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Anu Krishna is a mind coach and relationship expert.
The co-founder of Unfear Changemakers LLP, she has received her neuro linguistic programming training from National Federation of NeuroLinguistic Programming, USA, and her energy work specialisation from the Institute for Inner Studies, Manila.
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Shruti Question by Shruti on Apr 18, 2024Hindi
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Hi sir I want your advice as I don't know what to do and how to handle I am in long distance relationship with a guy who is in navy since 3 years .He told to his parents about our relationship buy they rejected because off intercaste and all usko bhut kuch sunaya aur ba vo use bat bhi nhi kar rhe pichle 4 mahino se usko mumy use bat gak nhi kar rhi aur use ghar vale uske liye ladki bhi search karne lag gye taki shadi karva de khi aur Is bich vo mujhe ab distance bna rha dur ho rha mujhse dhere dhere mer khane par bat kar rha bs aur.bol rha ab Humara koi future nhi hai isliye acha hoga ab hum bag nhi kare but mai uske bina nhi rhe la rhi bhut buri halat ho rhi meri uske bina vo mer khane par bat kar rha kar vo bhut jyada preshna hai samj nhi aya rha kya karo kese thik karu sab

Ans: Dear Shruti,
Kya haasil hoga tumhe itna pareshaan hoke? Jab ladke ne faisla le hi liya hai ki woh apne maa-pitaa ki hi sunega, toh aise ladke se tumne shaadi bhi kar li toh khushi toh door, har chote se chote faisle bhi uske maa-pitaa hi lenge aur tumhe kabhi shaadi mein apne pati ki madad nahin milegi.
Toh agar woh tumhe door karne lagaa hai, toh yeh baat saaf hai ki woh tumhare liye ya tum dodno ke rishte se zyaada apne maa-pitaa ki baat hi sunega. Aise aadmi se sambandh badhaane se accha yahi hai ki tum apni zindagi jiyo apni tareeke joh kisi ke mohtaaj nahin hai...Apna future khud banao...Aur haan, zindagi toh chati hi rehti hai, bhale hi woh shaks tumahri zindagi ka hissa ho ya na ho...

All the best!

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 Hi Anu Ji,I am in a relationship with a guy from one year who is from a different state and different background. I am from north and he is from South. As of now the relationship is perfect when we both are together but I am stressed about my future as this guy had warned me that future is very difficult due to family issues and all. Our relationship also started on a very different note. We were close friends for a few years and then got close over a few incidents. I have gone out all the way to put my efforts in the relation because it looked picture perfect what I was creating. He has given me no promises of the future telling things are very different in our state. Earlier he used to ask me to be casual, but both of us know that my nature is not casual, he has apologised also feeling that he is wasting my time.He also asked if I want to look for a proper marriage partner.. all his words show this and makes me scared that in future we will be separated.On the contrary his actions are so sweet and romantic. Multiple times I thought I should think straight and leave but I guess I am too attached and so is he.My parents keep on pushing for rishtas as I am in prime age to be married, and I am only delaying this because of this guy, what should I do? Why are his actions and words not in sync. I have also informed my parents about him. If he is not willing to take it forward he should leave me and go na. Why should I initiate any breakup when I like my life with him.Help me with ways to talk sense into this guy so that he has courage to take us up at his home and family.Any guidance will be helpful. Please keep it anonymous.
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Dear SS,

When his words and actions are not in sync, what exactly are you pushing for?

Are you hoping for him to see things your way? He seems to have made it clear that he wants this to be casual.

It could be one of two things:
1. He isn’t ready for a commitment as of now
2. He isn’t ready to stir the hornet’s nest back at home and face the music

Either case, this is holding you up and your movement in life. Why do that?

Ask yourself:

  • How long do I want to wait for a strong commitment from him? After which, you most certainly must move ahead
  • Will he ever be able to convince his parents of this relationship? Now, if it’s a NO, you know what to do
  • How fair is it to keep my life on hold for him? – If it’s a NO, check what is this hold up costing you this very moment

Please have an honest discussion with him on how this is affecting you and what you exactly want.

