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Shruti Question by Shruti on Apr 18, 2024Hindi
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Hi sir I want your advice as I don't know what to do and how to handle I am in long distance relationship with a guy who is in navy since 3 years .He told to his parents about our relationship buy they rejected because off intercaste and all usko bhut kuch sunaya aur ba vo use bat bhi nhi kar rhe pichle 4 mahino se usko mumy use bat gak nhi kar rhi aur use ghar vale uske liye ladki bhi search karne lag gye taki shadi karva de khi aur Is bich vo mujhe ab distance bna rha dur ho rha mujhse dhere dhere mer khane par bat kar rha bs aur.bol rha ab Humara koi future nhi hai isliye acha hoga ab hum bag nhi kare but mai uske bina nhi rhe la rhi bhut buri halat ho rhi meri uske bina vo mer khane par bat kar rha kar vo bhut jyada preshna hai samj nhi aya rha kya karo kese thik karu sab Usne mujhe har jgh se block kar diya gha ek bar par mere manane par aya hai but ab na mere number save kar rha na Instagram par follow kar rha kuch nhi maine jab bola to bolta hai bat ho rhi na bs

Ans: Dear Shruti,

I am sorry that you are in this situation. First of all, please try to look at it from your partner's perspective. It isn't easy to confront your parents and it's even harder when they stop communicating altogether. Having said that, I also understand how it is for you. It is not fair, especially in today's day and age, to face discrimination based on caste.

You have two options:
One, you wait patiently, emotionally support your boyfriend, and hope that his parents come to their senses and realize that we are living in 2024, and caste-based discrimination is ridiculous. In this scenario, you do have to let go of your self-respect and have to face many more hardships, that much is guaranteed.

The second option is you hold your head high and move on. Yes, it isn't what you hoped for when you emotionally invested in building this relationship, but unfortunately, these things are still happening. In this scenario, you will be sad for a long time, but you don't have to compromise on your self-respect and you will move on and live to see happier days with someone who respects you and sees you for who you are and not your caste.

Now, the choice is yours.

Best Wishes!

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 Hi Anu Ji,I am in a relationship with a guy from one year who is from a different state and different background. I am from north and he is from South. As of now the relationship is perfect when we both are together but I am stressed about my future as this guy had warned me that future is very difficult due to family issues and all. Our relationship also started on a very different note. We were close friends for a few years and then got close over a few incidents. I have gone out all the way to put my efforts in the relation because it looked picture perfect what I was creating. He has given me no promises of the future telling things are very different in our state. Earlier he used to ask me to be casual, but both of us know that my nature is not casual, he has apologised also feeling that he is wasting my time.He also asked if I want to look for a proper marriage partner.. all his words show this and makes me scared that in future we will be separated.On the contrary his actions are so sweet and romantic. Multiple times I thought I should think straight and leave but I guess I am too attached and so is he.My parents keep on pushing for rishtas as I am in prime age to be married, and I am only delaying this because of this guy, what should I do? Why are his actions and words not in sync. I have also informed my parents about him. If he is not willing to take it forward he should leave me and go na. Why should I initiate any breakup when I like my life with him.Help me with ways to talk sense into this guy so that he has courage to take us up at his home and family.Any guidance will be helpful. Please keep it anonymous.
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Dear SS,

When his words and actions are not in sync, what exactly are you pushing for?

Are you hoping for him to see things your way? He seems to have made it clear that he wants this to be casual.

It could be one of two things:
1. He isn’t ready for a commitment as of now
2. He isn’t ready to stir the hornet’s nest back at home and face the music

Either case, this is holding you up and your movement in life. Why do that?

Ask yourself:

  • How long do I want to wait for a strong commitment from him? After which, you most certainly must move ahead
  • Will he ever be able to convince his parents of this relationship? Now, if it’s a NO, you know what to do
  • How fair is it to keep my life on hold for him? – If it’s a NO, check what is this hold up costing you this very moment

Please have an honest discussion with him on how this is affecting you and what you exactly want.

Take a call based on his responses and his involvement in the discussion that concerns the future of your relationship.

Best wishes and take charge NOW.

