Hi I am in a relationship with a guy for 1 year. He is 5 years older than me. We are of same caste and met via social media.
Initially, we had a lot of things to talk about but now we don’t have much stuff to discuss about. He fantasizes about my sis also; he told me that too.
He’s been flirting with her which makes me jealous and low as well. In jealousy I sometimes speak harshly to him and that creates a fight between us.
When I told him that I feel jealous he asked if I wanted him to avoid talking to her.
I don't want that too. I trust him but this jealousy makes me sad and rude to him. What should I do??

Dear LG, My boyfriend is very handsome and nice but he is of a jealous kind. He says it is okay if I talk to other boys but every time I talk to someone we fight. He wants to check my phone and he says I can check his phone too. He does not like my choice of clothes or my wearing dresses. He dresses how I want and always asks if I like what he is wearing. If I don’t, next time he changes. Is this good to go ahead or not good? I am not sure but I like him and my family likes him too. SK

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