult or family member.)

After you build emergency money, start small monthly investing.

You can begin with:

Rs 1,000 to Rs 2,000 SIP in a simple, diversified equity fund

Increase the SIP whenever salary increases or expenses reduce

Avoid complicated products.
Keep it simple.
Focus on consistency.

5. Easy Practical Ways to Increase Saving

These small moves help a lot:

Avoid food delivery

Use public transport as much as possible

Reduce subscriptions you don’t use

Fix a daily expense limit

Keep a separate bank account only for savings

Even Rs 200 saved daily = Rs 6,000 monthly.

6. Increase Income Slowly

Try small income boosters:

Weekend tutoring

Freelancing

Part-time projects

Selling old gadgets

Learning new skills for future salary growth

Even Rs 3,000 extra income changes your savings life.

7. Build the Habit First

The amount doesn’t matter in the beginning.
The habit matters more.

Even saving Rs 500 every month is better than zero.
Once salary grows, you will already know how to save.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in

https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment

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