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Hi Mam, I wanted to keep it anonymous. I am 26years old female, my parents are looking for a suitable alliance for me. They came with a proposal from a guy's family and they wanted to have a formal meet in a temple. We all met in the temple the guy's family looked good they talked in a nice manner myself and the guy had a seperate conversation. Before going his parents told that he is an introvert and wont speak much. while we went to talk i was the one asking him questions and he only replied for that and inturn asked me the same question. I am an extrovert so i did the most of the talking part i didnt wanted to make the convo boring without answering anything so i was coming up with new questions. We spoke for around 10-15mins and then went to the place where our parents were sitting, his parents asked me to tell the answer immediately but i told them that i will tell the decision once i reach home. His parnets talked to him seperately and asked him the decision and he said yes it seems. We left the temple then, after two days when my parents asked me what was my decision i told them that though he is a nice guy i cant see him as my partner and if were to marry him that would be for your happiness i will not be able to marry him whole heartedly was my answer, then my parents spoke to his parents and told that if you want to talk to him again meet him somewhere and then talk and decide. I thought okay lets give it a try and said yes, we met after a week in a cafe. He initially asked me about my work and then i asked the same after that again he didnt speak much, i always wanted my partner to speak and have fun conversation with me. Though its our second meet i wanted him to atleast talk little bit that the first one but he didnt do much talking part. I was again talking and we left after 30mins. My parents were trying to convince me a lot, i told them that my intuition doesn't work with this guy(I am firm believer of intuition i have been doing things based on my intuition only) but my parents were trying to convince me telling you dont know what you want we will only know what you want, you will be happy if you marry this guy. But my soul doesnt want to marry this guy it seems im not able to accept my parents convincing words. If i were to marry him that will only be my parents choice and not my choice. What should i do now?
Ans: Well, this conversation requires a discussion - but I will attempt responding based on what you have shared. You should know introverts take time in opening up...and that should be respected. Its possible when you know each other, he may still not open up with others, but with you he is talkative. What is bothersome here is you intuition, your 6th sense - which makes you uncomfortable - question it, why do you think that is the case. If I was in a similar situation I would have asked to meet this gentleman 3-4 times more - and would observe more and talk less :)....maybe listen more and ask fewer questions. If you do meet him ask him what is making him say yes. Let him know that it bothers you that he responds in short sentences. But after that play games together - from board games to games like 3 things you wish to have in your partner to 3 qualities you wish you partner works upon. You need to answer this as well. Ask him his 3 strengths and share yours, share personality traits you need to work on and ask his.....keep the conversations light and fun....and then question your intuition again...and if it does not agree then do what works for you. Make parents sit down and explain it to them without getting emotional or raising your voice. Hope this helps.

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My boyfriend tells about us to his parents his parents rejected our relationship due to intercaste and they also stop talking to him it's been 4 months his mother don't talk to him .He is in navy . And they also started searching girl for him . He want to maintain distance from me he is not happy he is stressed as his own parents are not talking to him And also maintaining distance to me he talks to me me but just because I can't live without him but he changes in behaviour what to do
Ans: Dear Shruti,

I am sorry that you are in this situation. First of all, please try to look at it from your partner's perspective. It isn't easy to confront your parents and it's even harder when they stop communicating altogether. Having said that, I also understand how it is for you. It is not fair, especially in today's day and age, to face discrimination based on caste.

You have two options:
One, you wait patiently, emotionally support your boyfriend, and hope that his parents come to their senses and realize that we are living in 2024, and caste-based discrimination is ridiculous. In this scenario, you do have to let go of your self-respect and have to face many more hardships, that much is guaranteed.

The second option is you hold your head high and move on. Yes, it isn't what you hoped for when you emotionally invested in building this relationship, but unfortunately, these things are still happening. In this scenario, you will be sad for a long time, but you don't have to compromise on your self-respect and you will move on and live to see happier days with someone who respects you and sees you for who you are and not your caste.

Now, the choice is yours.

Best Wishes!