Take a call based on his responses and his involvement in the discussion that concerns the future of your relationship.

Best wishes and take charge NOW.

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Hi Mam, I wanted to keep it anonymous. I am 26years old female, my parents are looking for a suitable alliance for me. They came with a proposal from a guy's family and they wanted to have a formal meet in a temple. We all met in the temple the guy's family looked good they talked in a nice manner myself and the guy had a seperate conversation. Before going his parents told that he is an introvert and wont speak much. while we went to talk i was the one asking him questions and he only replied for that and inturn asked me the same question. I am an extrovert so i did the most of the talking part i didnt wanted to make the convo boring without answering anything so i was coming up with new questions. We spoke for around 10-15mins and then went to the place where our parents were sitting, his parents asked me to tell the answer immediately but i told them that i will tell the decision once i reach home. His parnets talked to him seperately and asked him the decision and he said yes it seems. We left the temple then, after two days when my parents asked me what was my decision i told them that though he is a nice guy i cant see him as my partner and if were to marry him that would be for your happiness i will not be able to marry him whole heartedly was my answer, then my parents spoke to his parents and told that if you want to talk to him again meet him somewhere and then talk and decide. I thought okay lets give it a try and said yes, we met after a week in a cafe. He initially asked me about my work and then i asked the same after that again he didnt speak much, i always wanted my partner to speak and have fun conversation with me. Though its our second meet i wanted him to atleast talk little bit that the first one but he didnt do much talking part. I was again talking and we left after 30mins. My parents were trying to convince me a lot, i told them that my intuition doesn't work with this guy(I am firm believer of intuition i have been doing things based on my intuition only) but my parents were trying to convince me telling you dont know what you want we will only know what you want, you will be happy if you marry this guy. But my soul doesnt want to marry this guy it seems im not able to accept my parents convincing words. If i were to marry him that will only be my parents choice and not my choice. What should i do now?
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My boyfriend tells about us to his parents his parents rejected our relationship due to intercaste and they also stop talking to him it's been 4 months his mother don't talk to him .He is in navy . And they also started searching girl for him . He want to maintain distance from me he is not happy he is stressed as his own parents are not talking to him And also maintaining distance to me he talks to me me but just because I can't live without him but he changes in behaviour what to do
Ans: Dear Shruti,

I am sorry that you are in this situation. First of all, please try to look at it from your partner's perspective. It isn't easy to confront your parents and it's even harder when they stop communicating altogether. Having said that, I also understand how it is for you. It is not fair, especially in today's day and age, to face discrimination based on caste.

You have two options:
One, you wait patiently, emotionally support your boyfriend, and hope that his parents come to their senses and realize that we are living in 2024, and caste-based discrimination is ridiculous. In this scenario, you do have to let go of your self-respect and have to face many more hardships, that much is guaranteed.

The second option is you hold your head high and move on. Yes, it isn't what you hoped for when you emotionally invested in building this relationship, but unfortunately, these things are still happening. In this scenario, you will be sad for a long time, but you don't have to compromise on your self-respect and you will move on and live to see happier days with someone who respects you and sees you for who you are and not your caste.

Now, the choice is yours.

