Anu Krishna |836 Answers |Ask -Follow
Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Jul 22, 2022
Dear C,
It’s a small crowd that you are all living in.
Too many people in one home can have its highs and lows. Privacy can be invaded and too many interferences from family members can cause a crack in the marriage.
Having said this, I do empathize with the fact that affordability of another home is an issue here.
So, have you tried getting back to the drawing board, bringing in all the members together and literally asking them to throw all that they have for and against one another.
If not, please initiate this. Simply explaining to your wife isn’t going to solve the problem.
If so many of you live under one roof, then it becomes everyone’s responsibility to pool in physically, financially and emotionally.
Your 2nd sister cannot cite reasons that she doesn’t want to live at her husband’s home. If she lives with you, how is she contributing to the home?
These are things that must be ironed out sooner than later. So, what are you waiting for?
Plunge in, bring everyone into the ring, talk, delegate responsibilities and ask them how they would like to contribute and share.
This will also allow your wife a feeling that you care, but that she needs to know your financial situation as well.
All the best!
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