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Hi sir I want your advice as I don't know what to do and how to handle I am in long distance relationship with a guy who is in navy since 3 years .He told to his parents about our relationship buy they rejected because off intercaste and all usko bhut kuch sunaya aur ba vo use bat bhi nhi kar rhe pichle 4 mahino se usko mumy use bat gak nhi kar rhi aur use ghar vale uske liye ladki bhi search karne lag gye taki shadi karva de khi aur Is bich vo mujhe ab distance bna rha dur ho rha mujhse dhere dhere mer khane par bat kar rha bs aur.bol rha ab Humara koi future nhi hai isliye acha hoga ab hum bag nhi kare but mai uske bina nhi rhe la rhi bhut buri halat ho rhi meri uske bina vo mer khane par bat kar rha kar vo bhut jyada preshna hai samj nhi aya rha kya karo kese thik karu sab
Ans: Dear Shruti,
Kya haasil hoga tumhe itna pareshaan hoke? Jab ladke ne faisla le hi liya hai ki woh apne maa-pitaa ki hi sunega, toh aise ladke se tumne shaadi bhi kar li toh khushi toh door, har chote se chote faisle bhi uske maa-pitaa hi lenge aur tumhe kabhi shaadi mein apne pati ki madad nahin milegi.
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I started Sip in three fund Motilal elss fund,parag elss fund, nippion small cap fund 1500 per fund past 1.5 year and started yesterday SBI contra fund 1500 it is good
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Motilal ELSS Fund and Parag ELSS Fund are Equity Linked Savings Schemes (ELSS), which offer tax benefits under Section 80C of the Income Tax Act. These funds primarily invest in equities and have a lock-in period of three years.
Nippon Small Cap Fund invests in stocks of small-cap companies, which have the potential for high growth but also come with higher risk due to their volatile nature.
SBI Contra Fund follows a contrarian investment strategy, aiming to invest in stocks that are currently out of favor in the market but have the potential for a turnaround in the future.
Adding SBI Contra Fund to your portfolio introduces a diversification element. The contrarian approach of this fund can complement the growth-oriented strategy of small-cap and ELSS funds.

However, it's essential to assess whether SBI Contra Fund aligns with your overall investment objectives, risk tolerance, and investment horizon. Consider factors such as the fund's investment philosophy, historical performance, fund manager expertise, and portfolio composition.

As always, it's wise to regularly review your investment portfolio and make adjustments as needed to ensure it remains aligned with your financial goals. If you're uncertain about the suitability of SBI Contra Fund or any other investment, consider consulting a Certified Financial Planner for personalized advice.

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My name is Yuvarani..43 yr old homemaker.. Need advice on investing 10 lakhs in mutual funds..And I am planning to invest 20000 as SIP every month..Plse suggest a good plan..If we have to consult a financial planner, Where should we be looking for
Ans: Yuvarani! It's wonderful to see you taking an interest in investing and planning for your financial future. Investing in mutual funds through SIPs is a smart and disciplined approach to wealth creation. Let's explore some options for you:

Given your initial investment of 10 lakhs and a monthly SIP of 20,000, you have a solid foundation to build your investment portfolio.
With a long-term investment horizon in mind, consider a diversified portfolio comprising a mix of equity, debt, and balanced funds. This can help spread out risk and maximize returns over time.
For equity funds, you can explore options such as large-cap, mid-cap, and multi-cap funds. These funds invest in stocks of companies with varying market capitalizations, offering growth potential over the long term.
Debt funds, on the other hand, provide stability and regular income by investing in fixed-income securities such as bonds and treasury bills. Consider investing a portion of your portfolio in debt funds to balance risk.
Balanced funds, also known as hybrid funds, offer a combination of equity and debt investments, providing a balanced approach to growth and stability. These funds can be suitable for investors seeking moderate risk exposure.
When choosing specific mutual funds, consider factors such as fund performance, expense ratio, fund manager expertise, and investment philosophy. Look for funds with a consistent track record of delivering returns and aligning with your risk tolerance and investment goals.
As for consulting a financial planner, you can consider reaching out to Certified Financial Planners (CFPs) who offer personalized financial advice and planning services. Look for reputable financial planning firms or individual CFPs with relevant experience and credentials.
Additionally, you can explore online platforms or advisory services that offer access to certified financial planners and investment advisors. These platforms often provide convenient tools and resources for managing your investments and seeking professional advice.
Remember, investing is a journey, and it's essential to stay disciplined and focused on your long-term goals. By investing regularly through SIPs and seeking guidance from a certified financial planner, you're taking proactive steps towards securing your financial future. Best of luck on your investment journey, Yuvarani!

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Sold a joint ( self and wife) property. Each got 50% sale proceeds in respective bank accts. TDS also deducted separately. Can we now buy a joint property to obviate Capital Gains Tax.
Ans: Congratulations on successfully selling your joint property and managing the proceeds wisely! It's wonderful to see you taking proactive steps towards optimizing your financial situation.