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Hi sir I want your advice as I don't know what to do and how to handle I am in long distance relationship with a guy who is in navy since 3 years .He told to his parents about our relationship buy they rejected because off intercaste and all usko bhut kuch sunaya aur ba vo use bat bhi nhi kar rhe pichle 4 mahino se usko mumy use bat gak nhi kar rhi aur use ghar vale uske liye ladki bhi search karne lag gye taki shadi karva de khi aur Is bich vo mujhe ab distance bna rha dur ho rha mujhse dhere dhere mer khane par bat kar rha bs aur.bol rha ab Humara koi future nhi hai isliye acha hoga ab hum bag nhi kare but mai uske bina nhi rhe la rhi bhut buri halat ho rhi meri uske bina vo mer khane par bat kar rha kar vo bhut jyada preshna hai samj nhi aya rha kya karo kese thik karu sab Usne mujhe har jgh se block kar diya gha ek bar par mere manane par aya hai but ab na mere number save kar rha na Instagram par follow kar rha kuch nhi maine jab bola to bolta hai bat ho rhi na bs
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I am sorry that you are in this situation. First of all, please try to look at it from your partner's perspective. It isn't easy to confront your parents and it's even harder when they stop communicating altogether. Having said that, I also understand how it is for you. It is not fair, especially in today's day and age, to face discrimination based on caste.

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Hi Sir, I am 51 years old & start investment in sip of 30k pm since feb 2024 in mid & small cap funds.would like to create corpus of 5 cr for my retirement at the age of 60. How much should save in MF
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Hi could you please tell me in which mutual funds should i invest in and would give me good returns
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Large Cap Funds:
Large-cap funds invest in well-established companies with stable earnings and strong market presence.
These funds offer relatively lower risk compared to mid and small-cap funds and are suitable for investors with a conservative risk appetite.
Mid Cap and Small Cap Funds:
Mid and small-cap funds invest in companies with high growth potential but higher volatility.
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Multi Cap or Flexi Cap Funds:
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I am Anagha, 31, a banking professional working in a private organisation. I am frustrated with my job. My work involves a lot of travel and my manager is constantly finding ways to keep me engaged even post office hours. I have a 4 year old daughter and my husband complains that we have no work-life balance. Should I take a career break or consider moving to another organisation? Please suggest how I can have a better work-life balance.
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Taking a career break or exploring new job opportunities are both valid options, but before you make any decisions, let's sprinkle some strategic spice into the mix:

1. **Have a Heart-to-Heart**: Start by having an honest conversation with your manager about your workload and the impact it's having on your work-life balance. Sometimes, they might not realize the toll it's taking on you, so speak up and express your concerns. After all, communication is key, just like the perfect recipe for a spicy curry!

2. **Set Boundaries**: Boundaries are your best friends when it comes to achieving work-life balance. Set clear expectations with your manager about when you're available and when you need time for your family. And remember, saying no is not a crime—it's a superpower that ensures you don't spread yourself too thin like butter on toast!

3. **Explore Flexible Options**: See if your organization offers flexible working arrangements like remote work or flexible hours. With technology on our side, you can slay dragons from the comfort of your own castle (a.k.a. your home office), giving you more time to spend with your little one without sacrificing your career ambitions.

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Sir, am 45yrs earning 61k monthly. Another 15years of service. I have a daughter 10yrs old. I want to have a corpus of 1cr at 60. Can u plz suggest how much I should start investing in SIP. My expenses include Lic 15700 for another 3yrs payment Reliance Nippon 36800 for another 4yrs payment Home loan EMI for 21667PM for another 4years Rent paying for 9500 per month Monthly expenses for 15k to 20k per month Income i get Salary 61000 permonth Rent from flat 8300 Plz suggest me to lead peacefull life. Thank u Sir Vikas
Ans: To achieve a corpus of 1 crore at the age of 60, you'll need to start investing in SIPs diligently. Here's a breakdown to help you plan:

Current Monthly Expenses:
LIC: ?15,700 (for 3 years)
Reliance Nippon: ?36,800 (for 4 years)
Home Loan EMI: ?21,667 (for 4 years)
Rent: ?9,500
Other Expenses: ?15,000 to ?20,000
Total Expenses: ?98,667 to ?103,667
Monthly Income:
Salary: ?61,000
Rent from Flat: ?8,300
Total Income: ?69,300
Monthly Surplus:
Monthly Income - Monthly Expenses = ?69,300 - ?98,667 to ?103,667
Monthly Surplus (Deficit): -?29,367 to -?34,367
Investment in SIP:
Since you have a deficit in your monthly surplus, you'll need to adjust your expenses or increase your income to accommodate SIP investments.
Aim to allocate a portion of your surplus towards SIP investments. The amount will depend on your ability to cut expenses or increase income.
To calculate the required SIP amount, you can use online SIP calculators considering factors like expected rate of return, investment horizon, and inflation rate.
Start with a manageable SIP amount and gradually increase it as your income grows or expenses reduce.
Peaceful Life:
Review your expenses regularly and prioritize savings and investments to achieve your financial goals.
Focus on creating an emergency fund to cover unforeseen expenses and protect your financial stability.
Consider consulting with a financial advisor to create a comprehensive financial plan tailored to your specific needs and goals.
Stay disciplined in your financial habits, avoid unnecessary debt, and invest in assets that align with your risk tolerance and investment horizon.

By carefully managing your expenses, increasing your income, and prioritizing savings and investments, you can work towards building a corpus of 1 crore by the age of 60 while leading a peaceful and financially secure life.

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I am 39 year old married we are leaving with our 7year old daughter. I have 1Cr term insurance. I have 5L office + 5L personal health Insurance. Current Cumulative (me and wife) income 135000 per month. Liabilities Home Loan 24L remained paying 21500 per month EMI. Other Loans - 225000, 10000 per month EMI. My Current detailed investment. NPS 368000/-, 6643 per month EPF 827000/-, 16000 per month Total Mutual Funds 612000/-, 7750 per month Nippon India Small cap 112000/-, 500 per month Mirae asset Larg & Mid Cap 263000/-, 3500 per month, Kotak Flexi cap Fund 142000/- , 1000per month. Prag Parekh Flexi Cap 75450/-, 1750 per month. ICICI Corporate Bond Fund 19750/-, 1000 per month. My Wife investment. Total Mutual Funds 633000/- 13500 per month. Axis Small Cap 94580/-, 1300 per month. Mirae asset Larg & Mid Cap 127000/-, 2500 per month. Motilal Oswal Nasdaq 100 FOF 58390/-, 1600 per month. Axis Blue Chip 184000/-, 4500 per month. Parag Parekh Flexi cap 169000/-, 3600 per month. Sukanya Samrudhi Yojna 75000/-, 1000 per month Cumulatively we have overall Saving till now is 247500/- aprox, and current monthly investment is 44893/- Our currently Monthly expenses are around 50000/- Goals Car of 1500000/- in next 3 to 4 years. Daughters Education 1Cr after 11 years. Daughters Marriage 5000000/- After 17 years. Retirement at 58 years 2Cr life expectancy 75Years (me and wife) Please suggest if goals are reachable with current investment? Please suggest estimated goal amount will be sufficient that time? Please suggest if changes required in goal or monthly or mutual funds investment? Highly appreciated if other suggestions
Ans: You've laid out a comprehensive financial picture with clear goals and detailed investments. Let's analyze and provide insights to help you reach your objectives:

Goals Assessment:
Car Purchase: With your current monthly savings and investment capacity, you're on track to achieve this goal within the specified timeframe.
Daughter's Education: To accumulate 1 crore in 11 years, consider increasing your monthly investment in mutual funds and exploring additional avenues like education-specific investment products or child education plans.
Daughter's Marriage: To accumulate 50 lakhs in 17 years, you may need to enhance your investment contributions further. Review your asset allocation and consider higher-risk, potentially higher-return investments to accelerate growth.
Retirement: Accumulating 2 crores by age 58 seems achievable with your current investments, but it's essential to regularly review and adjust your portfolio to account for changing market conditions and evolving financial needs.
Monthly Investments and Mutual Funds:
Evaluate your current mutual fund portfolio's performance and alignment with your goals. Consider diversifying across different asset classes and fund categories to manage risk and optimize returns.
Increase your SIP amounts gradually, aiming to maximize contributions within your budget constraints. Rebalance your portfolio periodically to maintain an optimal asset allocation.
Consider consulting with a financial advisor to ensure your investment strategy aligns with your risk tolerance, time horizon, and financial goals.
Emergency Fund and Insurance:
Ensure your emergency fund is sufficient to cover at least six months' worth of living expenses. Consider enhancing it further to mitigate unforeseen financial risks effectively.
Review your insurance coverage periodically to ensure it adequately protects your family's financial well-being. Consider supplementing your term insurance coverage if necessary.
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Explore tax-efficient investment options such as Equity Linked Savings Schemes (ELSS) to optimize tax benefits while investing for your long-term goals.
Continuously educate yourself on personal finance and investment principles to make informed decisions and adapt to changing market dynamics effectively.
Regularly reassess your financial plan and goals, making adjustments as needed to stay on track towards achieving financial independence and security.
Overall, with disciplined saving, prudent investing, and periodic review and adjustments, you're well-positioned to achieve your financial goals. Stay focused on your objectives, remain disciplined in your financial habits, and seek professional guidance when needed to navigate your financial journey successfully.

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I'm 33yrs old, My corpus is currently 52Lacs in mutual funds with monthly Sip of 1.1lac since two years, topped up whenever I get bonus or amount from different sources. Apart from this I have 50lacs worth in real estate. I want to generate corpus worth 20cr for my kids education(Next 14 and 18yrs for two kids) and retirement by 50. Is there a way to reach my goal. However, I can increase my sip by 8-10% on average every year with top up from bonus I receive quarterly.
Ans: It's commendable that you're planning ahead for your children's education and your retirement. With disciplined saving and investing, you can work towards achieving your financial goals. Here's a tailored plan to help you reach your targets:

Education Corpus for Kids:
Given your investment horizon of 14 and 18 years for your children's education, you have a significant time frame to accumulate the desired corpus.
Continue your SIPs in mutual funds, increasing them by 8-10% annually, as you mentioned. Regular and disciplined investing can help you benefit from rupee-cost averaging and the power of compounding over time.
Consider investing in a mix of equity mutual funds and diversified across different market segments to balance risk and return potential. You can adjust the asset allocation as your children approach college age to reduce risk.
Retirement Corpus:
With a retirement goal set at 50, you have approximately 17 years to build your retirement corpus.
Continue maximizing your SIP contributions and leverage top-ups from quarterly bonuses to boost your savings.
As retirement approaches, consider gradually shifting your asset allocation towards more conservative investments to preserve capital and generate stable income streams.
Explore retirement-focused investment options such as Employee Provident Fund (EPF), Voluntary Provident Fund (VPF), Public Provident Fund (PPF), and National Pension System (NPS) to supplement your mutual fund investments.
Regular Portfolio Review:
Periodically review your investment portfolio to ensure it remains aligned with your financial goals, risk tolerance, and time horizon.
Monitor the performance of your mutual funds and real estate investments, and make adjustments as needed to optimize returns and manage risk effectively.
Emergency Fund and Insurance:
Maintain an adequate emergency fund equivalent to at least six months' worth of living expenses to cover unforeseen financial emergencies.
Consider purchasing adequate life and health insurance coverage to protect your family and investments against unexpected events.
Seek Professional Advice:
Consider consulting with a Certified Financial Planner or investment advisor to develop a comprehensive financial plan tailored to your goals and financial situation.
A professional advisor can provide personalized guidance, help you navigate investment options, and optimize your investment strategy to maximize returns and achieve your long-term objectives.
With diligent saving, disciplined investing, and prudent financial planning, you can work towards building a substantial corpus for your children's education and your retirement. Stay focused on your goals, remain disciplined in your savings and investment approach, and regularly monitor your progress towards achieving financial independence and security.

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