Now, regarding your question about buying a joint property to obviate Capital Gains Tax, let's break it down:

Firstly, it's essential to understand that the sale of a property typically attracts Capital Gains Tax (CGT) on any profit earned from the sale.
However, under Section 54 of the Income Tax Act, there's a provision for exemption from CGT if the sale proceeds are reinvested in another property within a specified time frame.
In your case, since both you and your wife received 50% of the sale proceeds separately in your respective bank accounts, each of you can utilize your share to purchase a new property individually or jointly.
By purchasing a joint property, you can pool your resources and invest in a new asset together. This can be a strategic move to utilize the sale proceeds effectively and potentially minimize tax implications.
However, it's crucial to ensure that the new property meets the criteria for CGT exemption under Section 54. For example, the property should be purchased within the specified time frame and held for a certain period to qualify for the exemption.
Additionally, consult with a tax expert or Certified Financial Planner to understand the specific eligibility criteria and implications of reinvesting the sale proceeds in a joint property.
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As you navigate this process, remember that careful planning and informed decision-making are key. Seek professional guidance to ensure compliance with tax laws and optimize your financial outcomes.
Finally, I commend you for being proactive in exploring options to manage your finances effectively. With the right guidance and strategy, you can make informed choices that align with your goals and aspirations. Best of luck on your journey!

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Best rupay credit card for house hold spending
Ans: When it comes to choosing the best RuPay credit card for household spending, several factors come into play. Here are some key considerations to help you make an informed decision:

Cashback and Rewards: Look for a card that offers attractive cashback or reward points on everyday household expenses such as groceries, utilities, and dining. This can help you maximize the value of your spending.
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Hello sir, I'm 36 years old and i started investing 8 months back. First first 6 months SIP on UTI index fund -25000, after that SIP on zerodha elss large midcap 250 -25000 and UTI index fund -5000. Currently 30000 investing every month, I like increase to 50000/month. Where to invest for next 10-15 years for my retirement? Like to diversify with small and flexi cap will which will be a good choice for me please suggest. Thanks in advance
Ans: It's impressive to see your commitment to investing and planning for your future. Your journey so far reflects a thoughtful approach to building wealth over time.

Starting with SIPs in UTI index fund and later diversifying with Zerodha ELSS large midcap fund shows a strategic move towards a diversified portfolio.

Now, with your monthly investment capacity set to increase to 50,000, you're positioning yourself even stronger for the future.

Considering your goal of retirement planning over the next 10-15 years, diversifying into small and flexi-cap funds would indeed be a wise move.

These funds offer exposure to companies across different market capitalizations, providing a balanced approach to growth potential and risk.

To assist you further, I recommend seeking guidance from a Mutual Fund Distributor (MFD) who holds Certified Financial Planner credentials.

This professional can offer you personalized advice, emotional support, and handholding throughout your investment journey.

Together, you can explore various small and flexi-cap funds available in the market, considering factors such as fund performance, expense ratio, and fund manager expertise.

By diversifying your portfolio across different asset classes and fund categories, you're spreading out your risk and maximizing potential returns.

Remember, consistency and discipline are key. Keep investing regularly and stay focused on your long-term goals. With the right guidance and support, you're well on your way to a secure retirement.

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Hi Mr Ramalingam. I want to start investing in sip. Can u tell me which ones I shud take. Every month I can do 12k on sip
Ans: hat's fantastic to hear you're interested in SIPs. It's a smart move towards building wealth gradually.

You've got a solid amount to invest each month, and SIPs are a great way to make that work for you.

Considering your budget, we can explore SIPs across various sectors to diversify your portfolio effectively.

Let's dive deeper into SIPs and how they can work for you.

With SIPs, your investment journey becomes a smooth ride. Instead of trying to time the market or worry about market fluctuations, you're making regular investments, regardless of market conditions.

Now, with your monthly investment capacity of 12k, we can strategize how to allocate these funds across different mutual fund categories.

Equity funds can offer the potential for significant returns over the long term, making them an attractive option for growth-oriented investors. However, they do come with higher volatility and risk.

On the other hand, debt funds provide stability and consistent returns, making them suitable for investors seeking steady income with lower risk.

Balanced funds combine elements of both equity and debt, striking a balance between growth potential and stability. This can be a good option for those looking for a middle ground in terms of risk and return.

By diversifying your SIP investments across these categories, you're spreading out your risk and maximizing the potential for returns.

Work closely with a certified financial planner and make him to understand your financial goals, risk tolerance, and investment horizon. Together, you'll select SIPs that align with your objectives and create a tailored investment strategy.

It's important to remember that investing is a long-term commitment. By staying disciplined and sticking to your SIPs, you're laying the groundwork for financial success. I'll be here every step of the way to provide guidance and support. Let's embark on this journey together!

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Hai I am 45yrs old business person , doing medium turn over and medium profit want to earn more money . I have 1 to 2 lakhs to invest Please suggest me where can I do ?
Ans: Firstly, I must commend you for your entrepreneurial spirit and your dedication to improving your financial situation.

Investing wisely can indeed be a pathway to greater wealth, and your willingness to explore options is admirable. With your current financial position and aspirations, it's essential to approach investment with caution and diligence.

Before diving in, take a moment to reflect on your risk tolerance and investment goals. Understanding these will guide your decisions and help manage expectations.

Now, with your budget in mind, let's explore some potential avenues for investment:

Consider starting with diversified mutual funds or index funds. They offer a balanced approach to investing, spreading risk across various assets.
Explore the stock market cautiously. With thorough research and guidance, you can identify promising companies poised for growth.
Peer-to-peer lending platforms can offer attractive returns. However, be sure to understand the associated risks and choose reputable platforms.
Investing in yourself is also crucial. Consider furthering your education or acquiring new skills relevant to your business or industry.
Don't overlook the potential of online businesses or e-commerce ventures. With your business acumen, you may find success in this rapidly growing sector.
Remember, patience and persistence are key virtues in the world of investment. It's essential to stay informed, adapt to market changes, and remain disciplined in your approach.

Lastly, never hesitate to seek guidance from a Certified Financial Planner like myself. We're here to offer expertise and support on your journey towards financial success.

Keep your spirits high, and trust in your ability to make informed decisions. Your commitment to improving your financial situation is admirable, and I'm confident you'll achieve your goals with perseverance and sound planning.

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I have 1 Cr to invest, where should I invest for another 18 yrs to get a substantial growth to counter my retirement. I would need more than 8-10 Cr
Ans: Given your long investment horizon of 18 years and the goal of accumulating substantial wealth for retirement, here are some considerations for deploying your 1 Cr investment:

Diversified Equity Mutual Funds: Consider allocating a significant portion of your investment to diversified equity mutual funds. These funds invest across various sectors and market capitalizations, providing exposure to the growth potential of the equity market while managing risk through diversification.
Large Cap Funds: Include large-cap funds in your portfolio for stability and consistent returns. These funds invest in well-established companies with strong fundamentals and track records, making them relatively less volatile compared to mid-cap and small-cap funds.
Mid Cap and Small Cap Funds: Allocate a portion of your investment to mid-cap and small-cap funds to tap into the growth potential of emerging companies. These funds have the potential to deliver higher returns over the long term, albeit with higher volatility.
International Equity Funds: Consider diversifying globally by investing in international equity funds. These funds provide exposure to overseas markets and sectors, offering opportunities for geographical diversification and potentially higher returns.
Systematic Investment Plan (SIP): Implement a systematic investment plan (SIP) approach to invest regularly over time, taking advantage of rupee-cost averaging and compounding benefits. SIPs can help smooth out market volatility and build wealth steadily over the long term.
Balanced Funds: Explore balanced funds, which invest in a mix of equities and debt instruments. These funds offer a balanced approach to risk and return, suitable for investors seeking capital appreciation with relatively lower volatility.
Regular Review and Rebalancing: Regularly review your investment portfolio and rebalance it as needed to ensure alignment with your financial goals, risk tolerance, and market conditions. Consult with a certified financial planner periodically to make informed decisions and adjustments.
Tax Planning: Consider tax-efficient investment strategies to optimize your returns and minimize tax liabilities. Explore options such as Equity Linked Savings Schemes (ELSS) for tax-saving purposes within the overall investment framework.
By diversifying your investment across different asset classes and investment vehicles, staying disciplined with your investment approach, and seeking professional advice when needed, you can work towards achieving your retirement goal of accumulating 8-10 Cr over the next 18 years.

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I have invested 2 lumsum of 1lkh each with SBI Infrastructure and Tata Resource & Energy fund direct growth. I also started investing with SIP for 5K Mirae Asset Tax Saver Reg growth. 5k Kotak infrastructure and economic Reform fond Dir Growth 5k Parag Parikh flexicap fund dir growth 2k UTI Nifty 50 Index fund dir growth Any suggestions to modify or add new fund.
Ans: Considering your current portfolio and investment strategy, here are some recommendations to modify and optimize your mutual fund investments:

Shift from Direct Funds to Regular Funds: Consider switching from direct funds to regular funds, as they provide professional guidance and emotional support through a certified financial advisor or mutual fund distributor (MFD). Regular funds also offer similar returns without the need for active monitoring.
Diversify into Diversified Equity Funds: Instead of thematic funds like SBI Infrastructure and Tata Resource & Energy Fund, which carry higher risk due to their focused approach, consider diversifying into diversified equity funds. These funds invest across various sectors and companies, providing better risk-adjusted returns over the long term.
Consolidate SIPs into Fewer Funds: Review your SIPs and consider consolidating them into fewer funds to simplify your investment portfolio and reduce administrative hassle. Focus on quality diversified equity funds with a proven track record of consistent performance.
Consider Large Cap Funds: Include large-cap funds in your portfolio for stability and capital preservation. These funds invest in established companies with a track record of stable earnings and dividends, offering relatively lower risk compared to mid-cap and small-cap funds.
Evaluate Tax Planning Funds: Assess the necessity of tax-saving funds (ELSS) like Mirae Asset Tax Saver. While they offer tax benefits under Section 80C of the Income Tax Act, ensure they align with your overall investment objectives and risk profile.
Monitor and Rebalance Regularly: Regularly monitor your mutual fund investments and rebalance your portfolio periodically to align with your financial goals, risk tolerance, and market conditions. Seek professional guidance from a certified financial planner or mutual fund distributor to make informed decisions.
Stay Invested for the Long Term: Maintain a long-term perspective and avoid frequent churning of your portfolio based on short-term market fluctuations. Stay disciplined and committed to your investment strategy to achieve your financial objectives over time.
By following these recommendations and working closely with a qualified financial advisor or mutual fund distributor, you can optimize your mutual fund portfolio for better risk management and long-term wealth creation.

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I am Central govt. official with OPS scheme. Iam going to be retired on 2035. Presently investing Rs 25K on mutual fund and Rs.15K on PF.Montly income Rs.1.8L Kindly advice my investment needs any modification for getting Rs 1L after retirement without my official pension. I have home loan of emi Rs.22K
Ans: Given your current financial situation and retirement goals, here's a comprehensive approach to help you achieve your target of generating ?1 lakh per month after retirement without relying solely on your official pension:

Evaluate Retirement Corpus: Assess your projected expenses post-retirement, including living expenses, medical costs, and any other financial obligations.
Review Investments: Review your current investments, including mutual funds and PF contributions, to ensure they align with your retirement objectives. Consider diversifying your investment portfolio to manage risk effectively.
Increase SIP Contributions: Since your retirement is still a few years away, consider gradually increasing your SIP contributions to mutual funds. This will help boost your retirement corpus over time.
Explore Retirement-oriented Funds: Consider investing in retirement-oriented mutual funds or pension plans that offer growth potential and regular income post-retirement. These funds are designed to provide stable returns and periodic payouts during retirement.
Optimize PF Contributions: Continue contributing to your PF account, as it serves as a reliable retirement savings avenue with tax benefits. Explore the option of increasing your PF contributions if feasible.
Reduce Debt Burden: Aim to pay off your home loan before retirement to reduce financial liabilities and free up funds for other investments or expenses post-retirement.
Seek Professional Advice: Consult a certified financial planner (CFP) to create a customized retirement plan tailored to your specific financial goals, risk tolerance, and time horizon.
Regularly Monitor Investments: Keep track of your investment portfolio's performance and make necessary adjustments based on market conditions, changes in financial goals, or personal circumstances.
Stay Informed: Stay updated on relevant financial news, market trends, and investment opportunities to make informed decisions about your retirement planning strategy.
Emergency Fund: Maintain an adequate emergency fund to cover unexpected expenses or financial setbacks during your pre-retirement and retirement years.
By following these steps and making informed investment decisions, you can work towards achieving your goal of generating ?1 lakh per month after retirement while maintaining financial security and stability.

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